Fang Damei and Zhang Jing were conducting experiments while discussing many issues.
Fang Damei, "Are you excited?"
Zhang Jing, "Just thinking about it makes me excited."
Fang Damei, "Can you tell me why you are so anxious to get married?"
Zhang Jing, "It's not that my mother is worried."
Fang Damei, "Isn't your lover anxious?"
Zhang Jing, "A little bit."
Fang Damei, "A little bit, I'm too anxious. I haven't heard that you are getting married, so why are the dates so tight? A girl gets married once in her life, it should be very grand. Use time, energy, and prepare well.
.To get married in such a hurry, wouldn’t it be a marriage to one’s son? It should be a double happiness.”
Zhang Jing, "You are really good at association. How did you come up with this aspect?"
Fang Damei, "Look at the little girls who are getting married around you. How many of them are not marrying their sons? Some girls are forced to get married because they dare not abort the child in their belly. They might have had an abortion before.
How many have fallen out?"
Zhang Jing, "What you said is true. But do you think I would do that?"
Fang Damei, "I don't dare to talk about the relationship between men and women. Who can guarantee that you won't be like that? Then again, what's wrong with that? In this era, it is still so feudal, is it useful? Even if it is
Getting married can only be said to be a double blessing. What's wrong with that?"
Zhang Jing, "This is a typical confession trick."
Fang Damei, "Am I as unbearable as you say? There is no need to coerce or induce me to do this. If I were like this, I would let the whole world know about the double happiness. It's just that the old master in our family is always like that
Modesty, courtesy and thrift, a person who studies history has turned himself into a feudal brain. We have been in love for more than ten years. The relationship ended here. It is really unbearable. Sometimes I feel
I want to pinch him."
Zhang Jing, "What you said is too explicit, please let it go."
Fang Damei, "Isn't this my best friend?"
Zhang Jing, "For a celebrity like you, it's better not to say such things. Be careful that walls have ears."
Fang Damei, "You don't know that I am stupid and sweet. I just say whatever I want."
Zhang Jing, "Of course I know."
Fang Damei, "Then do you still need to persuade me?"
Zhang Jing, "I know that all your thoughts are devoted to scientific research. You never quarrel with others. Even in a clean unit like a research institute, you must pay attention to propriety. Wherever there are people, there will be fights. If you fight,
Do you still hope that all people will be as humble, courteous and thrifty as your Master Qian? As long as these people in modern times achieve their own goals, they have no bottom line. It can be said that the means justify the means. As the saying goes, you must not have the intention to harm others.
, it’s essential to be on guard against others.”
Fang Damei, "It seems that I have memorized too much "The Thousand Character Classic". It is difficult to paint a tiger with its skin and bones, and it is difficult to know the face of a person but not the heart. It is difficult to say only a few words when meeting a person, but not to put the whole heart into it. These famous quotes on governance can only
Just say it, forget it. If you really use these words to restrain your behavior, it would be too pedantic. I always say that our family is old and rich, and studying Ruxue has turned me into a modest gentleman. In fact, I have fallen into the trap of feudalism.
It is very irrational for people who study history to put themselves into history. We must look at history objectively and interpret history from a modern perspective. It is the responsibility of historians to let history find modern expressions.
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Zhang Jing, "Why did you start instructing your old money to study history again?"
Fang Damei, "He is researching every day and looking for historical truth every day. This is not the direction of studying history. It is to learn from the past. Use history to guide us in the direction of development and the things we need to do now. We cannot talk about history based on history.
.Then what is the purpose of connecting the past to the present? Restoring the truth is of little significance. Playing the guiding role of history and letting history speak is the research direction of historians. We discuss this every day, and no one can convince the other.
One is into history and the other is into modern technology. Do you think the two of us are at odds with each other? Hahaha."
Zhang Jing, "This is good. We can discuss and fight, but we can't fight because we are in peace."
Fang Damei, "It's also a theory. Can you fight with your family's Qi Dazhi?"
Zhang Jing, "Qi Dazhi doesn't have the courage. He must obey my words in front of me, otherwise I will ignore him."
Fang Damei, "Typical Cold War mentality."
Zhang Jing, "This is my special trick."
Fang Damei, "This is the most undesirable thing. If two people have something, they must communicate quickly and solve it quickly. As the saying goes, when a couple quarrels, the quarrel at the head of the bed will lead to a quarrel at the end of the bed. How can there be a child like you who starts a cold war before getting married?
Yes. I tell you to go home as soon as possible and make preparations as soon as possible. Not only the physical preparations, but also the mental preparations are more important."
Zhang Jing, "Have you studied psychology? How do you know that I am afraid of marriage?"
Fang Damei, "Are you afraid of marriage?"
Zhang Jing, "It's really a little bit, so I don't want to go home now."
Fang Damei, "I didn't see it. You told me that you were very happy when you got married. And you used a trick to get me to be your bridesmaid. If you didn't want to get married and had a marriage certificate, how could you be so happy? You were so unscrupulous."
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Zhang Jing, "What are you talking about? What do you mean by hook or by crook? We are best friends, and if you don't agree, of course I will have to fight hard. You just use the word 'scrupulous' to describe it. Can you please be a little bit more careful with your words?"
Okay? My sir."
Fang Damei, "I'm sorry, I'm sorry. I couldn't help but say something. Anyway, looking at your situation just now, it doesn't look like you are afraid of marriage at all. It can be seen from your eyes how much you desire to get married. Eyes are the soul.
Window, you can’t fool anyone, don’t fool me again with just a few words.”
Zhang Jing, "Believe it or not, it's what's in my heart anyway. I never tell anyone else, only you. Who knows that you still don't believe it, and you're still your best friend? Forget it. I'd better stay aloof and be you."
Sir."
Fang Damei, "Then what did you say you were afraid of marriage to show?"
Zhang Jing, "Don't you believe it?"
Fang Damei, "Only when you tell me can I judge whether I believe it or not?"
Zhang Jing, "There is no basis for trust at all. What else can I tell you? You don't believe me even if I tell you."
Fang Damei, "Just assume I believe it."
Zhang Jing, "What does it mean to believe it? If you are so reluctant, let's forget it."
Fang Damei said, "Miss, don't act like a young lady with me. Let's talk about it. Let's have a good chat. You may not feel that way anymore. Don't talk clearly. Words are the key to happiness. You
Don’t you know? You don’t know these governance quotes, do you? Tell them, and I will help you analyze them.”
Zhang Jing, "But you asked me to say it, you can't say you don't believe it."
Fang Damei, "Tell me."
Zhang Jing, "Many of the classmates around me are married, and some even have children. It's not unusual for a boy to get married and a girl to get married. But I just can't get over that hurdle.
Now that I have married myself off, what will happen if something goes wrong in the future? Once a woman gives away her virginity, she has nothing left. Look at my classmates, there are so many things like this happening around my friends.
There are many. Marriage is followed by divorce. One classmate got divorced after only three days of marriage. Several classmates had children, only to find out that their men had cheated on them. They wanted to divorce, but they suffered a loss. What should they do with the children?
Don't get divorced, I feel aggrieved. There are too many such things around me, so I think it is beautiful when we are in love. Marriage is the tomb of love, don't you think so?"
Fang Damei, "Haha, I didn't expect you to be so thoughtful. Let me talk to you. First of all, two people get married with full trust in both parties. You have been in love for such a long time, don't you know your fiancé?
?Who is Qi Dazhi? You should have some idea in your mind. If you don’t even have this little certainty, why are you still talking about marriage? This is the basis on which one or two people should build sincerity."
Zhang Jing, "What about the second one?"
Fang Damei, "What is the purpose of falling in love? On the one hand, it is to enhance understanding between two people, and on the other hand, it is to deepen feelings. Many girls will be hot-headed when they are in love. Isn't this unforgivable? It is said that love brings beauty to others.
The IQ of women is equal to 0. I say this to make some sense. Whenever you encounter true love, you will definitely be passionate, and you may not think about practical problems. Free love is not like a blind date. If it is a blind date, it will make people
Pinna, wealth, appearance, and all kinds of conditions are put first. Free love is different. When you meet the right person, everything is left behind. So when you are in love, it is sweet, and you are married.
Marriage means entering the tomb of love. This is the truth. So now I want to ask you whether your IQ was equal to zero when you fell in love with Qi Dazhi? Did you consider the actual conditions? "
Zhang Jing, "Of course we got married by decree in the first few years. Slowly, the two of us started to create a world for two. The conditions of their family and ours are very good. It can be said that now we have a house and a car.
.And other characters have good prospects for getting into civil service jobs. Now he has participated in targeted poverty alleviation and has become the first secretary in our village."
Fang Damei said, "Oh, so that's it." This chapter has been completed!