The relationship with his parents is not a thing of the past. After so many years, he has been alone outside. Except for his surname Zhuo, he has become like a person without roots. His family concept is also weak. The only connection is the old man.
He admitted that he used to be an extremely self-centered person. It was because of Shu Tinglan that he broke himself into pieces and reshaped himself. He slowly learned to let go of himself, how to love others, and how to get along with others. So before that, he
Treating parents is more perfunctory, not careless, nor sincere, just because the surname is Zhuo, and to do the social activities that people named Zhuo need.
At this time, for Ting Lan, he was willing to be more sincere to his parents.
"Mom, Tinglan is a very simple and kind-hearted person. I don't ask you to like her, but I ask you not to hurt her, okay?"
"I didn't hurt her. It was you who first thought of me as an imaginary enemy. No matter what I did, you thought I had a purpose." Cheng Zhimin thought that so far, she had not done anything to harm Shu Tinglan.
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"Okay, Mom, let me tell you I'm sorry."
Cheng Zhimin still snorted coldly and stopped talking.
"Mom, do you want to hear my true words?"
"you say."
"When I was young, you and my dad were in other provinces, and I accompanied my grandpa alone in Beijing. But that was when my grandpa was busiest with official work, so I rarely saw him. Even when I came back at night, there would always be a crowd of people following him.
It was difficult to spend time together. I lived with the nanny most of the time, but fortunately I had many friends around me at that time, so I was not lonely. Later, you brought me to Qining, and I was very uncomfortable with it.
I don’t understand Qining’s language, and I’m not used to Qining’s food. The friends and classmates I grew up with are no longer around, and you and dad are rarely at home. It’s like I was suddenly thrown into a completely unfamiliar world, lonely.
It was helpless. I met Tinglan at that time. It was probably because of the song "City in the Sky" she played on stage that I fell in love with her at first sight. But later, she became my only light when I was in Qining.
Only by following her secretly every day can I survive."
His tone was very steady, and he was simply describing a past event, but he believed his mother could hear the feeling.
“Mom, I’m telling you this not to ask you to accept Tinglan, but I just want to tell you how important she is to me. She is my medicine and can cure all my unhappiness and all my regrets. Only by talking to her can I tell you how important she is to me.
Only when we are together do I feel that life is complete."
Cheng Zhimin had never heard Zhuo Yu'an say what was on his mind. She was moved by his sincerity.
"Yu An, mom is not an antique, nor is she really that stubborn. Your grandpa and I have the same idea. We know that we can't stop you, so we don't require that we be well-matched. Of course, it would be best if we can be well-matched. Parents still
I only ask for one thing, grandpa, that his family background should not be too complicated and that he should not drag down our Zhuo family. This is all."
Zhuo Yu'an was honest, and she was also honest, showing him her bottom line.
Zhuo Yu'an fell silent. He knew the bottom line of the Zhuo family, and he also knew that it was not the problem of being well-matched as outsiders thought, but Tinglan's family background, and the death of her father, which was the real abyss that could not be overcome.
This time, all the details that his mother sent to Xining to investigate were intercepted by him. At this time, they were quietly stored in his mailbox. If he could, he would guard them for the rest of his life and not disclose them to the public. It was only at this time that he realized that they had obtained the information.
After getting the marriage certificate, why did Tinglan's mother insist on severing the relationship between Tinglan and her original family? Why did she stay in a mental hospital coldly and stubbornly and not have any contact with them? Her mother also wanted to protect her.
"Yu An, you are an adult man and you have normal needs. If you want to fall in love, of course your mother will not object. If you are really not interested in girls, your mother will be worried." Cheng Zhimin emphasized again that it is just a relationship.
She allows falling in love, but if it comes to marriage, it must be approved by her or the Zhuo family. This is an immutable principle.
"Mom, promise me that no matter what situation you encounter, you can come to me to solve it, but you can't go to Tinglan or hurt her. Can you promise me?"
"Yu An, there is no mother who doesn't want her children to be well. No matter what she does, her original intention is for you."