When Ding Changlin looked at Lu Tiemei like this, he had no intention of complaining or blaming her, because he already knew that women, especially women who love first, lose their minds and become confused in the face of love.
Lu Tiemei is like this, Misidi is like this, and even Qi Yaoyao, who was once cynical, is like this. They all have a time when they are obsessed with love. After this period, they naturally let it go.
"Sister, I don't blame you. People will have such selfish motives. If it were me, I would do the same as you. Sister, to tell you the truth, today there are three people who are giving both kindness and power. They hope that Siyu and I can renew our relationship.
Because of these three phone calls, I was very confused and even resisted Siyu who was coming back. She and I were good friends before, and it was she who encouraged me to visit Feng Dao’s tomb. Regarding Feng Dao’s tomb,
She also told me about the Tao Tomb.
We can be said to be equally matched. Of course, she is a graduate student and has higher academic qualifications than me. She still has a sense of superiority in front of me. Now that she has a rich mother and Qi Shanbing, her sense of superiority will be even greater than mine.
, this is also what I am worried about.
Sister, ask me to beg Siyu, but I can’t do it. Ask me to talk down to her, and I can’t even do it! Also, I have a shadow in my heart. When I went to Xiaoma County to find her and her adoptive parents,
I was even willing to kneel down and beg her not to abort our child. At that time, my parents and I were so eager to have a child. At that time, I did not have such great ambitions as I do now, and it was impossible for me to expect to be the mayor.
A place is too far away for me. I just want to have a family and a grandson that my parents can imagine.
But Qi Lili has always been unwilling to give birth to a child for our Ding family. At that time, I still didn’t understand why she refused to have a child. It wasn’t until she cheated that I realized that she had never wanted to share the joys and sorrows with me and run a good family.
While I was being chased by killers and hiding all over the world, she was having a romantic relationship with another man. It was at this time that I met Siyu, and we had our child with her at this time. This child means a lot to me.
And I really wanted to marry her wholeheartedly at that time.
Sister, I'm sorry. I was thinking about marrying her. I, I never thought about marrying you. Because of our age and your status at the time, you can't imagine the pressure I felt on me.
, in front of you, it is difficult for me to be an upright man, it was really like this at that time.
Men and women are different. A woman can depend on a man for her whole life, but it is difficult for a man to really depend on a woman for his whole life. Whether it is men’s rights or women’s rights, this is what has been agreed upon. These agreements have become customary.
The concept needs to be changed little by little over many generations.
Sister, you spoke the truth today, and I also spoke the truth. We can understand each other, right?" Ding Changlin also told Lu Tiemei the truth in his heart. When everyone could speak like this, Ding Changlin felt really
Well, it’s great to have someone who can express your inner thoughts.
Lu Tiemei laughed after hearing what Ding Changlin said. She gave Ding Changlin another cup of hot tea. This time she served Ding Changlin with the tea. After Ding Changlin touched her, this time it was Ding Changlin who did it first. Lu Tiemei
Then I drank too much, just like drinking alcohol.
"Chang Lin, I can understand you. After all, I am several years older than you, and I have been in the team for a few years. I know very well what the team members are like. We have talked about it tonight. You
Just keep doing what you have to do. I will explain it well to Wen Siyu. Regarding the child, you must also understand her. She is a girl. At that time, she and you could not see the prospects or the future.
Men can't understand how much pressure an illegitimate child has to bear, but as a woman, I can understand it now.
Children are such a big thing that women are afraid of before they are ready. I never thought that one day I would want a child so much, and many of my previous thoughts are now changing.
So, Chang Lin, Wen Siyu will also change, just like your current thoughts are also changing. If there is a fate between you, I think you should put down your own shadow and set up a place to think about Wen Siyu.
I thought, under that environment, she couldn't keep the child.
By the way, Chang Lin, what if, I mean what if, Wen Siyu didn't abort the child? She said she had aborted the child out of anger and was lying to you? Will you still have a shadow?" Lu Tiemei suddenly looked at Ding Changlin.
Asking this, because if a woman looks at this man, she will most likely not abort the child, unless Wen Siyu has no feelings for Ding Changlin, but Qi Shunbing pushes Ding Changlin so hard, it should be because Wen Siyu still loves him
Ding Changlin and Qi Shanbing should know this.
"Sister, it's not what you want to say. Siyu and her mother were very determined at that time. I even cried and begged them. But Siyu didn't see me and her mother had a bad attitude towards me. Moreover, Siyu was determined to go there.
America, her mother will never let her have an illegitimate child again, she is an illegitimate child herself." Ding Changlin concluded that Weng Siyu must have aborted the child, because he knew more about Weng Siyu and Weng Yishan than Lu Tiemei, what Lu Tiemei said
The situation cannot exist.
"Chang Lin, even if it's what you said, you are still young and can have children of your own. After the misunderstanding is resolved, as long as you still have feelings when facing each other, you can renew your old relationship. This kind of
Things can be known when we meet face to face, just by looking at each other. Changlin, listen to your sister, as long as there is hope, you should accept Wen Siyu. I think she is the most suitable person for you. You need someone like Wen Siyu in your future.
A wife and a helper, otherwise it will be too difficult for you to survive alone.
No matter how much Secretary Lu Tianliang admires you, you are just a pawn he needs. Besides, his energy is limited to the province. When you go up to the next level, you must have someone in the court. In the end, you will have both soft and hard strength.
You can imagine how difficult it is to be greedy. If you can avoid it for a while, can you avoid it for the rest of your life?
It's too late tonight. You have a lot of things to do tomorrow. The mayor's job is to do things like housekeeping, which are many and complicated. You have to worry about the food, drink, and toilet in the entire city hall building.
With money, people's hearts can be sold, and many impossible things can become possible. If you go back and think about it carefully, we probably won't have another chance to chat like tonight. After my sister leaves, you can do whatever you want.
No matter what you say, you have to think twice before you act, understand?" Lu Tiemei was like a parent who is traveling far away and is worried about the children at home. She earnestly warned and warned Ding Changlin. She sincerely wished Ding Changlin well and hoped that he would go further.