After Sun Chengyun's wedding, Yuzhu's father-in-law Fucha Changde's 40th birthday was very close.
My eldest uncle An Lin was going to work in Changchun Garden, but he couldn't get rid of his life to do big things. Yuzhu, the son-in-law who was equivalent to half a son, naturally took on the responsibility.
Previously, An Lin had sent someone to post to the relatives of the Fucha family. However, it is definitely not enough for a wealthy family to celebrate their birthdays, just the next post, and that is too disrespectful.
There are many rituals from Manchus.
According to the conventional rules, the wealthy families under its wealthy families must notify all relatives and friends at least one month in advance for their birthdays.
When the birthday is approaching three days before, someone will be sent to post again so that relatives and friends will not forget it, or delay any matters and cause unnecessary misunderstandings.
The most important thing to invite guests to drink is the following: Should I invite the restaurant to hold a table, or should my own chef take it personally? How many tables are there for the table? Is it a flowing table or a fixed table? How many tables do I need to prepare for spare tables? Who likes it?
Cause trouble after drinking?
Among them, the most troublesome thing is how to queue up the VIP guests?
In the Qing Dynasty, if the seats of VIPs were misplaced, it would definitely be a disaster that offends people to death.
For example, if he wants to invite Yuzhu to have a birthday wine, should he sit on the seat of the princes, or the grandchildren of the Tong family, or the relatives of the Fucha family as a son-in-law?
Hehe, the knowledge and etiquette are simply a profound and profound study of secular etiquette.
Because it has been decades since the entry into the customs, the bannermen are not allowed to do business or farm.
Many royal families who have no real power, such as the lord or the banner-man wife, are dedicated to the powerful and powerful families, and even personally organize weddings and weddings to give gifts.
The head of the Dog Raising Department, who was in charge of the country's grace, not only raised dogs for the royal family, but also specialized in the grand ceremony of weddings and funerals such as weddings and funerals.
Changde and Yuzhu sat at the round table, listening to Hanyuan's old allusion about holding birthday banquets with relish.
Just listened, Han Yuan smiled and said, "Our family does birthday celebrations, but prefers flowing tables. Why? Because, we have no way to predict the guests who come to congratulate them temporarily. If the guests come, come on.
After getting the gift list, there was no room to enter. The host would be embarrassed.”
Chang De nodded frequently and sighed: "You are still Mr. Han, you are considerate."
Han Yuan waved his hand and said, "Master Chang, since we have sat in the same place, it is better to call each other brothers, and be comfortable and relaxed, right? I, the so-called Duke, only 500 taels of silver a year, 500
It’s just Hulu rice, which is enough for a whole family to chew? Alas, there’s not enough silver rice, what should I do? I can only rely on Mr. Chang and Mr. Yu, you two, to eat.”
"You two have given you food and food, and they are Han's parents. How can they call me a master? Or is it better to call each other brothers?" Han Yuan's attitude was very low and he said.
It's very pleasant to hear, quite touching.
Yuzhu couldn't help but smile. This old man from Hanyuan was willing to put down his priest's airs in order to make money. He was also a wonderful person.
The salary of the Duke of Hanyuan is 500 taels a year, which seems to be a lot. In fact, it is only 40 taels a month.
In addition, the annual salary of the dog raising department is only 300 taels.
After two rounds, the monthly expenses of Hanyuan’s family are at most less than seventy taels.
Hanyuan's family has a large population, with wives, concubines, children and children. Outside, he also had to live and maintain the style of a duke. The family has a sedan chair, a coachman team, etc. The expenses are huge, and it is very difficult to endure this life.
To put it bluntly, if you didn’t want to make some foreign water, why would Hanyuan put down the air of the Duke and show up in public to handle the wedding and white wedding?
Changde originally wanted to pay only one thousand taels of silver for his birthday. After all, after Sabusu's death, Changde held filial piety for another three years and is currently in a state of huge deficit.
Yuzhu is so sensible that he took the initiative to add a thousand taels of expenses, which is a big scene of two thousand taels.
According to the practice of getting one in ten, Hanyuan can get at least 200 taels of silver, which is enough for the whole family to chew for three months.
Hanyuan is not doing a single business, and there are many people under his rank in this industry, and the competition is extremely fierce.
Changde chose Hanyuan, mainly because Hanyuan has a very good reputation in this industry. Everyone says that Hanyuan will do things with real money and will never be fooled or fond of it.
As we all know, in this era of prevalence of etiquette, the masters who handle weddings and weddings were most afraid of spending money and being criticized for their temporary omissions.
That would be a big loss.
Yuzhu's view has always been a problem that money can solve, but it is not a problem. He is also willing to spend money to celebrate his father-in-law's birthday.
No matter what, the closest relatives of the wife are all serious relatives that Yuzhu must take care of.
When he heard that the fifth prince would come to congratulate him in person, Han Yuan couldn't help but bow and said, "Master Chang, Master Wu Beile is here to support you. Your birthday party must be very good."
Yuzhu took the initiative to double the money and was also responsible for inviting the fifth prince to save face. Chang De deeply felt the respect of his son-in-law for him and was extremely satisfied.
In fact, Yuzhu didn't know how to hold a birthday party. His principle was to only pay for money and not make a sound, and everything was based on Changde's meaning.
As long as the father-in-law feels relieved, Yuzhu will be satisfied.
Han Yuan actually wanted to join the line with Yuzhu. Because the Nine Gate Admiral Longkodo was in charge of more than 30,000 troops, his eight banner ginseng leaders, assistant leaders, and a large number of generals and deputy generals in the Green Camp.
Join the general.
These people are really rich people who hold real power and don’t lack money.
To put it bluntly, as long as Yuzhu is willing to help introduce Hanyuan’s business, do you still have to worry about?
However, Yuzhu closed his mouth tightly and hardly spoke.
A smart person like Han Yuan can't find the reason to connect with him. Oh, it's so difficult.
Han Yuan gritted his teeth secretly. He was well-informed, but he had never seen Yu Zhu's extremely low-key style.
In the four or nine cities, including the prince, which young upstart in his teens is not domineering and domineering?
But Yuzhu has a series of dazzling titles and strong strength, but he is extremely calm.
No matter what Changde said, Yuzhu only laughed and didn't say anything. This is the rhythm of driving Hanyuan crazy.
"Yu Ye, what do you think?" Han Yuan endured it and asked Yu Zhu unbearable.
Yuzhu smiled and said, "I don't know anything, I just follow my father-in-law's instructions." He expressed his opinion and closed his mouth again.
Han Yuan was so angry that he was itchy, but he was helpless. This was the first time he had met a freak young upstart like Yuzhu.
Seeing Yuzhu so obedient, Chang De couldn't bear it anymore and smiled and said, "Son-in-law, the fifth prince is here, and he must be at the seat. Then, you have to accompany him to eat and drink."
This person is basically the same. You respect me one foot, I respect me one foot.
Yuzhu refused to come forward and pretended to be six fingers, so Changde was naturally very satisfied.
Originally, Chang De thought that Yuzhu's family background and identity would definitely make some mistakes.
Who would have thought that Yuzhu adhered to the principle of paying for him and speaking with Changde, so he sat there for a long time and refused to interrupt.
This is very satisfying!
"Come here, I went to make my son-in-law's favorite drink of Biluo Chunlai."
“Ware.”
Soon, the tea was replaced by Biluochun, which Yuzhu liked to drink.
Yuzhu tasted the tea and thought to himself that the sponsorship of 1,000 taels of silver and the low-key style of being a human have won the recognition of his father-in-law, which is great value!
As the old saying goes, it is better to be silent than to be silent. It makes sense.
If the elders are here, they don’t talk too much, and it’s rare to be confused, and it’s also the truth!
Changde celebrates birthdays is just a cover.
Yuzhu knew in his heart that the people in the Fucha family were all monkey spirits.
Taking advantage of the opportunity of Changde's birthday and observing Yuzhu's behavior and doing things is the true purpose of Fucha's family.
The two families who just pointed to the marriage must need to get along.
During the birthday, carefully observe the style of Yuzhu nearby to facilitate Fucha to make necessary adjustments based on the preliminary understanding.
There is no way, the strict etiquette and law of this era is too ruthless and cruel to women!
Doing a birthday is a big deal, and everything must be done.
Changde and Hanyuan discussed for two hours before they could get the matter done.
Yuzhu is also a great man. After sitting for so long, he always had a smile on his face, and his butt seemed to have roots, and it kept sticking to the chair.
Han Yuan has always had no chance to talk to Yuzhu, and his head is eight big.
Changde was extremely satisfied. His son-in-law paid money and worked hard. He was willing to sit with him for so long. He was really a rare son-in-law!
After Yuzhu left, Changde praised Yuzhu very much in front of Yiergen Jueluo and Xiuyun.
Irgen Jueluo also felt that he had picked up a treasure. She originally thought that with Yuzhu's family background and knowledge, no matter what, he should be an omniscient person in heaven and earth, and he was eloquent.
Who would have thought that Yuzhu's behavior and style were so low-key?
"Master, our family actually has no shortage of money. I originally planned to prepare 30,000 taels for our Xiuyun. Now it seems that how about putting 30,000 taels to the Ming place?" Yiergen Jueluo was originally a
The thought of hiding my weakness is that the bun has meat and will never be exposed on the surface.
Chang De smiled and said, "By relying on the blessings of Amata, you can put a few of the three hundred-year-old old ginseng you have hidden in to our girl's dowry?"
The couple looked at each other and smiled, and everything was indifferent.
Just think about it, Sabusu served as the general of Heilongjiang for eighteen years, how can he not lose his private pockets?
I really don’t brag. In Changde’s warehouse, there are many old ginseng, bear skin, sable skin, tiger skin, etc., and they are almost rotten.
Heilongjiang's fur goods are famous all over the world, and they are all good things that are hard to buy with money.
With Sabusu's lofty prestige in Heilongjiang, his granddaughter is about to get married. Hehe, how could he not give generous gifts to his old subordinates and the elders of the Solon tribe?
Now, since Yuzhu is willing to pay for his father-in-law to save face, he still respects his father-in-law very much.
The Changde and his wife reciprocate their favors, so they no longer hide it. They generously put the money and treasures of the dowry to the open place.
Xiuyun is already seriously over-age, so Changde naturally thought that the sooner he got married, the better.
However, Irgen Jueluo had a lot of thoughts and insisted on testing Yuzhu's temper and character, so he could do his birthday.