Qi Shanbing is really worried about this young couple. She knows very well that even if the person Ding Changlin loves the most is the female killer, time will make his feelings for the female killer gradually fade away, until the female killer completely walks out of Ding Changlin's family.
Soul, this process requires Weng Siyu's generosity and tolerance, and even more requires Weng Siyu's understanding, sacrifice and dedication. Being an official's wife cannot be done well without sacrifice and dedication!
Dugumu is the best example! Dugumu is also the most difficult person that Ding Changlin will face after returning to China!
Qi Shanbing understands these things so well that she has repeatedly worried about this young couple. At this point, Ding Changlin's growth is a miracle, and it is also because of her strong support behind him. How could she let Ding Changlin fail again? Qi Shanbing is someone who does not admit defeat.
As a woman, she will plunge into anything she believes in. The most fearful thing in this world is persistence and seriousness. Once you persist and are serious, there is nothing you can't overcome! Even if you invest in the character Ding Changlin, Qi Shanbing will
With this persistence and serious attitude, she must change Weng Siyu!
Having failed once with Weng Yishan, Qi Shanbing will never allow herself to fail with Weng Siyu! The energy and time she devoted to Weng Siyu far exceeded that of Weng Yishan. As much as she felt guilty for Weng Yishan, she now wants to make up for Weng Siyu!
Weng Siyu has been listening to Qi Shanbing's words very carefully. This is the most serious and careful time she has listened to it. She had listened to it before, but she didn't take it to heart, or she thought it was right at the time, so she turned around and said it
All her feelings are pinned on Ding Changlin, mainly because she thinks that she has given much more than Ding Changlin, so why can't Ding Changlin give equally or owe her something? Because after thinking about it like this, the perspective of looking at things has changed, and the difference in mentality is huge.
Thousands of miles.
"Aunt Qi, I will definitely reflect on myself seriously and think about how to get along with Changlin. I really haven't found a way to get along with him. I am full of grievances and resentment.
I thought I had given so much, but Changlin didn’t take it seriously at all. People all over the world knew where he was and what he was doing, and I, the wife, was the last to know!
For him, I handed over all the equity. Although you originally gave it to me, I did it for him. For him, I came back from the United States. For him, even he and other women and children did their best.
As a wife, I think I am qualified and great. How many wives can do this?
Aunt Qi, I know you are doing it for my own good and have been working hard to change me. I have always wanted to learn from you and have always regarded you as a role model, but emotionally I cannot do as much as you do. I still
I love Chang Lin with all my heart, and I hope he will repay me with the same love.
Love is not equal. I know this. I also know how stressful government work is, especially how much effort it requires for a person who wants to be promoted. Because official positions are in the hands of people, not in the hands of the system, promotion is easy.
It seems complicated. I just couldn't stand this complicated road to promotion, couldn't bear the grievances, and couldn't bear the pressure, so I became a deserter from the government agencies. I also wanted to support Chang Lin hard, and I did the same, but his
The emotions are so complicated. I am entangled with the Zhang sisters, and I am entangled with Misidi. For Misidi, I even used my father’s power to save people. Aunt Qi, I clearly know everything, but I have to pretend that I can’t.
I know, I can't argue with Chang Lin even if I pretend to be indifferent. Aunt Qi, sometimes I wonder, what did I owe Chang Lin in my previous life? Why is it that I am tortured so much in this life? It's really torture.
, I even thought about becoming a monk, hiding in the mountains, not looking at anything, not thinking about it.
Aunt Qi, I know I can't do this. My mother needs me. My father-in-law is also very dependent on me. Both sons are dependent on me. This family cannot live without me. But does Changlin know this? Does he know!
"Weng Siyu became more and more excited as he spoke. Many words he had suppressed in his heart were like an open flood box door, pouring out for thousands of miles——
Qi Shanbing listened to Weng Siyu's grievances and did not refute him. She is now the best listener. She just needs to be a good listener. After Weng Siyu vents his grievances, he will still support the family.
, it is impossible for her to become a monk, her six sense organs are not pure at all!
After Weng Siyu finished venting, Qi Shanbing said: "Xiaoyu, Changlin knows that he really knows what you have done, otherwise he would not have spent such a high price to send away the Zhang sisters. That Misidi is really different from him."
It has nothing to do with it. I checked that Misidi is the person his adoptive father loves. She is currently in the Western Region and will go abroad soon.
Chang Lin's adoptive father can't keep his beloved woman by his side. Do you think Chang Lin dares to cheat on you again? Will I let him go? I have people all over the world. He is really going to hurt you. I am the first
He won't let him go!
I know many things between him, the Zhang sisters and Misidi, at least better than you, and more fair than you. Are you jealous? After all, you still put your love for Changlin first.
One person, from now on, you will change this position little by little, and you will find that everything is not the same as you think and see now.
Xiaoyu, the crux of the matter should be dealt with by yourself. Changing yourself is the only way. You can't change others. When Changlin doesn't have time to accompany you to kiss me and me, you have your own powerful world, and Changlin
Lin has fulfilled all our wishes. It can be said that Chang Lin is not only your husband, Weng Siyu, but also the hope and future of Northern Shaanxi. He is even a young official who the boss is looking forward to and reusing. At his age,
The next step is to reach the ministerial level. I heard from Secretary Zhong that when he returns this time, he will be promoted to deputy secretary and will be in charge of official corruption nationwide.
Xiaoyu, we can't hold Lin back, we must support him wholeheartedly! What worries me the most is you. You must change your priorities. Once you change, your perspective on the problem will change. When that happens
Then you will understand the meaning of Auntie's sincere words today!" Qi Shanbing said this to Weng Siyu again. While giving Weng Siyu courage and confidence, she also relieved Weng Siyu's mental depression.
How to be an official's wife, Weng Siyu needs to continue to hit her head and bleed, and she will understand what Qi Shanbing's words today mean!
If it were so easy for an official to become a wife, the cases of multiple crimes and public mistresses would not come up to challenge the bottom line of the world!