Ding Changlin was most afraid of talking about Misidi. The reason why he deliberately sent Aunt Yu away was to let Guan Zhangquan talk about the nanny, so he could find out about Le Shujie's mother and the series of events behind her.
In terms of interpersonal relationships, Guan Zhangquan was more concerned about Misidi's affairs, which made Ding Changlin really embarrassed.
Because Guan Zhangquan had been drinking, and because he was at his own home, the nanny with the problem was sent away by Ding Changlin, he wanted to talk about Misidi's problem even more. He wanted to wait for his boss to wait until his job was stable.
After recognizing his work ability, he asked his wife to personally protect the matchmaker. He must have been thinking about this, so he paid special attention to Ding Changlin's words.
Ding Changlin already understood that what Guan Miaozhi said was right. Guan Zhangquan was thinking of Misidi, so he spoke to Guan Miaozhi. He raised his head and looked at Guan Zhangquan, and didn't speak for a while.
"Tell me, did you talk about me when you were with Misidi yesterday?" Guan Zhangquan asked Ding Changlin directly.
Ding Changlin had to speak, and he responded directly to Guan Zhangquan: "Father, we talked about it, and talked about it a lot."
"Ah? What did you say? What did Xiaomi say? Does she blame me? I want to wait until my job is stable before I ask my wife to propose marriage to her in person. This will save her face and my wife will trust her more in the future." Guan Zhangquan
Suddenly he said this.
Ding Changlin was really shocked. Should this matter be brought to Madam's side? Madam spied on Misidi yesterday. Since Guan Zhangquan knew that he was with Misidi yesterday, he didn't know that Madam was spying on Mi.
What about Sidi?
"Father, Madam is spying on Misidi. Miaozhi told me. If Madam wants to use Misidi, she will definitely have a comprehensive understanding of her. What happened to me and Sidi yesterday, at this time Madam should
Clearly.
Foster father, you cannot let Madam know about the relationship between Si Di and you, otherwise Madam will not be able to trust Si Di. She has made it clear that she will not get married again in this life, and she has made it clear that she will follow Madam for the rest of her life. If you let Madam propose marriage,
, Si Di’s life is over. No matter what the situation was at the beginning, Madam must have a feeling of extreme distrust towards Si Di, believing that she came to power just to curry favor with you, and that everything she did to Madam was also for the purpose of gaining power, justice.
Father, think about it, is this the truth?" Ding Changlin said anxiously, he couldn't say that Misidi refused to accept the official seal because she pretended to be him in her heart. These words cannot be said and cannot be said!
When Guan Zhangquan heard what Ding Changlin said, he looked at Ding Changlin with some confusion and asked, "Does this girl really not want to be a family?"
Ding Changlin looked at Guan Zhangquan and responded: "Father, times have changed. Now is the era of globalization. It is no longer the era of millets and rifles. Young people have different ideas. Look at Yanjing, there are women who are unwilling to get married.
There are much more women than men. They have their own careers, their own houses, and their own lives. They no longer depend on men for their lives. The pursuit of a high degree of emotional compatibility is the only thing they crave. But this high degree of emotional compatibility
It's too difficult, adoptive father, your generation can't understand their ideas and lifestyles. The biggest change that Sidi has made since coming to Yanjing is that she has learned to be like these white-collar women and learned to demand her own space. Her changes are really great.
Dad, foster father, she is no longer the Misidi she was in Changle Town. This time, this is how she feels to me!
Foster father, Miaozhi actually went to see Sidi, and she also talked to me about you and Sidi. She asked me not to throw cold water on you, but when things got to this point, I had to tell the real situation.
Foster father, there is a communication barrier between you and her. In the past, generation was mainly based on generation, but now there is a generation gap in three years. It is really like this.
I can't keep up with the ideas of young people now. Si Di suddenly came to the capital from an uncivilized village. This kind of leaping change has been stimulated in various ways that we can hardly imagine before. The most important thing is that she is now suffering from
With Madam's important position, she gained confidence, something we cannot give her.
Foster father, I don’t think it’s appropriate to mention this matter now, or you should find a wife who has a common life experience with you, so that you can talk and communicate. Sidi is just a phantom of your youth.
When we really want to live together, the illusion will be shattered. At that time, you will be you and she will be her, and it will be even more painful. What do you think?" Ding Changlin had to say these words in one breath, although Guan Miao
Zhi refused to say anything, but Ding Changlin's feelings were still biased towards Misidi. He still wanted to protect the kind of life that Misidi wanted to live, a life without official regulations, even if she gave her the first
Got this man!
Guan Zhangquan fell silent after listening to Ding Changlin's words. He grabbed the wine bottle and filled himself a glass. He really needed a woman to support the family, especially when the nanny had problems, he needed a woman even more.
I worked hard for this house!
But at the same time, Guan Zhangquan also knew that Misidi's special characteristics did not belong to the type of woman who worked for the family!
Seeing Guan Zhangquan like this, Ding Changlin was too frightened to speak, so he had to fill a glass for himself, and drank another glass of wine with Zhang Guanquan.
After drinking the wine, Guan Zhangquan let out a long sigh. He really couldn't understand Misidi's decision. In his world, if he slept with this girl, he would have to be responsible for her, because it was her first time.
, and he is willing to marry her, but she is not willing!
Guan Zhangquan was a little bit shocked. The pain Hua Chen brought to him was not something that ordinary people could bear. Now he thought that if he found a country girl, he would listen to him and stay with him for the rest of his life, but no country girl wanted him.
How miserable is he? If he feels better in his heart, it's a lie, and he can't save his face.
When Ding Changlin saw Guan Zhangquan sighing like this, he couldn't help but add: "Father, I think in your current position, it would be better for you to find a wife who can understand your work and help you with your work. What do you think?"
Guan Zhangquan had to speak. At least in front of this adopted son, he still had to speak his mind. There had to be someone and a place to speak his mind.
"Chang Lin, I do want to be responsible for Xiaomi, of course because she is young, but also because she is exactly the same girl I liked when I was young. Since she is unwilling to let me take responsibility, and since you young people have young people's ideas,
I won't force it, tell Xiaomi that I can't bear her, and when she wants me to take responsibility, I will definitely take it!" Guan Zhangquan still said with a hint of fantasy, still longing for the day when Mi Siti