"Does sir feel that every time you use me as a reference to educate Yulin, he will be very resistant?"
"That's right, every time he teaches him a lesson, he always looks impatient, but he doesn't think about it when he sees the wise, which means that his education is not enough!"
"Uh...I think Brother Yulin still has many advantages, such as he is very filial, loyal, and has a bloody nature. He is very good at doing things. These are all his advantages! Sir, don't just do it.
To see his shortcomings, you must also see his strengths.”
In fact, Lin Xu had a very limited understanding of Yulin, and only knew that this guy was very filial. As for the advantages of "being loyal, having bloody nature, and doing things in a good way", Lin Xu inferred them all.
Fang Jinglan stroked his beard and smiled and said, "Mr. I'm right. Yulin is indeed a very filial, loyal and bloody child. He is very decisive when doing things. However, compared with Mr., the difference is his
Still too big!”
Lin Xu smiled bitterly and said, "Mr. Fang must not say that. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. Yulin has a place to learn from me, and I also have a place to learn from Yulin. The ancients said: If three people walk, there must be my teacher.
.Choose the good ones and follow them, and choose the bad ones and correct them."
"So, Mr. Fang, when you educate Yulin in the future, don't always stare at his shortcomings, but also praise his strengths. I think that if this happens, he will not be so resistant."
"In addition, the most important point is that you must not compare me with him!"
Fang Jinglan was a little puzzled: "Why is this?"
"Yulin and I have never had contact with each other before, but after meeting, he showed deep hostility towards me! Do you know why, sir?"
“Is it…”
Fang Jinglan is a very insightful person. After hearing this, he immediately realized the problem. After pondering for a moment, he said in surprise: "Is it because I asked him to learn from Mr. He vented his resentment on Mr.
?”
"That's right!"
Lin Xu said with great confidence!
Because, apart from this reason, he and Fang Yulin had no other intersection, so Fang Yulin naturally had no other reason to resent himself.
Fang Jinglan's face looked thoughtful: "I understand... No wonder he whispered to his husband when he met. I was very puzzled at the time, but I didn't expect that it was the reason! This strange son
, look back to see how I deal with him!"
"Forehead......"
Lin Xu held his forehead with his hands and was completely speechless!
At this moment, he finally understood a sentence deeply: Don’t try to care about other people’s children!
However, he has made his own efforts. As for whether Fang Jinglan can listen and whether there will be any changes in educational methods in the future, it is not something he can control!
Putting the issue of educating children aside for the time being, Lin Xu began to talk to Fang Jinglan about how to implement the national policy of changing rice into mulberry, and even related matters such as loans!
After listening to Lin Xu's narration, Fang Jinglan immediately felt awe!
He stood up, bowed to Lin Xu first, and then said excitedly: "Sir, you are such a righteous person! This time, the victims of Jiangsu can be considered to be saved!"
"Sir, over-reputation!"
Although Lin Xu didn't like etiquette, he still stood up and returned the gift, and then said with anticipation: "Mr. Fang is also asking for more help in the loan matter. I can provide collateral. In addition, the governor's yamen can also protect this matter.