There are always some things that are rarely or never mentioned to others.
This is why life is unsatisfactory nine times out of ten, and you can't even talk to others about it.
Especially young people like Xu Tianxing and others who are sixteen, seventeen, seventeen or eighteen years old.
They are in an important stage of life - adolescence.
Children in this period have very active brains and thinking.
They will think about many, many things.
Or the longing for the future, or the expectation for love, or the wild imagination...
Wait wait wait.
Many outlooks on life, world views, and values are slowly formed at this stage.
Therefore, correct guidance and education have become very critical.
Xu Jie looked at Xu Tianxing's struggling and hesitant expression, and knew that he must be hiding something in his heart that he would never mention to others.
He had no need to break the casserole and get to the bottom of it, so he let Xu Tianxing relax.
If you can’t say it, don’t want to say it, just don’t say it!
No big deal.
He, Xu Jieke, has never been in the habit of forcing others to make things difficult for him.
So, he stood up proactively and said with a smile: "Let's go back to the classroom and prepare for the next class."
Xu Tianxing struggled internally for a moment, then raised his head and glanced at Teacher Xu who had already stood up.
His eyes suddenly became firm.
If Teacher Xu can't be trusted, then who can he trust?
Moreover, after years of studying law, he has gradually looked away from that matter.
He thought it was time to untie his knot and stop worrying about the past.
So, he smiled and said:
"Teacher Xu, the reason why I like law is because when my parents divorced, we fought a lawsuit for several years."
"That incident left an indelible impression on my heart."
When Xu Jie heard Xu Tianxing's words, his heart sank and he sat down again.
It turns out that Xu Tianxing’s parents had divorced a long time ago?
Xu Jie still doesn't know about this matter.
That's right, the formation of every poor student must have one or another reason.
Although Xu Tianxing's original talent in mathematics was a bit poor, his talents in other subjects were all okay, ranging from good to excellent.
If there were no special reasons, with his academic talent, he would not end up in Class 9.
If you work hard, there should be no problem in the regular class.
Today, he is willing to tell Xu Jie these thoughts, which proves that the knot in his heart has been resolved by himself.
This was something that Xu Jie did not expect and at the same time felt extremely pleasantly surprised.
This kind of behavior shows that Xu Tianxing has a very strong psychological adjustment ability after studying law on his own.
This is an ability that few children of his age have!
In the next few minutes, Xu Tianxing smiled and expressed his feelings very calmly.
The knot in my heart is difficult to resolve, and my heart is sad.
But most of the time, only a touch of a certain point is needed.
This knot in my heart, this barrier in my heart, is like a thin layer of window paper that breaks with just one prick.
Xu Jie listened patiently.
From Xu Tianxing's words, he understood why this child was so obsessed with law.
When Xu Tianxing was 11 years old, there were rifts in the relationship between his parents.
The two had a huge quarrel over the divorce, which was known to their relatives and friends.
Property division, lawsuits, quarrels with each other.
Xu Tianxing's custody rights were litigated, and everyone used their own methods.
Their divorce lawsuit started when Xu Tianxing was 11 years old and lasted until he was 15 years old!
Grandparents and grandparents kept saying bad things about each other in front of Xu Tianxing.
With such a family environment, what does Xu Tianxing think?
Only then did Xu Jie realize that Xu Tianxing had once been autistic, had low self-esteem, and had gone to extremes.
In Xu Jie's opinion, this is completely normal!
Doesn't such a chaotic family force children to develop extreme personalities?
However, after entering junior high school, Xu Tianxing came into contact with some superficial knowledge of law in politics class.
From then on, he fell in love with law uncontrollably.
It was law that healed his inner wounds.
Such a miraculous thing made Xu Jie marvel in his heart!
How much impact does parents' divorce have on children?
Xu Jie could list too many bad things just by thinking about it.
For example, it will cause a shadow on the child's heart.
For example, it will cause children to lack father's or mother's love as they grow up.
For example, it will make children withdrawn and unsociable.
Wait wait wait.
All in all, divorce between parents will definitely have a huge impact on the children.
There is no doubt about this.
But Xu Tianxing's hobby actually cured his mental trauma.
Simply amazing!
Xu Jie would not know that his attitude towards the students was actually the final step in Xu Tianxing's change of heart!
Xu Tianxing told Xu Jie bit by bit these inner feelings that had never been revealed to outsiders.
This is his trust and respect for Teacher Xu.
It’s also him saying goodbye to his past self!
The impact of his parents' divorce on him has completely disappeared today!
From now on, he can calm down and face his divorced parents.
In his heart, there is no longer loneliness, hesitation, anger, and powerlessness...
From now on, focus on the sun!
Xu Jie smiled and patted Xu Tianxing on the shoulder.
"If you are interested in law, you should know that children are not dependents of their parents."
"Everyone is an independent individual."
"Teacher hopes that you can live a good life from now on and stop worrying about these things."
Xu Tianxing smiled and nodded, "Yeah."
"Teacher Xu, thank you!"
Xu Jie smiled and shook his head. As a teacher, you should think about your students. Isn't this what you should do?
In his mind, Xu Tianxing's training plan was gradually taking shape at this time.
Xu Tianxing is interested in law and has unparalleled legal talent.
Xu Jie naturally wanted to send him to the most prestigious institution of higher learning in the legal field for further study.
The National People's Congress, National Chengchi University, or Qingbei University are all institutions of higher learning with very impressive law majors.
The path to studying law cannot be achieved through self-study alone!
No matter how talented you are, even if you are like Xu Tianxing, it will not work!
Why?
Because this road requires a platform and connections!
If one person works alone, he will ultimately be unable to achieve scale effects.
But law is in great need of scale effect and cluster effect!
Just like Teacher Luo Xiang, the more people see his Dharma popularization, the more people he can influence.
"By the way, what are you going to tell your classmates in the evening self-study tonight?"
On the way back to the classroom with Xu Tianxing, Xu Jie asked with a smile.
Xu Tianxing smiled and replied: "Teacher Xu, I have already thought about it."
“Let’s talk about the Civil Code today!”
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After the third class in the afternoon, Xu Jie came to Jinya Academy.
He looked at Li Hao who was ranking and said with a smile:
"After you finish this, you go back and clean up."
"No need to come over tomorrow, I will go directly to your home to pick you up."
The lpl spring split is about to start, and the training matches between the major teams have already begun.
The trial training agreed between Xu Jie and the edg e-sports club will be tomorrow.