Although Ye Ming felt that what Xu Lizhong said made sense, he always felt that doing so seemed a bit unreasonable, so he said in a compromise way: "Brother Xu, how about this: I will go back to Beishan Hotel later and follow Yu
The county magistrate and others say hello and explain the situation. If they start dinner early, I will toast them a glass of wine and then rush over to have dinner with you and Deputy Secretary Wang. How about that?"
Xu Lizhong stared at him, sighed slightly and said: "Brother, you are too soft-hearted and too thin-skinned. This is your greatest advantage and also your biggest weakness. If you are too soft-hearted, you will lack the courage to make decisive decisions.
; If you are too thin-skinned, you will be easily influenced by other people's words and emotions. These two points will greatly hinder your future career.
"For example, today, I know that you want to build a good relationship with your future colleagues, and you don't want to offend them as soon as you get off the bus and set yourself up to be the enemy. However, you have to think clearly: those who don't obey you will not obey you after all.
, even if you eat and drink happily with them today, think
People who harm you will still harm you, and they will never treat you as a true friend just because you eat and drink with them; and those who want to get close to you and flatter you will never treat you just because you don't eat and drink with them.
I will hate you and alienate you because of this - do you think I am right?"
Ye Ming thought about his words carefully and said, "Brother Xu, I understand what you mean. But there is a factor in it: the people waiting for me to eat there today are not only some officials from the county, but also people from the Civil Security Bureau
Liu Zhengwen, executive deputy director of the Organization Department of the Municipal Party Committee, also
He made a special trip to send me off to take office. If I didn't go to dinner with him, not only would it be unreasonable, but it would also offend him. He is also an important leader of the organizational department. Offending him would be extremely harmful.
No benefit at all!"
Xu Lizhong nodded: "This is indeed a problem. But, Wang Xuewen is coming over later. He is the deputy secretary in charge of cadres of the Min'an Municipal Committee. If you go to the hotel first to have dinner with Deputy Minister Liu and the local people, and then come over
Accompanying Deputy Secretary Wang is another disrespect for him."
Having said this, he frowned and pondered for a moment, then suddenly picked up his cell phone and dialed Wang Xuewen again.
"Secretary Wang, are you leaving now? How long will it take to get to Beishan?"
"Director Xu, I have already set off. I can reach Beishan County in at most twenty minutes. By the way, is your friend from Beishan County? Have you arranged a place to eat? If not, I will call right away.
A friend of mine asked him to find a place with better taste and quieter place. I want to have a few drinks with Director Xu. Hahaha!"
Xu Lizhong knew that he wanted to inquire about his true intention of inviting him to drink today, so he simply said bluntly: "Secretary Wang, I will tell you the truth: this good friend of mine is Ye Ming, who has just arrived in Beishan as the Secretary of the Beishan County Party Committee. He is new here.
, I know nothing about the situation in Beishan, and I feel a little uneasy. I know his difficulties and want to provide him with some help. However, among the leaders of Min'an City, you are the only friend, so I had to call
I'm asking you for help."
In fact, Xu Lizhong is very familiar with Wei Jiehe, Secretary of the Min'an Municipal Party Committee, and Geng Xi, Director of the Municipal Party Committee Office. If you want to find them, you can find them, and they will definitely buy his face and provide help to Ye Ming. However, he weighed it for a long time
,Sleep
It would be too ostentatious to approach Wei Jiehe directly, and it would easily reach Secretary Lu’s ears. That would make Secretary Lu angry who really wanted Ye Ming to grow up independently. And Geng Xi ranked very low among the standing committee members of the Municipal Party Committee, so it would be inappropriate to approach him.
It must be useful.
Wang Xuewen, who has worked hard in Min'an City for many years, climbed up step by step along the path of deputy county magistrate, county magistrate, county party committee secretary, executive deputy mayor of Min'an City, and deputy municipal party committee secretary. He has a deep foundation in Min'an City.
He has many subordinates, and he also happens to want something from him, so it is most appropriate to find him.
Therefore, he deliberately said that he only had Wang Xuewen as a friend among the leaders of Min'an City, in order to give him a high hat and satisfy his vanity...
Sure enough, when Wang Xuewen heard this, his face was filled with excitement. He ignored the driver in the driver's seat and said in a slightly changed tone with excitement: "Director Xu, thank you for treating me as a friend. To be honest, you can
It is my greatest honor to make friends with you, and it is also my long-cherished wish. You can rest assured that since Secretary Ye is your friend, I will do my best to support him and help him. I will also report his situation at any time.
Report to you."
Xu Lizhong gave a satisfied "hmm" and asked again: "Secretary Wang, I have another question to ask: How is Vice Minister Liu of the Organization Department who will send Secretary Ye to take office tomorrow? How is he like? Do he have a good relationship with you?"
Wang Xuewen hurriedly said: "Director Xu, Xiao Liu is a pretty good person and has a good relationship with me. When he was working in Beishan, I was the one who nominated him to the Municipal Party Committee to serve as a member of the Standing Committee of the County Party Committee and the Organization Director. Later, it was I who suggested that he should be
He was transferred to the Organization Department of the Municipal Party Committee as deputy director."
Xu Lizhong understood immediately after hearing this: Wang Xuewen was Liu Zhengwen's backer and backer, and this relationship was the most ironclad. Therefore, he felt relieved and said to Wang Xuewen: "In this case, let me treat Deputy Minister Liu to a meal together
Food, it should be fine!"
"No problem, no problem at all. Director Xu, please rest assured that Liu Zhengwen has worked in the organization department for many years and has a strong sense of confidentiality. He will never tell outsiders things that should not be said. Moreover, his ambition is also
Very strong. If you invite him to dinner, he will definitely be very happy. How about I call him first and ask him to rush to Lanyuan Hotel to see you immediately? "
Xu Lizhong said hurriedly: "Secretary Wang, Vice Minister Liu is with the county leaders in Beishan now. It may be inconvenient for you to call. What I mean is to ask Secretary Ye to go to the Beishan Hotel immediately to avoid others in person."
It seems appropriate to invite Vice Minister Liu over for dinner."
Wang Xuewen immediately understood: Xu Lizhong wanted to give Ye Ming a chance to get closer to Liu Zhengwen, so he quickly replied: "Okay, okay, Director Xu is thoughtful. Secretary Ye will personally invite Xiao Liu. It's really good."
a little."
After Xu Lizhong hung up the phone, Ye Ming asked: "Brother Xu, do you know Deputy Secretary Wang? What is he like?"
It turned out that Ye Ming knew that due to his status, Xu Lizhong would not easily have contact with the officials below, let alone make any friends with them, so he asked this question.
Xu Lizhong narrowed his eyes slightly and replied: "He has a college classmate named Li Chaoyang. He used to work with me next to the chief and has a good relationship with me. According to Li Chaoyang, Wang Xuewen has pretty good official ethics and character.
The ability is also relatively strong. So
, last time he came specially from the capital and invited me to drink tea with Wang Xuewen. Through my observation, Wang Xuewen is indeed a good person, but I don’t want to have a close relationship with him yet, so last time he went to the provincial capital and wanted to be alone.