Yu Wenhao then asked Professor Zheng, he said: "I am in a patient group, and some patients suggested that I have another child. Professor Zheng, what do you think?"
Professor Zheng looked at Yu and said hello, he said: "You and Xiao Cao are still young, this can be an option. Besides, now the second child is also allowed, there is no harm to you to have one more child, as long as it is economical
As long as you can bear it.”
"I just want to ask, is this good for Qianqian?" Yu Wenhao asked.
"There is definitely a 25% probability among siblings that their bone marrow and stem cells will be completely identical. If used as a donor, a completely identical donor is the most ideal donor.
There is less rejection reaction than a perfect match with no blood relationship.”
"Twenty-five percent, so high?" Yu Wenhao asked.
Professor Zheng nodded.
Yu Wenhao almost immediately decided to have another child for Qian Qian. Twenty-five percent, that is to say, there is a 1 in 4 chance that Qian Qian will get a match that is exactly the same as hers. This is different from the previous one.
If you go to the bone marrow bank to search for it, compared with the possibilities of hundreds or tens of millions, this probability is too high.
"If Qian Qian's younger brother or sister is completely consistent with Qian Qian's blood, then Qian Qian will have a safe," Professor Zheng said.
Yu Wenhao asked: "How to say?"
"After a fully matched bone marrow or stem cell transplant, there is still a possibility of relapse. If, I mean just in case, if a superficial relapse occurs, a second reinfusion of stem cells will be required, which means finding a new donor.
, if the donor is her brother or sister, you ask, does this mean that there is a safe next to her? "
Yu Wenhao nodded repeatedly. He felt that Professor Zheng's description of the vault was very vivid.
When Yu Wenhao returned home, he told Cao Fang about the new drug that Professor Zheng told him. Cao Fang was also very happy and asked, "So, does this mean there is hope for our family Qianqian?"
Yu Wenhao said yes, and then he told Cao Fang about having another child.
Cao Fang looked at him and kept smiling.
Yu Wenhao asked: "Why are you laughing?"
"It's all good news anyway," Cao Fang said.
Yu Wenhao also laughed, he said yes, it is all good news, this is the road of heaven and earth.
"Twenty-five percent possibility?" Cao Fang said, "Then if we can't do it, we might as well just have four children. Wouldn't this mean that there are 100% perfect matches for Qian Qian?"
Yu Wenhao couldn't help but laugh: "Is this how you calculate the probability? Four percent and twenty-five percent, that's 100 percent? You have worked in finance. Is your math really taught by a physical education teacher?"
Cao Fang was stunned for a moment, then came to her senses, looked at Yu saying hello, and smiled.
After laughing, he looked at Yu Wenhao blankly and said nothing. Yu Wenhao asked: "What's wrong?"
Cao Fang said: "We have to raise two children after we are born. Do we have the conditions to raise two children now? Whether they are younger brothers or younger sisters, they are all my biological children. Now that I see Qian Qian in such pain, I feel very uncomfortable. If
It will make me feel even more uncomfortable if I see him or her suffering too."
"No." Yu Wenhao shook his head, "I have already thought about this. If after birth, the bone marrow and umbilical cord blood of the younger brother and sister are completely consistent with Qian Qian, Qian Qian can be transplanted. After the transplant, Qian Qian will
Once you are healthy, your subsequent medical expenses will be greatly reduced. If you raise another child, there will be no problem at all, and they will not be wronged."
"But, that's only a one-quarter possibility, and there's still three-quarters of an impossibility. What if they are still half-matched after birth?" Cao Fang asked.
"Even if that's the case, we still need to have another child. Even if it's for Qianqian's sake, if Qianqian, I mean what if, what if Qianqian's illness never gets better, as it always does, she also needs someone to take care of her.
, after we leave, if there is a brother or sister who can take care of her, can we rest assured?"
Cao Fang thought for a while and felt that Yu Wenhao was right, so she nodded.
Yu Wenhao sighed and said, "What I'm thinking about is that if there is another one, it will be hard on you."
Cao Fang shook his head: "Don't be afraid, hard work is nothing. As long as Qian Qian can be good, it doesn't matter if I work hard. Besides, as long as our whole family can be together, there is nothing to be afraid of no matter how hard it is. It's not like I haven't endured hardships."
, not afraid.”
Based on their current financial situation, hiring a confinement nanny or a nanny for another child is a no-brainer because they can't afford it.
Even if Lian Yu says hello, he can't stop driving a ride-hailing car part-time. At most, he can only stop for a while to take care of Cao Fang when Cao Fang has a baby or is in confinement. At other times, he has to rely on Cao Fang alone.
I have to take care of Qianqian and take care of the children.
The end-of-life date of Yu Hao's car is displayed there. It can be said to be measured in days. If he stops driving it for a few months, it will be equivalent to a few months of losses. Moreover, without his income from driving an online car-hailing service, they will still have to pay for it.
Raising a child will definitely make ends meet.
Cao Fang's parents have long since passed away. Yu Wenhao's parents are in Yongcheng. His mother is in poor health and is resting at home. His father has not yet retired. It is already hard enough for a man to go to work and take care of his mother.
of.
Fortunately, the income of the two of them is not bad. Although his mother has retired from Xinhua Bookstore, she is a career editor and her income is not low. They will subsidize her every month and say hello to them.
But if they are asked to help take care of the children, it is definitely not expected.
"Let's give birth." Cao Fang and Yu Wenhao said, "Even if Qian Qian is not a good match after birth, if she has a younger brother or sister to accompany Qian Qian at home, Qian Qian will not feel so lonely. Aren't you still worried about her time?
When you grow up, will you become autistic?"
Yu said hello and we were born.
The two of them decided to have a second child, so they seized every opportunity and opportunity to have a second child, hoping that Qian Qian's younger brother or sister could come to this world as soon as possible. Unfortunately, after the two of them worked hard for more than a year, Cao Fang
My stomach is still quiet even now.
After the two of them finished their work, they were both still awake and not sleepy. Although they knew it was getting late and they had to go to bed, especially since they said hello to Yu, they would get up and get out of the car in a while, but they just couldn't sleep. There was nothing they could do.
Snuggled together, Cao Fang and Yu Wenhao said:
"Talk about it."
"What did you say?" Yu Wenhao asked.
"What you said before."
Yu Wenhao remembered it, so he told Cao Fang about the things he couldn't find in the morning, and then told her about meeting Jiang Yihe in the evening. Cao Fang sighed after hearing this, and she said:
"It's not a worry. Look at this, especially this Jiang Yihe. The little girl is so pitiful. You have to help her. Logically speaking, these two little girls should be very happy, but the result is still like this.
, No matter how much money my parents have, what's the use, they are still anxious to death, hey, hey, let me ask you."
"What?" Yu Wenhao asked.
"Tell me, if you had a choice, would you rather Qian Qian be like this or be like that Jiang Yihe?" Cao Fang asked.
"I don't want Qian Qian to be healthy." Yu Wenhao said, "If I really have to choose, I would rather Qian Qian be like Xiao Jiang. This way, Qian Qian will at least not suffer so much pain.
, at worst, if I follow her every day and urge her to do things, that’s better than watching her rolling on the bed and having nothing to do.”
