Wang Gang was sitting in the car and saw Zhang Xueer driving over and parking the car next to him. He was too embarrassed to turn a blind eye and could only get out of the car and say hello.
As soon as Zhang Xueer opened the car door, she heard a voice:
"Hello, Teacher Zhang."
"Ziyou's father!?"
Wang Gang closed the car door and said to Zhang Xueer: "Teacher Zhang, just call me Yan Peng."
Zhang Xueer hesitated for a while, then nodded in agreement. After all, they were not in school now, but she would not call Wang Gang by his first name.
"Mr. Yan, did you send Ziyou to Teacher Zhong for tutoring?"
At the parent-teacher meeting, Zhang Xueer and Nan Li heard about Zhong Yi's tutoring at the same time, so there was a scene in the morning where Zhang Xueer persuaded Zhong Yi.
"Yes, I just sent the child up." Wang Gang looked at Zhang Xueer's face and said:
"I heard what you and Teacher Zhong said this morning."
Zhang Xueer gritted her teeth and said, "Mr. Yan, the school prohibits teachers from giving tutoring to students. If you send Ziyou here, you will harm Teacher Zhong."
Wang Gang raised his eyebrows, not expecting Zhang Xueer to say this.
"Teacher Zhang, what you said is serious." Wang Gang said with a smile: "I sent my children to Teacher Zhong because I believe in his teaching level."
Zhang Xueer said anxiously: "Since you believe in Teacher Zhong, you should believe that Teacher Zhong will teach the students well in class."
Wang Gang explained: “My Ziyou’s math understanding is poor, and sometimes he can’t keep up in class, so I ask Teacher Zhong for tutoring after class.
I also hope that my children will do well in their studies."
Zhang Xueer asked anxiously: "What if the school finds out that Teacher Zhong runs a cram school privately?"
"No, our parents and Teacher Zhong have a tacit understanding and will not tell anyone." Wang Gang said easily:
"Teacher Zhang, to be honest, even if I don't send Ziyou to Teacher Zhong, I will look for tutoring institutions outside. Teacher Zhong knows Ziyou inside and out, so I can rest assured."
Zhang Xueer disagreed: "As long as students study hard in school, there is no need to find extracurricular cram schools."
Wang Gang said: "I agree with Teacher Zhang's point of view, but each child's qualifications are different. Some children can't master the knowledge points they can accept in class, so they rely on after-school tutoring."
"It is precisely because parents have thoughts like yours that they encourage off-campus tutoring institutions." Zhang Xueer said unconvinced.
"The existence is reasonable. Teacher Zhang should also understand that since the cram school exists, there is a certain reason."
Seeing that Zhang Xueer could not convince Wang Gang, she couldn't help but feel a little anxious, her Qingli face turned slightly red.
"Mr. Yan, your family Ziyou's academic performance is already very good. There is no need to enroll in those cram schools. The children are working hard and the adults are wasting money." Zhang Xueer said.
"Teacher Zhang's parents, haven't they given you a cram school before?" Wang Gang asked curiously.
Zhang Xueer was speechless after hearing this.
Of course she had attended cram schools and hired tutors when she was a child, otherwise how could she have been admitted to a normal university.
"It's because I attended cram school when I was a child that I understand the hardship of children," said Zhang Xueer.
Wang Gang shook his head and said: "I only know one thing, if you want to be distinguished in front of others, you must suffer behind others.
If you can't stand the pain of studying when you are a child, you may not be able to adapt to the pain of society when you grow up."
Wang Gang sighed: "As a parent, in addition to protecting my children, I also have to consider their future. Don't I want Ziyou to have a happy childhood?
But if I really let my child go and let him develop on his own, I will really harm him."
Zhang Xueer's teaching philosophy is too idealistic, not to say it's bad, but it's not realistic.
Ideal education reflects the cruel reality, and in the end the victims of the contradiction are still children.
Wang Gang always believes that when children are young, parents must take good care of them. This kind of care not only comes from life, but also from the establishment of three views, the cultivation of character, and even teaching by words and deeds, and leading by example.
Especially Yan Ziyou, he is not an ordinary person, he is a third-generation rich man. If Wang Gang does not strictly discipline him, he may be raised into a prodigal son, which will really harm him for the rest of his life.
Now let him take tutoring, not only for learning, but also for him to understand that nothing in this world can be obtained without hard work.
If you want to get good grades, you have to study hard. If you don't do well in class, you need tutoring after class.
Of course, unlike Tian Yulan, Wang Gang always knows how to keep a certain degree of control.
The reason why Tian Yulan drives her son crazy is that she has too high demands on Yan Ziyou and insists on him competing for first place, so that he becomes addicted to tutoring and places too much emphasis on grades.
Wang Gang asked Yan Ziyou to take tutoring, not to ask him to get high scores, but to make him understand the principle of hard work. It doesn't matter even if he doesn't do well in the test.
But Wang Gang absolutely cannot accept it. Children don't work hard, give up on learning, and even take fun for granted.
Just like Xia Huanhuan.
Wang Gang and Zhang Xueer discussed downstairs for a long time, but neither could convince the other. In the end, Wang Gang did not want to argue with Zhang Xueer anymore.
"Teacher Zhang, I am very happy that you care about Ziyou, but my son is mine, and I still hope to raise him in my own way." Wang Gang finally said.
Zhang Xueer gritted her teeth, seemingly unwilling to do so.
Wang Gang said again: "I also advise you not to interfere with Teacher Zhong's cram school. What he does is always for your future."
Zhang Xueer said angrily: "I don't need you to take care of the affairs between Teacher Zhong and me."
Wang Gang was a little surprised. This was the first time he saw Zhang Xueer angry.
In the end, Zhang Xueer did not go to Zhong Yi and drove away in the car.
At nine o'clock, Wang Gang saw that the time was about the same and went to pick up his son. On the way, he met several parents of students and nodded and said hello.
Wang Gang picked up his son, thanked Zhong Yi, and then drove home.
Yan Ziyou had already finished all his homework at Zhong Yi's place, and Zhong Yi also tutored him on the questions he didn't understand. Wang Gang let his son play for a while.
Whether studying or working, it is right to balance work and rest.
He will not follow Tian Yulan's old path and drive his son crazy.
Wang Gang drove his car home and parked in the parking lot. He found that Tian Yulan hadn't come back yet. It seemed that she was really working overtime tonight.
He parked the car in his own parking space. As soon as he parked the car, Tian Yulan drove back and was stunned when he saw Yan's father's car.
"Why did you drive your father's car back?" Tian Yulan parked the car in an empty parking space, then got out of the car and asked Wang Gang.
Wang Gang said nonchalantly: "My dad drove this car for me."
Tian Yulan frowned and said with some displeasure: "This car is too expensive to maintain."
Wang Gang said: "It's okay, I can afford it."
Seeing that the atmosphere between her parents was not right, Yan Ziyou shouted: "Mom, Dad, let's go home!"
Tian Yulan temporarily suppressed her displeasure and took her son's hand to go home.
After the family of three returned home, Wang Gang asked Yan Ziyou to take a shower first, and he happened to tell Tian Yulan about his resignation.
"What, you want to resign and go to work in your dad's factory?!" Tian Yulan shouted.
"Don't be so excited, be careful that Ziyou hears you." Wang Gang said.
Tian Yulan angrily said: "Why don't you discuss such an important matter with me?"
"Aren't I discussing this with you?" Wang Gang asked in confusion: "Why are you reacting so strongly?"
Tian Yulan said angrily: "I don't agree with your resignation."
Wang Gang was puzzled: "Why?"
Tian Yulan said: "We are living a good life now, why are you resigning?"
Wang Gang said: "My dad is getting older and older, and he has to be busy with things in the factory all day long. As a son, I can't just hang around and wait to die."
Tian Yulan said: "No, you can ask your father to sell the factory and retire directly."
Wang Gang looked at Tian Yulan in surprise, not expecting his wife to say such a thing.
Tian Yulan's heart went crazy when Wang Gang saw her.
"Why do you look at me like this?"
Wang Gang sighed and said: "The factory is not only the family business of my Yan family, but also affects the livelihood of hundreds of employees. It cannot be sold just because it wants to be sold. My father will not agree to it, and I do not agree to sell it either."
When doing business, you can't just think about making money for yourself, but also about social welfare, employee livelihood and a series of other issues.
Tian Yulan has always had the mentality of a migrant worker, and her thinking about problems is relatively superficial.
"Anyway, I don't agree with you going to the factory to help." Tian Yulan said unreasonably.
"If you disagree, there must be a valid reason!" Wang Gang said disappointedly.
Tian Yulan snorted coldly: "If you resign, we will divorce!"
Wang Gang became more and more disgusted and said, "Are you threatening me with divorce?"
Tian Yulan took out the printed divorce agreement from her bag and threw it on the table.
"Have you been ready?" Wang Gang picked up the divorce agreement and found that the woman had not signed it yet.
Tian Yulan said: "Before I got married to you, I drafted a divorce agreement. The property in our names is half for each person. I won't ask for a penny more. The custody of the child belongs to me, and you have the right to visit."
