Xia Bicheng was robbed by Xia Chuchu, and after thinking about it, she realized that what she said made sense: if we only look at his personality, appearance and talent, Ye Ming is indeed a pretty good young man.
However, although Ye Ming is good, Xia Bicheng still feels that he is too far from his daughter: if Ye Ming has a complete family, his parents have official positions, or he works in the provincial capital and has a certain material foundation, then It makes sense.
But now, he is still working in that small Xinlang County, and his position is still at the deputy level. If he is to be transferred to the provincial capital, he will have to start over again. Moreover, he does not have any material foundation now. His daughter To marry him, you have to pay a lot of money. As the director of the provincial bureau, you have to say hello and find a way to deal with his job transfer and promotion. Wouldn't you be asking for trouble?
On the other hand, if Chu Chu finds Wang Xu as her boyfriend, not only will his family background be superior, but his father can also play a big role in his career advancement. That will be a great thing that kills two birds with one stone...
Thinking of this, Xia Bicheng, who had always had a good impression of Ye Ming, suddenly felt disgusted with him: This young man looked cheerful and sunny, and he was upright. He didn't expect that he was so scheming, and he came to pursue him quietly. His own daughter is married, and I don’t know what means he used to make his precious daughter, who has a higher eye for finding a partner, be moved. Just thinking about it makes people angry...
He estimated that Ye Ming must have put a lot of thought and effort into pursuing Chu Chu. His purpose was also very clear, which was to become a veritable "Prince-in-law" of the Tianjiang Provincial Local Taxation System through falling in love and getting married to Chu Chu. Lay the foundation, set up the ladder, and pave the way for him to climb up in the system in the future...
After analyzing Ye Ming's motives, he decided to remind his daughter, and said to Xia Chuchu with sincerity: "Chu Chu, you have been working for so many years, and it stands to reason that you have accumulated a lot of social experience, and you know people well." His ability should also improve. I estimate that Xiaoye must have put a lot of thought into pursuing you and used many methods to make you like him. I don’t know if his methods are clever or not, but now that you are Falling in love with him proves that his methods are indeed effective.
But, have you analyzed: Why does Ye Ming pursue you? What is his purpose in pursuing you? Is it because I am the director of the provincial bureau that he pursues you so hard? If this is the reason, then what will he do to you? Whether he is sincere, whether he will treat you well as always in the future, whether the two of you will be happy in the future despite such a big gap, I hope you will think about these issues carefully and don't be fooled by his temporary hospitality and enthusiasm. Don't be carried away by an illusory love.
I have always believed that there is no pure love in this world that can be completely separated from the material basis, the kind that can abandon all external conditions, abandon the huge family and status differences between the two parties, abandon basic material conditions, and desperately search for the so-called true love. Stories can only exist in movies, television or novels, but are unlikely to appear in real life. In my opinion, the so-called pure love is an unrealistic fantasy and a illusory castle in the air.
So, Chu Chu, I advise you: You must think carefully about your relationship with Ye Ming. Don’t be fooled by his temporary rhetoric or vows of eternal love, and don’t only focus on appearance and ignore the family relationship between both parties. , there is a huge gap in social status, economic conditions, etc. This gap is sometimes unbridgeable, insurmountable, and irreversible. Do you understand what I am saying?"
Xia Chuchu listened to his father's long lecture. The central idea was that Ye Ming had ulterior motives in pursuing her. He was interested in his father-in-law, who was the director of the provincial bureau. She couldn't help but feel angry and anxious: She had just tried so hard to coax and scare her. After finally dragging Ye Ming to his home, he was thinking about how to treat him better so that he could leave Chen Mengqi and be with him. If his father showed any disdain for him when talking to Ye Ming later, With his arrogant temperament and arrogant character, it would be strange not to leave in a hurry. Maybe it will be difficult for me to meet him again in the future...
Thinking of this, she stamped her feet anxiously and said: "Dad, please don't judge a gentleman with a villain's heart. Ye Zi is not the kind of person you imagined. Let me remind you again: his character is very arrogant. He also has a bad temper. If you say these things to him later and offend his temper, he won't care whether you are the director of the provincial bureau or not. He might push you against the south wall on the spot, making you unable to do anything. Taiwan, don’t blame me for not reminding you when the time comes,”
Seeing his daughter protecting Ye Ming like this, Xia Bicheng felt shouting and angry in his heart, but he had no choice but to sigh and compromise: "Okay, I won't say anything to offend him today, but now he and Xiao Wang both If there is a chance, the competition should be fair, so you can’t say anything unpleasant to Xiao Wang later, both sides should be taken care of. Do you hear me, if you offend Xiao Wang, I won’t agree to it,”
At this moment, Xia Chuchu's mother opened the door and came in, saying that dinner was ready, and asked the father and daughter to go out and prepare for dinner.
Ye Ming originally planned to give the bag of wedding candies to Xia Chuchu and then leave. Unexpectedly, he was "kidnapped" by her and brought to her home. Moreover, as soon as he entered the door, he realized that Director Xia did not seem to welcome him, and among them The reason is of course obvious: Director Xia thinks he is not good enough for his daughter, and his love affair with Chu Chu is just a toad wanting to eat swan meat.
Especially after seeing Director Xia call Chu Chu into the study with a livid face to talk, this feeling of looking down on himself became even more obvious...
Ye Ming is a person who loves face and is very strong. He has a typical "spring personality": if you follow him and don't move him, he will be safe and motionless; but if you press him, he will It will rebound strongly. The tighter you press and the harder you press, the greater its rebound force will be...
For example, today, his original intention was not to regard Xia Chuchu as his girlfriend, but he was just a little curious and wanted to see what the boyfriend introduced to her was like.
But now, when I think of Director Xia looking down on me like this and calling Xia Chuchu alone into the study to question and do some ideological work, I can't help but feel arrogant: Don't you look down on me? Don't you think I'm not worthy of your daughter? I want to show you how affectionate and affectionate she is today, to let you know that I am not here to curry favor with you, the director, but that your daughter wants to be with me and have sex with me...