He didn't understand at first that even though they had been separated for so many years, they were close relatives, relatives with the same blood.
Later, when he met Toffee, he really understood that if he and Toffee had not experienced so many things and had no certain emotional foundation, this kind of recognition would be a burden to her.
After all, in the next twenty years of her life, no one from the Lu family existed.
The only people she is closest to are her grandfather and Qin Huaichuan.
Everyone in their family will be very excited to meet other relatives rashly and try their best to make up for the love that Toffee has been missing for twenty years.
But in fact, this will only put her into an embarrassing situation.
If she and her brothers have gotten along before, and they meet each other again, there will be no burden, only a long-lost reunion.
This was also one of the reasons why he didn't take Toffee back immediately to recognize him.
He loves Toffee so much. He believes that his grandma, parents and brothers also miss Toffee just like him.
It was precisely because of this pure longing that he didn't want to ruin it.
What he wants is for the family to truly love each other, and he doesn't want anyone to feel pressured or confused.
Now, everything is developing according to his imagination.
Lu Jiangyu was silent for a few seconds, and his tone softened a lot: "Sorry, brother."
He was too eager and forgot the most important point.
Brother did nothing wrong.
"It's okay. I know you are impatient. Why am I not? I want the whole world to know that Gu Beisheng is the eldest daughter of our Lu family. However, all this can only happen slowly. There is no need to rush. We are all still young and the future is very long.
, there is too much time to make up for this relationship, but the premise is to lay a good foundation. Fortunately, Toffee also likes us and has expectations. I believe that our family will get better and better."
Lu Jiangyu nodded: "Okay."
Lu Jiuqi was a little moved when she heard this. She had seen a piece of news some time ago and her mood had been bad for a long, long time.
They are an ordinary couple whose five-year-old child was abducted by traffickers.
The couple was distraught. In order to find their child, they sold all their property and moved to various cities. They did not give up even if there was little hope.
The couple suffered a lot and spent all their savings. For twenty years, they were immersed in pain, crying all day long, and had no good life.
The most tragic thing is that the child's grandfather and grandmother passed away one after another because they could not bear the news that their grandson had been abducted.
Finally, after twenty-five years, the child was finally found.
The parents were immersed in the joy of finding their child, but their child was at a loss.
Twenty-five years is too long. When he was abducted, he was just a child. Now, he is an adult, has a family, and has his own children. The father is kind and the son is filial.
He is confused and unfamiliar with a biological parent who suddenly appears out of nowhere. He may understand the hardship and pain that his parents have gone through looking for him for so many years, but it is difficult to empathize with them.
He may even worry about the fear and sadness his adoptive parents will feel when they find out that his biological parents have found him.
For twenty-five years, he has long regarded his so-called adoptive parents as his closest relatives.
Are his biological parents not close enough?
No, it’s a stranger!
But his biological parents were forced to deprive him of twenty-five years of growing up.
In the end, the biological parents feel sorry for their children, understand them, and humbly do not disturb their children's current lives.
When she thought about this, she felt sad. They were obviously relatives whose blood is thicker than water, but they became relatives.
You have to re-establish your relationship with your child.
Maybe they have the experience of losing a loved one and can understand his parents. Even so, they can't imagine the pain of finding their child a stranger after they meet him.
I lost my children twice in my life, the first time was when they were abducted, and the second time was when they were found as strangers.
I still remember that it was my eldest brother who first mentioned this news. He was angry that the adoptive parents had escaped legal sanctions because of their upbringing, but he was helpless and his emotions were constantly being cut and sorted out.
Perhaps because of this, the eldest brother wants to take his time.
Thinking about it, my sister is not much different from being abducted. Otherwise, why would she be in Bincheng all the time but unable to return home?
The Gu family members are just as hateful as human traffickers!
Fortunately, my sister is back.
Although, twenty years have passed.
She slowly recovered her thoughts and said softly: "Fourth brother, our family will always love each other. As long as my sister is still alive and can come back to us, she is already luckier than most people."
Lu Jiangyu nodded: "Well, let's go back and prepare in advance to welcome our eldest lady."
Lu Jiuqi smiled happily: "Okay~"
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Nan'anju.
Gu Beisheng played with Xiao Shi for a while, and Xiao Shi trotted upstairs to find her brother.
As soon as she stood up, Fu Xizhou hugged her from behind.
"Sheng'er, take me back too, okay?"
His tone was obedient, but the ending was very hoarse, mellower than red wine and intoxicating...
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Good night, may the world be free of crutches and the whole family be happy~