Ruolan felt both distressed and guilty: "I accidentally used too much force just now! What should I do? Let me help you rub it? Why don't you go find a doctor..."
"Silly girl!"
Seeing that Ruolan was really anxious, Lin Xu immediately stopped joking with her and grabbed her wrist: "Although I am weak, I am not that weak. I will go if you punch me
Looking for a doctor? That's too wasteful!"
"Are you okay?"
"It's really okay! I was joking with you just now!"
"I was shocked! I thought I had really broken you!"
Ruolan glared at him as if she was so cute!
Lin Xu smiled and then said seriously: "Wife, there is something I want to talk to you seriously!"
"What's the matter?"
Seeing Lin Xu's serious appearance, Ruolan immediately felt nervous!
"Whoever says a woman has to have a baby!"
Lin Xu looked into Ruolan's eyes and said.
“What…what?”
Suddenly hearing Lin Xu's words, Ruolan couldn't help but feel a little confused!
"Ahem..."
Lin Xu also realized that his words were a bit abrupt, so he coughed twice and explained patiently: "What I mean is that women may not necessarily have to have children... Of course, if you have
With strong personal intentions, you can choose to have a baby!"
"But if you understand what I say, it is because you have a strong will. You can choose to have a baby instead of the pressure imposed by others, even if the 'other' is me, or your other family member."
"In fact, it should be up to you to decide whether to have a child or not, rather than forced by the outside world to do this!"
"Whether you have a baby or not, my love for you will not be reduced by one point!"
"Anyway, don't treat having a baby as a pressure!"
"Ruolan, can you understand what I mean?"
Ruolan is also a very insightful girl. She probably understood Lin Xu's words, but this theory shocked her!
Although she had not read a few days ago, the entire Daning Dynasty was filled with decadent thoughts of "men are superior to women, and women are inferior to others, and three follow four virtues". This thought has long been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. She naturally cannot be spared if she grew up in this big dye vat!
Now, Lin Xu said that whether to give birth or not should be decided by herself or not, and this matter should not be regarded as a pressure!
This thought really made her feel a strong shock, but it was refreshing at the same time!
After a while, Ruolan nodded.
"Did you understand?"
"It seems like I understand, but I don't think I understand..."
"Uh... OK!"
In fact, Lin Xu also knew that this idea was indeed too advanced in the current era, and there was no soil for rooting and sprouting. It was normal for Ruolan to not understand for a while, and she had to digest it carefully.
Of course, he didn't expect Ruolan to immediately wake up her thoughts after hearing what he said, nor did he think about cultivating her into a "feminist". He just hoped not to give birth to her about having a child.
It caused too much trouble, just hope she won't be under such great pressure and can live a more comfortable life. This chapter has been completed!