"Ah, auntie, I am Xiaoshuai's classmate. My name is Mengmeng."
Although Mengmeng was a little frightened by Li Yan's attitude, she quickly regained her composure and said in a clear voice: "That's it. I want to invite Xiaoshuai and other classmates to play at our house tomorrow."
"The other students have already agreed, and now Xiaoshuai is the only one left."
"Auntie, can you let Xiao Shuai come over and play with us tomorrow?"
After saying that, Mengmeng looked at Li Yan with big clear eyes.
It’s hard for anyone to say no to this cute little face full of expectations.
But Li Yan was unmoved, her expression remained indifferent, and her tone was very flat, "No, you can just play."
"mom……"
Zhang Shuai glanced at his mother timidly, pursed his lips and made a sound.
Li Yan lowered her head and glared at Zhang Shuai.
The latter immediately stopped talking and lowered his head.
Dare not say anything anymore.
It can be seen that Li Yan is still very dignified at home, and Zhang Shuai is also very afraid of his mother.
Then, Li Yan squeezed Zhang Shuai's hand tightly, indicating that it was time for him to leave.
Then he took steps to leave.
Mengmeng followed beside her and continued to persuade: "Auntie, why don't you agree with Xiao Shuai playing with us?"
"We are classmates and good friends. We will have fun and protect Xiaoshuai."
"Auntie, if you are willing, you can come and play together. My family is very big."
"Well..."
"Daddy will also prepare a lot of delicious food..."
Li Yan glanced at Mengmeng coldly and said, "Your family is big and rich, but we can't afford it. Xiaoshuai, let's go home!"
After saying that, she forcefully dragged Zhang Shuai away.
Zhang Shuai was almost knocked down.
At this time, Zhang Wenhao, Wu Siyang, Su Zixuan and other children all ran over.
"Auntie, just let Xiaoshuai play with us. Everyone is going to Mengmeng's house tomorrow, but Xiaoshuai won't go..."
"Auntie, if you don't ask Xiaoshuai, he will definitely want to go too."
"That's right, Auntie, it's not good for you to be like this."
"..."
A group of children surrounded Zhang Shuai and Li Yan, chattering.
"You all get out of the way." Li Yan frowned.
But she was worried about hurting these children, so she didn't dare to make any big moves.
"Zhang Shuai's mother," Gu Yue saw the situation here and walked over, with a gentle and bright smile on her face, and said to Li Yan: "Zhang Shuai's mother, the children have no ill intentions, they just want to help Zhang Shuai integrate better
We just want to get along better as a group."
Gu Yue came to Li Yan and lowered her voice: "Zhang Shuai's mother, I don't know if you have noticed that your Zhang Shuai is a bit introverted, timid, doesn't like talking to others, and even has a little low self-esteem."
She gently rubbed Zhang Shuai's head and continued: "In fact, at their age, it is a critical moment for character development. The character at this time may stay with them throughout their lives."
"Zhang Shuai's mother, I think you don't want to see your son become a person who dares not socialize with others, is introverted, and has low self-esteem, right?"
"Actually, this is a good opportunity for him to give it a try, get along well with other children, and integrate into the group. This will definitely be good for Zhang Shuai."
Gu Yue smiled, her face full of tenderness, and her tone was very gentle, "Zhang Shuai's mother, don't worry about Xiao Shuai's safety. Teacher Zhang, Teacher Ye and I will take good care of him and the other children."
"I can assure you of this."
"If you are still worried, you can come together tomorrow."
Li Yan's face softened a little, but her attitude remained firm, and she said: "Teacher Gu, I know you are a good teacher and I know you are doing good for the children, but forget it about going out to play. I know my son.
He doesn't like that kind of situation..."
"Mom..." Zhang Shuai raised his head and spoke softly.
Seeing this, Gu Yue said: "Zhang Shuai's mother, why don't you ask Xiao Shuai's opinion? He is four years old and has already formed a sense of self. In fact, he knows what he likes and doesn't like. Zhang Shuai's mother, I really
You can ask him for his suggestions and listen to your child’s thoughts.”
Li Yan gritted her teeth.
Slowly he lowered his head and looked at his son.
Zhang Shuai bit his lip and raised his head.
It can be seen that there is a bit of desire in his eyes.
"Xiao Shuai, tell mom, do you want to play with your classmates?" Gu Yue smiled gently at Zhang Shuai and said encouragingly.
"I, I..."
Zhang Shuai stuttered twice, finally summoned up the courage, looked at his mother and said, "Mom, I want to! I want to play with Mengmeng and the others!"
He gently shook his mother's hand and said, "Mom, just let me go, okay?"
"Where are you going!" Li Yan glared at her son and said, "Why should we play with others? Look at them, they are all glamorous, look at yourself, look at your mother! The child is not in our circle.
, don’t force yourself to go inside, it will make you bruised all over.”
As he spoke, Li Yan's eyes turned red.
Gu Yue probably guessed something and said: "Zhang Shuai's mother, children are the purest. Who they like or hate comes from their hearts and has nothing to do with anything outside."
"It is undeniable that there are some gaps in our society, and it is impossible for everyone to be at the same level, but at least, at their age, they should not be affected by these things. Children's intentions are the purest and truest
!”
"Zhang Shuai's mother, I know what you are worried about, but I think these things may be just your unilateral worries. Why not give it a try?"
"Perhaps, you will find something different, and Zhang Shuai will change his current mentality."
What Gu Yue said is not unreasonable.
However, inferiority complex is not formed in a day or two, nor can it be eliminated with a few words.
Zhang Shuai is from a single-parent family, raised by his mother Li Yan alone, and his economic conditions are not very good. Among the families of Qisi Kindergarten students, he is almost at the bottom.
Therefore, Li Yan has low self-esteem and does not have the confidence to communicate and get along with other students' parents on an equal footing.
And this mentality was also passed on to Zhang Shuai through some unconscious words in his daily life.
This caused Zhang Shuai to develop an inferiority complex since he was a child. On the first day he came to kindergarten, he knew in his heart that he could not compare with others.
Under this kind of mentality, Zhang Shuai naturally cannot get along with other children on an equal footing.
Gu Yue blamed herself because she didn't discover this until today.
If it is discovered earlier, it may be corrected sooner.
Parents are their children's first teachers, and all their behaviors will be learned and imitated by their children.
It will not do any good for Zhang Shuai's growth if he continues to feel inferior like this.
Gu Yue was a little anxious.
But Li Yan could not get rid of the psychological shadow so easily.