Ye Fang took Hua Zhao to visit her neighbors, with the intention of formally introducing her to everyone, indicating that she recognized her niece-in-law.
Hua Zhao's craftsmanship has been greatly praised by everyone.
Hua Zhao felt that something was not good. Her oven would probably not be available in the future... Several aunties expressed that they wanted to learn skills from her! Some even directly said that they would go to her with materials and ask her to help them.
Done.
Hua Zhao's smile was a little stiff. She had never met such a neighbor in her previous life.
Ye Fang wanted to laugh, but she rejected everyone directly: "That's not possible. My little flower is pregnant. She can't be tired. She was exhausted from doing so many things today. She needs to have a good rest in the future."
Everyone suddenly woke up and remembered who Ye Fang was. She was a person who even the dean wouldn't give face to when his temper got hot.
Everyone had to give up the idea of using the oven to practice their skills.
After returning home, Ye Fang said to Hua Zhao: "Getting along with neighbors is also a skill. You have to be moderate. They spoke to you yesterday because they were kind-hearted and refused to fight against injustice. It was also because Xu Mei went too far and offended them all.
"It's a good thing that you remember their kindness. If they encounter similar things in the future, just speak up and help them. Don't characterize them as good people just because of this incident. Be grateful and let them take whatever they want.
"That will only make them go further and eventually break into your house and get involved in your family's affairs!" Ye Fang said sincerely.
Are many young couples living alone being bullied by powerful neighbors? The young couples are so proud that they cannot be wiped out, so others take advantage of them. People may not remember their good deeds, but call them stupid behind their backs.
There are many such neighbors, including several in their corridor! Not everyone is qualified and self-conscious.
Hua Zhao nodded, indicating that he had been taught.
She really has never experienced any excellent neighbors. Her relationship with the neighbors in her previous life was just acquaintances. The most common conversations she had with them were: "Did your house have a power outage too?" "When will the water come on?"
Being bullied by neighbors into coming to your home? That's impossible!
But at this point, it's really possible.
"Old Mrs. Liu across the street likes to borrow things." Ye Fang didn't want her to experience it herself, so he had to give her an example: "I'll borrow a spoonful of soy sauce today, a spoonful of vinegar tomorrow, a piece of garlic the day after tomorrow, and I'll borrow it from your house today.
I'll borrow it from him tomorrow, in order, and her family will have a year's supply of oil, salt, soy sauce and vinegar, and she never pays for it!"
It's spoonful by spoonful, and it's not your family's responsibility to borrow it 365 days a year. In the end, who has the nerve to ask her for it? Even if she wants it, it won't matter.
Hua Zhao's eyes widened, could he still do this?
"Isn't she afraid of other people laughing at her?"
"She also makes fun of others." Ye Fang said: "Some things are not just what you think. Things that you think are embarrassing are considered honorable by others. Mrs. Liu often shows off to her daughter-in-law that she gives her family a year.
How much money was saved.”
Her son and daughter-in-law were quite embarrassed at first, but gradually they just looked embarrassed, and they actually felt pretty good about it.
"The Sun family on the top floor likes to find people to work for their family." Ye Fang continued: "Today they carry rice, tomorrow they carry briquettes, and the day after tomorrow they repair the house. Living on the top floor makes it easier for him. He never does anything heavy.
Take it, you are always looking for help from others, but the key is that the help is not flattering, as if everyone else should do it, you have to find someone to repair the roof every year, and you complain every year that others are not good at repairing it.”
Hua Zhao blinked. She recognized the Sun family aunt on the top floor. She was the one who scolded Xu Mei the most yesterday. She was really grateful at that time.
"The Zhang family downstairs likes to let others help raise their children." Ye Fang said that the expression of this family was really bad: "The five children in his family can be said to have grown up eating hundreds of meals in this family courtyard.
, since their children can run away, their family has never cared about the food of those children. You see, as soon as the cake is delivered today, they will come to my house tomorrow."
"Ah..." Hua Zhao's expression didn't look good either.
It's true that she likes children, but she doesn't like naughty children and naughty parents!