Every teacher has a different attitude towards puppy love.
Most older teachers still adhere to the traditional concept of "puppy love must be nipped in the cradle".
This is affected by factors such as the age in which they were born, their life experiences, their educational environment, and so on.
Some young teachers like Xu Jie have a more tolerant attitude towards puppy love.
For teachers born in the 1980s and 1990s, the Internet has gradually developed and matured during their growth.
Their openness and tolerance are higher than those of their predecessors, which is normal.
Of course, there are no absolutes.
Some old teachers have a tolerant attitude towards puppy love, while some young teachers have a traditional attitude towards puppy love.
There are also such situations.
After all, the same rice feeds all kinds of people.
Xu Jie did not expect that he could change other teachers' concepts and ideas in just one or two sentences.
That's not realistic.
He simply hoped that what happened last night would not leave an indelible psychological shadow on Shen Hui and Wan Xiaoxiang.
Many times, people's stress response is delayed.
Last night outside No. 1 Middle School.
When Shen Hui, Wan Xiaoxiang and others were beaten, they might be afraid or frightened in their hearts.
But because the three of them were hugging each other, they wouldn't be too affected at the time.
When I returned to the dormitory, it was late at night, lying on the bed, alone.
They will inevitably think about what happened at night.
Human imagination and speculation will flourish like crazy at this time.
The fears and fears originally hidden deep in my heart may become infinitely magnified.
At this time, if teachers and parents impose further punishment, it will undoubtedly make things worse.
Where does students’ rebellious psychology come from?
Isn’t it just that if you do something wrong, you only get scolded and punished?
The way Shen Hui, Zhou Tao, and Wan Xiaoxiang handled the matter last night was indeed wrong.
You should not leave school without permission.
But no matter what, they are still minors aged sixteen or seventeen.
Many ideas are imperfect and many actions are impulsive, which are all normal things.
If someone guides them to the right path, they will also be able to think, and they will naturally know where they went wrong.
And blind punishment and punishment only encourage their rebellious psychology.
What happened last night was temporarily suppressed because of Xu Jie's suggestion.
When Xu Jie returned to the classroom, Chu Xiaoran had already returned from a morning run with his classmates.
After telling them to read well in the morning, he called Zhou Tao to the office.
It was only around 7 o'clock in the morning, and the hospital wasn't even open yet.
The First People's Hospital of Zhongnan City is not far from Zhenhua Middle School, and it only takes about ten minutes by taxi.
Therefore, Xu Jie planned to chat with Zhou Tao first, and then ask Chu Xiaoran to accompany him to the hospital.
In the office, Zhou Tao lowered her head, looking like she had done something wrong.
There were two bruises on his face.
At the brow bone, the wound opened last night has scabbed over.
On the surface, the injury does not appear to be serious.
Xu Jie knew that his injuries were more on his back and arms.
Xu Jie found it funny when he saw this kid's expression of knowing his mistake.
Who boasted in Haikou last night that there were too many lice and they were not itchy?
Don’t you think the punishment is too much for your kid?
Who are you showing this look to now?
Xu Jie generally understands Zhou Tao's character.
Outgoing and strong personality.
Judging from yesterday's performance, Xu Jie added another comment to him: "He is righteous and knows how to fight."
Xu Jie knew that what happened last night had the least impact on Zhou Tao.
When this kid was at the police station, in front of other police officers, he boasted that he was not afraid at all when he faced more than a dozen gangsters.
At that time, I asked Xu Jie to pin him down on the chair and ask him to cooperate well in taking notes and not to brag all day long.
"How did you feel after a good night's sleep?"
"Is there anything particularly uncomfortable on your body?"
Xu Jie asked with a smile.
Although Xu Jie judged by himself that Zhou Tao should only have some superficial injuries.
But it is still necessary for him to have a full-body examination.
Don’t be afraid of ten thousand, just be afraid of what happens.
Only when he saw the test data from those precise medical instruments could Xu Jie truly feel relieved.
Zhou Tao scratched her head and said, "Teacher Xu, I feel pretty good."
"It shouldn't be a big problem."
Xu Jie nodded and then asked: "Now let me ask you, what do you think is the best way to handle what happened last night?"
It doesn't matter if you do something wrong.
Who in this world has never done anything wrong?
The ancients said that knowing your mistakes can make a lot of improvements.
When you know you are wrong, you have to think about where you went wrong.
Just beating, scolding and punishing, they know they are wrong!
The reason why Xu Jie asked this was because he wanted Zhou Tao to think for himself.
Is there a better way to handle what happened last night?
If so, what is the method? And how to do it?
Zhou Tao was startled.
He hadn't thought about this problem.
If he made a mistake before, no one would give him a chance to think about where he made a mistake.
This is normal.
What's wrong with fighting?
It’s all wrong!
This is a view recognized by most parents and teachers.
But they are all students, how can they fight for no reason?
Since there is a reason, Xu Jie thinks that the reason should be clarified.
Not only do their teachers and parents understand it, but the students themselves also need to understand it.
Only in this way, the next time they encounter a similar problem, they will know, oh, it turns out that this matter cannot be handled this way, it must be handled that way.
This itself is also a process of learning and progress.
If they make a mistake, don't you guide them to think about where they went wrong? Why they made a mistake? How can they improve?
Then this mistake is just a mistake.
Next time we meet, they will do it again.
Making mistakes again and again, eventually falling into the abyss, causing irreparable consequences.
Xu Jie has always believed that,
Three feet of ice cannot be frozen in one day.
There is never a hopeless student.
Every student who seems to be hopeless must have gradually sunk in sudden situations, accidents, and mistakes again and again!
How can anyone be born with no cure?
joke!
Don't doubt anyone's ability to understand and think.
Zhou Tao and others, teenagers of sixteen or seventeen years old, are at the stage when their brains are most active.
After they accidentally make a mistake, someone must wake them up.
Let them think for themselves and clearly understand the mistakes they have made.
Only in this way will they grow and transform.
Rather than, oh, just write a review and that's it.
Oh, just hit it twice, curse it a few times, and it’s over.
Just like this, how can they recognize their mistakes? How can they learn from their mistakes?
Zhou Tao had never seriously thought about such a problem before.
At this time, under Xu Jie's patient guidance, he began to really think about it for the first time.