There are one hill and eight buildings in the Northern Prefecture of the Eastern Jin Dynasty Chapter 4526: Gaining trust from people other than in-laws
Chapter 4526: Gaining trust from people other than in-laws
Liu Daogui nodded and said: "So you have been persuading me for a long time about the issue of children, because you want me to take root here, marry a local high-ranking woman, and have children together, right?"
Tan Zhi sighed: "I know this will be unfair to my sister-in-law, but for the sake of the overall situation, this kind of thing must be done. The only way is to marry the local high-ranking families such as the Han family, the Ma family, the Luo family, etc.
, having a son means that you will take root here for a long time, so that the local powerful people will believe in you and rely on you."
Liu Daogui laughed: "If I really want to marry another person, I should marry Lu Zongzhi's daughter. Wouldn't it be better if Jingzhou and Yongzhou directly join forces and appease Lu Zongzhi's heart?"
Tan Zhi's eyes lit up: "Yes, this is a good operation, it can really be done."
Liu Daogui put away his smile and said seriously: "Ah Ji, some of your words are very reasonable. There are some things, for example, if the eldest brother wants to realize his ambition, he needs to reassure the people of the world and all the brothers who follow him. Maybe
Sooner or later, he must embark on the road of self-reliance, or at least, he must hold power for a long time. This is not for himself, but for his great cause and the ideal in his heart. It is understandable."
"But if you want to achieve this goal, you should also learn from those high-ranking families and only rely on marriage and kinship to make friends with others, instead of following our Beijing Eighth Party brothers who have been so heartfelt and heartless for so many years, living and dying together.
With this way of moving forward and struggling together with a common goal, even if we gain power for a while, we will soon become like these high-ranking families, and sooner or later we will become those who we hated the most and wanted to overthrow and overthrow.
.”
While listening, Tan Zhi nodded and said: "Brother Daogui said it very well, but unfortunately the world, especially the powerful powerful people and aristocratic families, think this way. We can't change their perception. No.
Through marriage, it is difficult to win the hearts of Jingzhou people."
Liu Daogui shook his head: "I don't think so. Take me as an example. When Huan Qian attacked, the situation was critical. I opened the city gate and allowed him to come and go. After conquering the enemy camp, I refused to ask any questions. Then
When Lu Zongzhi's army came, I rode into the camp alone. I relied on these methods of treating people with integrity and treating people with heart to win everyone's support and trust, rather than relying on any marriage alliance."
Having said this, Liu Daogui paused: "Just like your brother Ah Ji, you have been guarding the city in Wuling for more than a year, and even the cave barbarians in the mountains have come out to help. Could it be that you have married them? Isn't that true?
Did your usual comfort and benevolent treatment of these cave barbarians exchange for their help in times of crisis?"
"Another example is Nalu Zongzhi, who separated himself from Yongzhou for a long time and became a warlord. He never listened to the orders of the imperial court. During the years I was in Jingzhou, I was unable to send officials to him. He could symbolically send officials to him every year.
I paid some taxes and souvenirs, which was considered as a way of giving face, but when the demon thieves attacked, he also immediately led the army to help. These things have proved that to win people's hearts, it is not through such methods as marriage and betrothal.
, it still needs to be based on common interests and positions, with candor and mutual trust, in order to have a long-term relationship."
Tan Zhi laughed: "It is indeed as you said. Even Huan Xuan and Yin Zhongkan were once married, but in the end they turned against each other and killed each other. In the face of power, these family ties are unreliable. It seems that,
I thought it was too simple."
Liu Daogui said calmly: "It's not your fault. Many things in the world seem to be the same on the surface, but in reality, it is difficult for people to discover. The so-called marriage must be a good match, or
It is said that the other party wants to help you and can be a helping hand at critical times. At this time, marriage and marriage are a means of gaining trust, but this method is only superficial. Why did Yin Zhongkan and Huan Xuan fall out in the end?
It was because they were not married for generations, but came together temporarily to deal with the aristocratic families in Yangzhou after coming to Jingzhou. Their two goals were to dominate Jingzhou by themselves, so in the end, they were bound to fall out.
The result.”
"The relationship we have here with the local nobles in Jingzhou and with Lu Zongzhi in Yongzhou is not like this. The local big families in Jingzhou basically don't have the idea of becoming the boss themselves and segregating themselves. They only want the powerful dragons from outside to be effective.
Lu Zongzhi of Yongzhou was a refugee from the south. He served as governor for many years in Yongzhou, which is closest to the Huru kingdoms in the north. In fact, it was for the sake of the Jin Dynasty and for Jingzhou to guard the northern gate.
Because of the role of the general, we tolerated his separatist rule."
"But the Jin Dynasty needs to be truly unified sooner or later, so that it can concentrate the manpower and material resources of the whole country to carry out the Northern Expedition. Therefore, a vassal town like Lu Zongzhi will be banned sooner or later. He also knows this. Now it is just muddling along, and it can be divided for a day
One day, when the situation becomes irreversible, he will surely be a smart man, hand over his territory, and become a high-ranking official in the dynasty. But now, he needs our strength to protect him from Hou Qin's attack, so the reverse is true.
, if something happens in Jingzhou, he will come to help, unless we really can't hold Jingzhou, maybe he will have the idea of occupying Jingzhou, but this is unlikely. "
Tan Zhi softly said "Oh": "Why is it unlikely? If he can seize the entire Jingzhou, his strength will be greatly strengthened. Even if the court wants to send troops to conquer, it will not be so easy."
Liu Daogui smiled slightly: "Because after all, Yongzhou is just a small state temporarily carved out from several counties. It is okay to defend the border for the Jin Dynasty, but if you want to compete in the world, you simply don't have the strength. He only has 20,000 or 30,000 troops.
, without the backing of Jingzhou, even the Later Qin could destroy him, so how could he dare to make a mistake so easily?"
"Besides, even if Jingzhou was attacked by monster thieves, he could take advantage of it, but the people of Jingzhou have always looked down on Lu Zongzhi, and even thought that he was not much different from Hulu. Even if he occupied the territory here, there would be no
It may win people's hearts, and we have to station troops here to prevent local resistance. If Yongzhou is empty, it is likely to be attacked by the Later Qin Dynasty. In the end, Jingzhou will not be captured, and our hometown will be lost, so why bother?"
Tan Zhi laughed: "You just took a fancy to this, so you dared to go to his camp alone last time. No wonder, I thought you had secretly negotiated terms with him."
Liu Daogui said calmly: "To be honest, the last time he came here, he did have the idea of taking advantage of the situation. If I directly showed fear and did not dare to enter his camp and wanted to drive him away, maybe he would really rebel.
Because it’s not impossible for him to join forces with the demon thief, I have to take this risk.”
Liu Daogui nodded and said: "So you have been persuading me for a long time about the issue of children, because you want me to take root here, marry a local high-ranking woman, and have children together, right?"
Tan Zhi sighed: "I know this will be unfair to my sister-in-law, but for the sake of the overall situation, this kind of thing must be done. The only way is to marry the local high-ranking families such as the Han family, the Ma family, the Luo family, etc.
, having a son means that you will take root here for a long time, so that the local powerful people will believe in you and rely on you."
Liu Daogui laughed: "If I really want to marry another person, I should marry Lu Zongzhi's daughter. Wouldn't it be better if Jingzhou and Yongzhou directly join forces and appease Lu Zongzhi's heart?"
Tan Zhi's eyes lit up: "Yes, this is a good operation, it can really be done."
Liu Daogui put away his smile and said seriously: "Ah Ji, some of your words are very reasonable. There are some things, for example, if the eldest brother wants to realize his ambition, he needs to reassure the people of the world and all the brothers who follow him. Maybe
Sooner or later, he must embark on the road of self-reliance, or at least, he must hold power for a long time. This is not for himself, but for his great cause and the ideal in his heart. It is understandable."
"But if you want to achieve this goal, you should also learn from those high-ranking families and only rely on marriage and kinship to make friends with others, instead of following our Beijing Eighth Party brothers who have been so heartfelt and heartless for so many years, living and dying together.
With this way of moving forward and struggling together with a common goal, even if we gain power for a while, we will soon become like these high-ranking families, and sooner or later we will become those who we hated the most and wanted to overthrow and overthrow.
.”
While listening, Tan Zhi nodded and said: "Brother Daogui said it very well, but unfortunately the world, especially the powerful powerful people and aristocratic families, think this way. We can't change their perception. No.
Through marriage, it is difficult to win the hearts of Jingzhou people."
Liu Daogui shook his head: "I don't think so. Take me as an example. When Huan Qian attacked, the situation was critical. I opened the city gate and allowed him to come and go. After conquering the enemy camp, I refused to ask any questions. Then
When Lu Zongzhi's army came, I rode into the camp alone. I relied on these methods of treating people with integrity and treating people with heart to win everyone's support and trust, rather than relying on any marriage alliance."
Having said this, Liu Daogui paused: "Just like your brother Ah Ji, you have been guarding the city in Wuling for more than a year, and even the cave barbarians in the mountains have come out to help. Could it be that you have married them? Isn't that true?
Did your usual comfort and benevolent treatment of these cave barbarians exchange for their help in times of crisis?"
"Another example is Nalu Zongzhi, who separated himself from Yongzhou for a long time and became a warlord. He never listened to the orders of the imperial court. During the years I was in Jingzhou, I was unable to send officials to him. He could symbolically send officials to him every year.
I paid some taxes and souvenirs, which was considered as a way of giving face, but when the demon thieves attacked, he also immediately led the army to help. These things have proved that to win people's hearts, it is not through such methods as marriage and betrothal.
, it still needs to be based on common interests and positions, with candor and mutual trust, in order to have a long-term relationship."
Tan Zhi laughed: "It is indeed as you said. Even Huan Xuan and Yin Zhongkan were once married, but in the end they turned against each other and killed each other. In the face of power, these family ties are unreliable. It seems that,
I thought it was too simple."
Liu Daogui said calmly: "It's not your fault. Many things in the world seem to be the same on the surface, but in reality, it is difficult for people to discover. The so-called marriage must be a good match, or
It is said that the other party wants to help you and can be a helping hand at critical times. At this time, marriage and marriage are a means of gaining trust, but this method is only superficial. Why did Yin Zhongkan and Huan Xuan fall out in the end?
It was because they were not married for generations, but came together temporarily to deal with the aristocratic families in Yangzhou after coming to Jingzhou. Their two goals were to dominate Jingzhou by themselves, so in the end, they were bound to fall out.
The result.”
"The relationship we have here with the local nobles in Jingzhou and with Lu Zongzhi in Yongzhou is not like this. The local big families in Jingzhou basically don't have the idea of becoming the boss themselves and segregating themselves. They only want the powerful dragons from outside to be effective.
Lu Zongzhi of Yongzhou was a refugee from the south. He served as governor for many years in Yongzhou, which is closest to the Huru kingdoms in the north. In fact, it was for the sake of the Jin Dynasty and for Jingzhou to guard the northern gate.
Because of the role of the general, we tolerated his separatist rule."
"But the Jin Dynasty needs to be truly unified sooner or later, so that it can concentrate the manpower and material resources of the whole country to carry out the Northern Expedition. Therefore, a vassal town like Lu Zongzhi will be banned sooner or later. He also knows this. Now it is just muddling along, and it can be divided for a day
One day, when the situation becomes irreversible, he will surely be a smart man, hand over his territory, and become a high-ranking official in the dynasty. But now, he needs our strength to protect him from Hou Qin's attack, so the reverse is true.
, if something happens in Jingzhou, he will come to help, unless we really can't hold Jingzhou, maybe he will have the idea of occupying Jingzhou, but this is unlikely. "
Tan Zhi softly said "Oh": "Why is it unlikely? If he can seize the entire Jingzhou, his strength will be greatly strengthened. Even if the court wants to send troops to conquer, it will not be so easy."
Liu Daogui smiled slightly: "Because after all, Yongzhou is just a small state temporarily carved out from several counties. It is okay to defend the border for the Jin Dynasty, but if you want to compete in the world, you simply don't have the strength. He only has 20,000 or 30,000 troops.
, without the backing of Jingzhou, even the Later Qin could destroy him, so how could he dare to make a mistake so easily?"
"Besides, even if Jingzhou was attacked by monster thieves, he could take advantage of it, but the people of Jingzhou have always looked down on Lu Zongzhi, and even thought that he was not much different from Hulu. Even if he occupied the territory here, there would be no
It may win people's hearts, and we have to station troops here to prevent local resistance. If Yongzhou is empty, it is likely to be attacked by the Later Qin Dynasty. In the end, Jingzhou will not be captured, and our hometown will be lost, so why bother?"
Tan Zhi laughed: "You just took a fancy to this, so you dared to go to his camp alone last time. No wonder, I thought you had secretly negotiated terms with him."
Liu Daogui said calmly: "To be honest, the last time he came here, he did have the idea of taking advantage of the situation. If I directly showed fear and did not dare to enter his camp and wanted to drive him away, maybe he would really rebel.
Because it’s not impossible for him to join forces with the demon thief, I have to take this risk.”