Guan Miaozhi flew to northern Shaanxi on impulse. As soon as she got off the plane, she felt a little regretful in this unfamiliar place. If Ding Changlin hadn't come to pick her up at the airport, she really didn't know what she would do next.
No matter how much I hated this bastard, I followed Ding Changlin and got into his car obediently.
Ding Changlin didn't expect Guan Miaozhi to follow him so obediently. When he started the car, Ding Changlin seemed to have just seen Guan Miaozhi's dress and said: "Sister Miaozhi, to be honest, any clothes on you will come alive."
Get up, this outfit is more vivid than the one I saw last time at your house. This short jacket makes your slender legs look more beautiful and attractive. If I don't come to pick you up, what if such a beautiful girl
Taking a taxi is extremely dangerous, or would you ask Sha Xiaoxue to pick you up, right?
Your dad went to the county where Sha Xiaoxue invested in the mine. She must be thinking about how to make your dad believe that they returned to China to repay the people in their hometown, or she would definitely arrange for a girl with a more local flavor than Misidi to accompany your dad.
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Miaozhi, your dad is actually quite bitter. The life he has laughed at is actually filled with tears. You are not a man, you don’t understand men. I understand your dad, because we are men at the same time. We are just cats that eat fish.
, the longer it is closed, the stronger the yearning for the fishy smell. Although this metaphor is a bit vulgar, it is appropriate. For a great artist like you, you should know what is going on.
Your mother was also very miserable, but fortunately she finally let go and finally came out. Miaozhi, you are an artist, and you came back from the United States. How come that place that advocates freedom and human rights has not changed your narrow understanding of your parents?
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Also, Miaozhi, you are living in a honeypot for a while. You cannot understand us country people. We often complain about the injustice of fate, and often think that reincarnation is really a technical job. If I had a mother like you
, such parents, even if they are divorced, they are still my mother and father. Do I still need to work so hard? What else can I complain about?
Of course, what we call unfairness is more often caused by problems at the nodes. Either we got on the wrong train at the wrong time, or we chose the wrong direction. The reason is that we need to make choices at the nodes, what about you?
Think about it, when your moment comes, even if your father and mother are divorced, they are still trying to make choices for you and grasp the right direction for your life.
Miaozhi, we are all young people. The biggest misunderstanding of being young is that we all think that we still have opportunities and there is a lot of room for us. We don’t care about anything and don’t take everything seriously. We always think that we will win the world.
But when a person reaches forty, it is a watershed. When a person reaches forty, he can sum up himself and see what he has won and where he is currently. If you are still at the bottom of the wave at the age of forty, then you will be in this wave and that wave.
It has nothing to do with you anymore. You are just the sand under the waves. No matter how big the waves are or how many times there are, you will never surface.
From the age of thirty to forty, there are only ten short years. Putting aside the ineffective time in the middle, for people who are thirty years old today, the effective time is only five years, so think about it, what can you do in five years?
What, how big a wave can it make? Don’t be deceived by youth, don’t be carried away by slogans and passion. The so-called wave before and after is just an alternation of moments. Most people are already old before they can figure it out.
What's so exciting?
Miaozhi, I read these words from a book. As an artist, you must be very disdainful to listen to them, or do you think these are all poisonous chicken soup? But we country people like to read and listen to these,
Including Misidi, she regarded these words as the most delicious chicken soup, and your father said this chicken soup. If he really wants to live with Misidi, they will be happy.
Miaozhi, you don’t understand marriage. I actually didn’t understand marriage before. Your mother is more interested in her own experience and feelings. Your father comes from the countryside and has some male chauvinism and patriarchy in his mind.
Deep-rooted, he longs for a wife like his mother, who looks up to him, is happy and worried about him, and everything depends on him for existence. Whatever he says, the other party will think it is the most true and profound saying.
Philosophy, and will believe and listen to it to the letter.
What your mother longs for is the collision of souls. The soul thing is too profound. What’s more, the environment she lives in is the capital, a courtyard, an era that has washed away the earthy atmosphere and opened the door to the country. She has heard and seen it since she was a child.
, everything he saw was unknown to your father, and they were destined not to be in the same time and space.
Miaozhi, I have said so much, I wonder if you can understand? It is difficult for two people who are not in the same time and space to create sparks no matter how they collide. It is even difficult for them to understand each other, let alone the intersection of souls.
Miaozhi, I'm not excusing my dad, but your dad's original starting point is the countryside. Just like our dreams always stay in the most primitive place. I often dream about our small village. Do you believe that you are in the countryside?
When you are in the United States, you will always dream of Beijing, your compound life, which is the origin of our lives, and this origin will affect our aesthetics and needs throughout our lives.
Miaozhi, this is why your father fell in love with Misidi at first sight, and Misidi went around in circles. After guarding her for more than thirty years, she was handed over to your father for the first time, and she was silent in silence.
By God's will, God compensated Misidi to your father. You should be happy for your father.
As for your accusations against me, I know that it was Ai Hua who told you. She and I just had a face-to-face meeting. I have been communicating with you for so long. Are you willing to believe what you see, what you hear, and what you feel in your gut?
That me, or should I believe the me that Ai Hua made up?
Also, Miaozhi, I will show you life in the countryside. Once you see everything and truly feel it, you can judge me and your dad, okay?" Ding Changlin explained at length while driving the car.
With these.
The strange thing was Guan Miaozhi. She actually listened without saying a word, and she listened very seriously, at least in Ding Changlin's opinion. She did not attack Ding Changlin like a hedgehog, nor did she attack Ding Changlin like she did yesterday.
Hate Ding Changlin!
Guan Miaozhi also wondered what was wrong with her? Why did she think everything Ding Changlin said was reasonable? For the first time, she felt that she was really selfish? Especially when Ding Changlin mentioned that her parents were actually divorced,
How could she be so calm? Subconsciously, she could accept that her parents were really divorced. Didn't they still love her even after the divorce? Her life had not changed much.
Guan Miaofang turned her face to look at Ding Changlin. What on earth did this inconspicuous man do with his mouth? Why did she always think it was so reasonable when she heard him speak?