71. Summarize and learn from love experience after the war
After having a fairly satisfying lunch, I took a half-hour lunch break in the apartment. After finishing my lunch, I went to the library. The main reason was that it was hot today and I couldn’t sit still in the room. Instead of staying at home and wasting electricity, I
, it is better to go to the library to enjoy the air conditioning.
I chose a location where I would not be easily disturbed, took out my laptop and opened it in a familiar manner.
In fact, Minamoto Yorimitsu is no different from ordinary students. His short-term plan is to successfully graduate from Peking University and complete his unfinished studies.
Even though the [Guilty in Love] simulator is very powerful, Minamoto no Yorimitsu has never relied on it. Things like this are probably gone. The only support in life is yourself, and it is not as good as your own body to let the mountains and rivers fall.
Being powerful and of course earning as much rewards as possible is his current goal.
Minamoto Yorimitsu pinched the corners of his eyes that were a little sore after lunch break.
Keep the grape soda you just bought at the vending machine on the road handy.
"laugh--"
When the pull tab is opened, bubbles will rise and there will be a crisp sound.
The slightly cool juice flowed down the throat, accompanied by soft and sweet pulp. The feeling of adding carbon dioxide was satisfying. I moved my mouth and wiped it with a tissue. There was still a sweet taste in my mouth that was not greasy.
Take out your mobile phone, check if there is any information, and make final preparations for writing the paper.
There are two unread messages marked in red on LINE.
[Liangying Tianhai: Senior, I’m going to take a lunch break~ (picture.jpg)]
[Ryoying Tianhai: Why don’t you reply to my message? Has your senior already taken a lunch break?]
[Liangying Tianhai: Humph, just ignore me after you finish playing, you scumbag!]
As the [Unread] mark changes to [Read].
Minamoto Yorimitsu first opened the photo. This is how people receive information. The subconscious likes information with more connotations. Monotonous text naturally does not have as much content as pictures, which carry a greater amount of information.
In the photo, Liangying Tianhai seems to be lying on the bed.
Hold the phone high with your right hand and angle it downward to take the photo.
His left hand made a classic scissor hand pose, revealing half of his fair and beautiful cheeks. His golden hair was pressed on the pillow by his head, and his eyes narrowed into a crescent shape with a smile.
The upper body is covered with a quilt and seems to be naked. The shoulders are as moist as white jade and are very beautiful. The collarbone hidden by the pink glow is looming.
"This is a very intimate at-home photo."
And there was another detail in it. Minamoto Yorimitsu zoomed in with her hands and found that she was still wearing the watch she just bought today on her wrist. Although only the pure white strap was exposed, it was definitely that watch.
No matter whether at Kiyomizu Temple or Isetan, Ryokage Tenkai was not seen wearing a watch.
Therefore, it is inferred that this watch is basically the one I gave him as a gift.
"It seems that the master's move was inadvertent."
Minamoto Yoriko held up his chin and looked at the details of the photo again, and couldn't help but sigh slightly.
Just like this photo, the good shadow master used three secret techniques in a row.
ONE: Pretend to be cute and pose for photos and take the initiative to send messages.
TWO: Use this kind of photos that couples only send to get closer together.
THREE: Inadvertently revealed wearing the watch he gave her.
This set of combos works so smoothly that ordinary people can't see any flaws, and may even have the illusion of being liked. In fact, they have fallen into the master's trap, followed the opponent's rhythm, and were ultimately defeated.
It's a pity that a wise man will make mistakes after all his considerations.
From Minamoto Yorimitsu's point of view, she does have a lot of flaws, at least in the clever trick of the watch. Since she takes off her clothes to sleep, she should not wear anything to be normal.
Who would take off all their clothes and still wear a cold watch while sleeping?
If it were the master of the imperial medicine bag, he would never do such a stupid trick. I'm afraid he would wear it deliberately the next time we meet, but pretend to reveal it inadvertently when he lifts his hair.
Minamoto Noraimitsu sneered from the bottom of his heart.
The three major illusions that were originally unstable suddenly became solid.
As expected, my mind is still not firm enough.
He almost fell into the trap of Master Liangying.
It's better to be careful and take precautions.
Minamoto Noraimitsu entered the password to unlock the laptop, manipulated the mouse to click into the folder of the paper, slid through the table of contents and finally determined the leading chapter.
Compared with the rewards obtained in this [Tea Master War], he cares more about the experience of competing with the masters, and plans to use this as nutrition to help himself grow.
In fact, there was a winner or loser in this battle.
It was true that Minamoto no Yorimitsu had the upper hand at the beginning, but in the end he was almost overturned. To be honest, this was a bit embarrassing. After all, he had the advantage of predicting the enemy's opportunities and had the power and money to back him up.
I was almost distracted by Master Yoshikage just now.
Even if her lips are really soft and her black stockings are very attractive.
Minamoto Noraimitsu was not discouraged and began to sum up his experience.
Keep learning and keep improving.
Gain experience greedily and strive to grow yourself.
This is what Kyoto’s top brand should do.
The simulator gave him the qualification to compete with tea masters. This was an opportunity that ordinary people could never dream of. Some disturbances on the voyage could not obliterate him.
I casually sent a message back to Liangying Tianhai, and without even looking at the other party's reply, I set my phone to silent, turned it over and put it aside, ignoring it, and moved my eyes to the leadership document of the paper.
Although it is a whimsical idea to create a theory of emotion management.
However, Minamoto Yorimitsu still based on the five major chapters, analyzed it from various angles and combined with examples to increase the persuasiveness of his theory as much as possible.
When it comes to innovation, it’s not so much, but rather the application of theory.
Because of the reason for distinguishing each chapter, he has not yet reached the final summary and connection, so he writes wherever he thinks.
For example, a certain part of the leadership chapter he is editing now:
【Unmet needs are the starting point for motivation.】
[Similarly speaking, during a relationship with a girl, whether at the beginning or during the process, both men and women have unsatisfied needs, which serve as motivation to produce certain behaviors and promote emotional communication between the two parties. 】
[According to Vroom's expectancy theory, the strength of people's needs or motivations is related to the strength of people's confidence in realizing their needs or motivations. Therefore, motivational power depends on valence and expectancy. 】
[Among them, valence refers to the results achieved through efforts, such as the sense of security and satisfaction in emotional interactions, financial conditions for physical communication, etc. 】
[Expectation value is the cognitive probability of achieving the goal, such as the possibility of successfully pursuing the other party, the possibility of the other party being happy when giving a gift, the possibility of getting emotional satisfaction from the other party, etc.]
[According to the expectation formula, the target valence and expected value should be optimally combined, both on the premise that they are both high enough at the same time.]
[In the actual application of emotional communication, you should combine what you can get in the relationship with the possibility of getting these things, and explore the value of the love process to yourself or the other party, so as to motivate yourself or the other party
Strengthen the desire to interact.】
[Summary: Give the other person enough spiritual and material expectations, and give yourself enough spiritual and material expectations. Partial or full realization is the best way to maintain a love or ambiguous relationship. 】
[Brief: Love that cannot see the future will die soon.]
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