Chapter 395 Discussing the Marriage of Xu Zheng and Jiang Ping
At this moment, Lu Shengmin looked hesitant and was too embarrassed to ask Gu Nan.
On the other hand, the impatient Xu Yuqin next to Xu Yuqin spoke to Gu Nan, "Nan Nan, we want to ask something."
Gu Nan met Xu Yuqin's curious eyes and said, "Aunt Xu, what do you want to ask?"
Xu Yuqin hesitated for a few seconds and said tentatively, "Didn't a girl from the city come to my house last time? She said that Lu Hao was her cousin and they were looking for Lu Hao. We want to ask you, is Lu Hao from the city with him?"
Has your uncle here recognized you?"
During these days, Xu Yuqin saw that Lu Shengmin was worried, and she was also living in panic.
She also wanted to know what was going on at Uncle Lu Hao's house.
Where is Lu Hao's mother now?
When Xu Zheng first got married, the gossip she heard from the village elders or Lu Huifang was that Lu Hao's grandfather did not agree with the marriage between Lu Shengmin and Lu Hao's mother, and after giving birth to Lu Hao, he gave the child to Lu Shengmin, and then,
Lu Hao's mother married someone else.
At that time, she was quite sad.
She thought that Lu Shengmin was forced to marry her under pressure, but he was also frustrated and had no hope for Lu Hao's mother, so she was able to enter the Lu family.
But when the girl named Chen Ruolin came to look for her relatives, she told Lu Shengmin that her aunt was not married back then, but was sent to Hong Kong City by her grandfather, and her life and death are still uncertain.
After Lu Shengmin heard the news, he fell ill.
I have felt better in the past few days.
For so many years, Xu Yuqin has never felt safe. Everyone knows how her marriage to Lu Shengmin came about. There was no emotion, it was all about responsibility.
Ever since she learned that Lu Hao's mother was not married, she had been terrified every day. If Lu Hao's mother suddenly appeared, what would Lu Shengmin choose?
She doesn't need any love, she just wants a family.
After Xu Yuqin had the courage to ask, Lu Shengmin and Lu Huifang both looked at Gu Nan nervously, waiting for her answer.
Gu Nan shook his head, "No, Lu Hao won't recognize it."
As soon as Gu Nan finished speaking, Lu Shengmin breathed a sigh of relief.
He also wanted to ask some other questions, but due to Xu Yuqin's presence, it was difficult to ask, so he had to give up for now.
Xu Yuqin also wanted to ask about Lu Hao's mother, but in the end she didn't have the courage.
However, she has something more important and asks Gu Nan for help.
"Nan Nan, we have something else we want to discuss with you."
"Aunt Xu, what else can you do?" Gu Nan looked at her and asked doubtfully.
"It's about Xu Zheng."
When this topic was brought up, Xu Yuqin was both happy and embarrassed, "Xu Zheng...he wrote a letter saying that he and your cousin Jiang Ping were discussing a date. He said that Jiang Ping was afraid of her father's objection and did not dare to come back.
You want us to contact you to make the decision for her, what do you think we should do about this?"
Mentioning Xu Zheng and Jiang Ping, Gu Nan smiled, "Have they never returned home?"
Xu Yuqin replied, "No, but I may have to come back now. It's said that the weather is cold and there is not much work to do in the medicinal material processing factory. The two of them want to go home. Jiang Ping is afraid that her father will kidnap her, so she has not dared to do so."
Return."
Facing Xu Yuqin's troubled look, Gu Nan asked, "Then what do you think?"
"We don't know what to do. To be honest, Jiang Ping's father is quite difficult to deal with. I'm afraid he won't stop after we become relatives."
Xu Yuqin got a headache when she thought about marrying someone she had teased in the future.
They have seen Jiang Dahai's virtues. To be honest, being a relative with him is quite stressful.
"Are you opposed to Xu Zheng and Jiang Ping dating?" Gu Nan looked at Xu Yuqin and Lu Shengmin and asked seriously.
Lu Shengmin didn't say much. He was in no position to interfere in Xu Zheng's matter.
Xu Yuqin was very satisfied with Jiang Ping, "We don't object. You brought that girl to your home. I think she is quite good. The key is that Xu Zheng likes her. If they want it, we will, but her family is a bit bad.
Therefore, I want to ask your opinion, and Jiang Ping also wants you to make the decision for her."
Gu Nan said, "If you listen to my opinion, then I think you should first find a matchmaker and propose marriage to Jiang Dajia."
"Jiang Dahai is difficult to deal with, but after all, she is also Jiang Ping's mother's family. Let's not talk about whether we will interact with each other in the future. When you marry your daughter-in-law, you have to marry her through a matchmaker, right? You need a marriage certificate, right? They are close, and they will meet sooner or later. If they make a private appointment,
Jiang Ping will never be able to hold his head up for the rest of his life. Furthermore, if you don’t deal with Jiang Dahai, you won’t be able to stand it if he keeps making trouble every now and then.”
Jiang Ping was heartbroken by her own family and said she wanted to cut off the relationship with her father, but how could a relationship be cut off so easily?
The bloodline is there, the household registration is there, and her current status is still that of a girl who has not left the court.
If she wants to live in the countryside in the future, she must marry a matchmaker. If she lives directly with Xu Zheng without formalities or setting up a banquet, in a conservative rural village, the public's spittle will drown her.
After everything is settled and they get married, if Jiang Dahai still has this virtue, then... it's not impossible to sever the relationship.
"Pingping asked me to make the decision for her. I can only say that I respect her choice, but on the other side of Jianghai, your parents have to show up."
Lu Shengmin on the side nodded, "That's what I mean too. You have to give people gifts, so there's no point in marrying a wife without spending money."
Fang Guoping glanced at Lu Huifang and agreed, "Nan Nan is right. We must convince Jiang Dahai that the clear matchmaker is marrying her."
Lu Huifang followed him without hesitation back then, and now she is being discussed by many people.
Gu Nan looked at Xu Yuqin and spoke hesitantly, "However, Jiang Dahai may be a big loser. After all, Jiang Daming asked my grandfather for a gift of two thousand yuan, and Jiang Dahai will definitely follow suit. You have to be mentally prepared."
As for Jiang Dahai's character, I'm afraid he will only have a lot more.
She knew that Xu Yuqin was angry because Lu Hao had set a precedent by spending a large sum of money on marrying her.
She had to decide whether she was willing to spend the money.
When it came to the bride price, Xu Yuqin felt a twinge of pain.
When other families marry a daughter-in-law, the bride price is usually around one thousand, and there are some who marry a daughter-in-law with a bride price of eight hundred and eighty, and they also give her a TV cabinet, a tape recorder, and a kang cabinet.
When Gu Nan walked in, there were only two quilts.
It seems that Xu Zheng is going to follow Lu Hao's path.
In the past, Xu Yuqin would definitely be worried to death, but now she has no pressure. Xu Zheng's yard and land were given to his third uncle. In the end, he paid two thousand yuan in compensation, and the bride price was enough.
So she said happily, "It's okay. We can accept the gift of two thousand. The most important thing is to get a good wife."
After all, Xu Zheng was Xu Yuqin's biological son. She expressed her stance, and Gu Nan felt relieved.
She suggested, "Let's do this. You find a respected elder to propose marriage. First, check out Jiang Dahai's tone. Don't mention that Xu Zheng is with Jiang Ping now. Just propose a simple marriage proposal and see what he says."
Lu Shengmin thought for a few seconds and then focused on the respected elders in the village. "I'm going to find the old party secretary of our village. His daughter is married to Dawan Village. He is familiar with Jiang Dahai."
"Dad, after you find the old party secretary, then go to Dawan Village to find the village chief. If you two go together, we will definitely be able to do it."
"Then I will go to the village chief's house to call Xu Zheng now and tell him to let them come back when the marriage proposal is successful. The two of them have been very worried recently."
Xu Yuqin was about to go out, and Gu Nan took out his mobile phone and said, "I have a phone here, you can call it."