Hou Mingyuan did not think that Weng Siyu was wrong in what he said. It is difficult for upright officials to deal with household affairs. What he was talking about was Ding Changlin and Weng Siyu. The father-in-law said that the public was right, and the mother-in-law said that the mother-in-law was right!
Hou Mingyuan waited for Weng Siyu to finish venting, then took over her words and said: "Xiaoyu, dad understands your worries, dad also understands the pain in your heart, but dad, can you tell me about Changlin from a man's perspective?"
Hou Mingyuan said cautiously, he knew that this daughter had a fierce temper, and he was afraid that she would suddenly turn up old scores and think that he was protecting Ding Changlin.
When Weng Siyu saw that his father spoke so carefully, he was startled and became even more sad. He said, "Dad, please tell me. If you have anything to say, just say it. I'm not angry."
When Hou Mingyuan saw Weng Siyu say this, he felt that she could still accept what he had to say.
"Xiaoyu, men are like this. After giving you a marriage, he has the responsibility to take charge of the family. You are always worried about your future life and always afraid of losing Changlin. The more you have this kind of heart, the more
The more nervous he becomes.
Xiaoyu, it’s really not necessary. Changlin just thinks that he has to take responsibility for you and his two sons. He just feels that he owes Pan Xiang’s family a lot, not to mention that Pan Xiangli was the one who settled everything for Tan. Dad knows about this.
It is very clear that it really has nothing to do with Chang Lin.
Having said that, Chang Lin can be regarded as a conscientious man, at least better than his father. He always thinks that he owes Pan Xiangli and his family, so you ask him to repay. The more he repays, the more guilty he feels inside.
The less you have, the more you cherish your family and the more responsible you and your son are.
Xiaoyu, in fact, what you are worried about is not about money at all. Even if you donate all your equity, will your Aunt Qi lose money if you work in her company? Your salary is several times higher than that of Changlin.
His salary combined is two or three times that of your aunt and I. Not to mention raising two children and two elderly people, even if you add another child, you will have no problem at all. Besides, your mother still has a villa in the United States.
Your Aunt Qi has also promised to provide assets for the children in the future. If you are struggling at this time that you have nothing to compete with Zhang Liangyu, it is equivalent to admitting that you are not as good as her.
Siyu, only when you admit that you are inferior to others will you care so much about the additional conditions. But Chang Lin doesn't care about these additional conditions at all. If he wanted to make money, he would have followed your Aunt Qi a long time ago. With his
Aunt Qi will definitely give him fixed shares to keep him. It is not difficult for him to make money. Xiaoyu, your own man, you know best how much talent he has!
Xiaoyu, after all, you don’t want to lose Chang Lin. The best way to lose a man is to let him go. The looser you hold the sand in your hand, the slower it will leak. Your father and I are also a
A man, and a man who has been here, can best understand what Chang Lin wants, what he will do next, and what will happen to you mother and son in the future. Dad sees it so clearly that he is so wholeheartedly supporting Chang Lin in his position, and that he suppresses you again and again.
Don't be childish, don't be emotional, vent your grievances to Dad, and don't vent in front of Chang Lin.
Xiaoyu, you don’t know that Chang Lin is suffering in his heart. Even if he didn’t go with him, he could feel the grievances, anger and hardships he suffered when he went to Yanjing. Men working outside are not as hard as you think.
So glamorous, Xiaoyu, listen to dad, understand Chang Lin better, don’t listen to what outsiders are saying, because outsiders don’t understand your life, only you know what you want, what you will lose, and what you will gain in your life.
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Xiaoyu, listen to dad and donate the equity. Changlin's intuition has never been wrong. He intuitively knows that something dangerous will definitely happen! Keeping the equity in your hands may lead to fatal disasters. God is to people.
To be fair, giving Chang Lin the official position will not give you a prosperous business, and your family cannot take advantage of all the good things. Think about it, is this true?
Xiaoyu, there are too many jealous people. Listen to Changlin and donate. How many entrepreneurs have died well? Changlin sees it too clearly and wants you and your children to live a peaceful life.
You have to understand his painstaking efforts!
Xiaoyu, you have also been in the government. You know very well how many layers of skin you have to shed step by step. Changlin needs your care, your support and trust the most right now. You must not be dissatisfied because of what outsiders say.
Alienate yourself from him. Once you alienate him, you really have nothing. Unless you are willing to give up Changlin, even if you give up Changlin, based on my and Changlin's intuition about the airport, it is not a piece of fragrant steamed bun, just you.
, with your Aunt Qi’s ability, you simply can’t handle many things.
Why does Changlin work so hard to create political achievements, and why does he publicize your donation of equity in such a big way? Xiaoyu, have you thought about anything deeper? He is not just for official position, but also to express his views to the superiors.
He is a public servant of the people, not a tool for the Weng family and the Qi family to make money. At the same time, he also wants to give a warning to everyone who wants to reach out to the airport. The equity belongs to the state, and those who want to reach out must think carefully.
It is the country that is against it. In this sense, Chang Lin said repeatedly, you must believe him, Xiaoyu, he is not trying to scare you." Hou Mingyuan said these words to Weng Siyu sincerely, some of which he also said last time
, but I didn’t explain it as clearly as I did today. Even though Weng Siyu had worked in a government agency, once she was transferred to a company, she became a businesswoman. What businessmen care about most is money. Hou Mingyuan also saw this very clearly!
After Weng Siyu listened to her father's words, she didn't speak for a while. She also understood these truths. Understanding the truth and actually putting it into action are two different things, at least in Weng Siyu's philosophy, but her father said something that was too much.
By the way, she can't let go of Ding Changlin. If she can let go of Ding Changlin, she can definitely take a path like Qi Shanbing. There is no need for her to return to the country. There are many young people around her, but she believes that Ding Changlin is a path.
There is no solution to the equation. It is obviously impossible for Chang Lin to sacrifice his official position for her!
"Dad, I understand. I will slowly adjust my emotions. I will do it according to the way you taught me. I will try my best to take care of Chang Lin, but you must also warn him from time to time. He has a wife.
As long as he does his best with the Zhang sisters, does he want to be entangled with them for the rest of his life? How many women can stand this kind of entangled triangle relationship?
I can support Chang Lin and understand Chang Lin, but he must also realize that he is no longer the bachelor he was before, he is my husband, and he is the father of two children!" When Weng Siyu said these words, it was really,
There is really a mentality of hating iron for not being able to become steel. This man is just too sentimental!