After driving an online ride-hailing service for so many years, Yu Wenhao has encountered many passengers like men.
In this small space, Yu Wenhao discovered an interesting phenomenon, that is, those who have just encountered something good, such as promotion, salary increase, award, or just bought a house, have almost no time after getting in the car.
Ignore him, just take your mobile phone and call or send voice messages on WeChat to all your relatives and friends, your eyes are full of joy, your voice is ups and downs, and you are talking.
After a round of phone calls and WeChat messages, I put down my phone and still had no time to pay attention to him, just treating him as nothing. They often sat there alone and had fun, or simply hummed, as if my happiness has nothing to do with you.
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Yu said hello and tried his best not to disturb them and let them enjoy themselves.
On the other hand, customers like men, who have just experienced a setback, are divided into two types after getting in the car. One is to sit there silently, either sulking, or there are more generous people who take a taxi and wait until the bus arrives.
During this time, his anger was gone and he had accepted the reality he was facing.
After getting in the car, his face was ashen, and he sat there with a blank look, as if he had no hope of life. But the bad luck was clearly written on his face and took root between his eyebrows, making it obvious at a glance.
He's out of luck.
When meeting such a guest, Yu would say hello and chat with him in an understated manner. He knew that at this time, even if he said irrelevant words to the other person, as long as he did not let him indulge in his own loss and pain,
It will make you feel better. As he spoke, his ashen face seemed to have some life and gradually became lively.
Yu Wenhao himself didn't expect that the psychological knowledge he had learned in a shallow way would provide him with a lot of help in observing words and emotions in this small space.
Yu Wenhao has the mentality of helping as much as he can and enlightening others if he can. He is very willing to chat with such customers.
Ever since Qian Qian fell ill, Yu Wenhao felt that not only had he become less courageous, but he was also very careful. He would remind himself from time to time that when he could help others, he should do his best to help others. There was nothing wrong with being kind to others.
God is watching when people are doing it. Yu Wenhao feels that God is watching if he does more good deeds and less bad things every day. He is accumulating merit and doing it. Maybe God will be softhearted and help him.
He made Qian Qian's disease healed.
Yu Wenhao felt that in addition to becoming less courageous and peaceful, he also became a little superstitious. When faced with things that cannot be solved by one's own abilities, it seems natural for people to place their hopes on supernatural powers.
There is also a kind of down-and-out passenger, like a man. After getting on the bus, he likes to tell Yu Wenhao about his own affairs.
They really met by chance. Just because they met by chance, they were two strangers to each other. On the contrary, it made people open their hearts and talk to him, a stranger, about things that were difficult to say to other people, acquaintances or relatives. It was like someone
Like calling the midnight radio station to talk about what's on your mind.
These things have accumulated too much in their hearts and been suppressed for too long. If they don't speak out and find an outlet, they may explode.
Moreover, Yu Wenhao found that such people are more often those who are very strong in life and work. Because of their strength, they have erected an invisible hard shell around themselves, and others cannot get in.
They themselves can't get out. When they are hit, they are like a pressure cooker, and the negative energy accumulated inside is even more astonishing.
When encountering such guests, Yu Wenhao would try to drive as slowly as possible to give them more time. While driving, he listened quietly to what they were saying, and from time to time, he would add a word or two, not to make a fuss.
Instead of interrupting them, you are guiding the conversation to continue.
Just say it.
At this time, Yu Wenhao holds the steering wheel and often thinks like this in his heart. It’s true that people have a lot of confusions and problems, and it’s better to just speak them out. After speaking out, he will let go of the pent-up thoughts in his heart.
By unloading things, shaking your head, or washing your face, people will have the energy and ability to face it.
So, let's talk.
"Do you live at No. 1 Hangcheng?" Yu Wenhao asked.
The man is right.
"High-end residences cost more than 100,000 square meters now, right?"
The man seemed to have regained some energy. He moistened his throat and said, "I am a talented person. I got it through a lottery. The opening price is not that expensive, only 48,000 per square meter."
Yu Wenhao shouted: "You still said no, but did you see that you are all talents recognized by the government? You can make money by buying this house, and you will become a multimillionaire as soon as you make money, right?"
The man finally laughed and said, "Yes, the house is considered a profit."
He then sighed: "However, I really don't know what to do next. I probably have to wait to be kicked out."
"Impossible." Yu Wenhao said.
"How is it impossible? This house was not purchased with full payment, but with a mortgage. Do you know how much the monthly mortgage payment is? More than 30,000!"
Yu Wenhao was shocked. His monthly mortgage payment was more than 4,000 yuan, which made him feel very stressed. With this month's mortgage payment being more than 30,000 yuan, he couldn't even think about it.
The man continued: "The monthly mortgage payment is more than 30,000 yuan, and my son is still in boarding school. My wife has not worked since she gave birth to my son, and she has been a full-time housewife at home. My unemployment is equivalent to a loss for the whole family.
I have no income, do you understand? Do you know how stressed I am?
"My annual income used to be almost two million. My life was all arranged and planned on this basis. At that time, our company was hiring a lot of people every year. Who would have thought that there would be a large number of layoffs?
One day, I was also among those who were laid off.
"But the reality is this. No matter what I was yesterday, today, I am already the same as you, even worse than you. You still have a legitimate job. No matter how much, at least you still have income every day. I...I
The whole family has no income at all.
"Although my family still has some savings, and the company compensated me with some money when I resigned, I won't be kicked out of my home by the bank immediately or starve to death, but how long can that little savings last? I'll be left with nothing.
"Let me tell you, when I think about the luxurious meals I used to eat, I want to spit it out. If I can change it into money, when I think about the money I spent so lavishly, I feel very regretful and wish I could fly back.
"I told you earlier that I wanted to drive an online ride-hailing car like you. It was really not a joke. If you think about it honestly, I probably only have the ability to drive. Other skills,
From the day I was fired, I stayed in Ali and would not be of any use elsewhere.
"What kind of bullshit talents are you, even those certified by the government? At this point, who will care about you? You are a talent when you have a label on you. When the label is removed, you are just shit. No one cares about you at all, and no one cares about you.
.I just wrote a letter to the mayor. Believe it or not, the mayor will not even see it, and a staff member will send you away.
"By the way, do you know how I live every day now? It's embarrassing to say it. I still pack myself neatly every morning, drive the car, pretend to go to work, and go back every day.
Pretend that you are tired after a busy day.
"I didn't dare to tell my wife that I had been laid off. Even when my wife asked me that there was a lot of talk outside about how many people your company had laid off, which caused the housing prices in Hangzhou to drop, I pretended to be
I told her in an understatement that it was a matter for the HR department and I was too lazy to take care of it.
"That's it. I don't dare to tell her that I have been laid off. I'm afraid, really afraid. You know, if I tell her, she will definitely collapse before me. My family, probably
There will be no peace from now on."
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