Mrs. Xiao went to see her daughter and grandson and brought the betrothal gift prepared by the Feng family.
I originally thought it would go smoothly, but the Yun family didn't agree.
Mrs. Xiao felt strange, "Mrs. Yun, why don't you agree to this marriage? Third Young Master Feng is a talented man, capable of both literary and military skills, and he loves your daughter so much. And you are afraid that you don't know that no man in the Feng family will take a concubine.
,Why don’t you agree?”
Regarding the fact that she did not take concubines, Mrs. Xiao was very supportive of her daughter marrying Feng Jian.
Because how many men today can be as clean and self-sufficient as the Feng family?!
In terms of status and appearance, they are all excellent and dedicated. She couldn't find such a good son-in-law even if she held a lantern, right?!
Mrs. Yun Da smiled and said: "To be honest, it's not that I don't agree, it's the child's father who doesn't agree with it, and the elders of the Yun family don't support it."
"You also know that we only have one daughter, and something happened before that she was kidnapped and transferred to a subcontractor. We are really afraid that Chang'er will be hurt again, so we don't want her to marry far away."
"We are not a long-term solution in the capital. We will leave for Jinzhou in a while."
"Shang'er's amnesia has not recovered yet. I want to take her back to her hometown in Jinzhou, where she grew up. Maybe going back can help her remember it."
The most important thing is that Fengxu will go to the battlefield after getting married. How can this make them feel at ease?
Her daughter is only fifteen years old!
If the husband is not at home after getting married, and the sword is blind on the battlefield, what should the daughter do if something bad happens to her?
To put it bluntly, I am afraid that my daughter will be widowed in the future.
"Mrs. Xiao, you are also a mother. To be honest, I am not as strong as you. I cannot accept that my daughter will marry a general who sheds his blood."
"Although I respect the Feng family and those soldiers very much. Mr. Feng saved my daughter, and our Yun family is willing to support him unconditionally in terms of money and food. As long as Mr. Feng opens his mouth, our Yun family will fully support it, but my daughter
, I don’t agree to marry him.”
"I'm really sorry..." Mrs. Yun's eyes were red because she was determined to separate her daughter and Feng Xu.
Mrs. Xiao can understand her, because her prince and son have been away on the battlefield all year round, and have almost lost their lives several times. The Xiao family has few heirs, and a large part of the reason is because Xiao Changqing is not at home all year round.
There are several aunts at home, but none of them have children.
Xiao Changqing could count the number of days that Xiao Changqing had returned home on five fingers a month. He had been staying in her house for the past few days, so how could he bother to go to other concubines?!
Now my son has avoided going to the battlefield because he was hit by a hidden weapon and unable to use his martial arts.
She was actually very happy.
"I can understand you, but I think you should think about it and respect the children's wishes. If we as parents are too arbitrary and forceful and interfere with our children's ideas, it will only make the children unhappy in the future." Mrs. Xiao
Use your own experience to persuade her.
Xiao Heng and Gu Qingwan were largely because she did not agree with her son marrying Gu Qingwan, which led to the unhappy life of her son and the eldest princess.
She had regretted it.
Mrs. Yun Da felt conflicted in her heart, "Well, I will seriously consider it again."
In the end, no one agreed.
Seeing that she was still hesitant, Mrs. Xiao went back to explain to the Feng family, "The Yun family has too many concerns. The most important thing is that they think that the third young master went to the battlefield after getting married, fearing that his daughter would become a widow..."
No man in the Yun family goes to war, so they will have no worries about food and clothing for the rest of their lives.
In fact, it is normal to be worried and scared.
Unlike generals and wives like her, they have developed a strong heart.
Feng Xu looked unhappy, "I'm going to Yun's house."