Regarding the idea of the wedding, Su Qian and Jian Zhanyan have already made a decision.
"What, traveling to get married?!"
After hearing what the two said, Ms. Zhao was stunned. She said, "But didn't you announce the wedding date and invite it?"
Getting married on a trip means you don’t plan to have a wedding, right? Ms. Zhao, who came back from abroad, watched the scene of her son-in-law proposing to her daughter online ten times at a time, and she couldn’t get enough of it!
My daughter has found a very good son-in-law, and she will have someone to rely on for the rest of her life!
If there was a wedding, she would have to invite relatives from her mother's family. The matter of Su Qian giving birth to a child out of wedlock was quite a big deal. Ms. Zhao's mother's family knew about it, and they all followed Ms. Zhao to persuade Su Qian to abort the child.
However, Su Qian refused to listen and chose to give birth to the child in the end. Later, Ms. Zhao's family members who had daughters were particularly strict with them and would never allow them to have premature love and eliminate any possibility of getting pregnant before marriage.
Sometimes when talking about something, I will use Su Qian to educate the children. If you don't listen to me now, will you be like Su Qian in the future, living alone with your children in poverty?!
In fact, no one knew how Su Qian was actually living, because after Su Qian decided to give birth to the child, she cut off contact with her relatives at home. She had no relatives on her father's side. In order to give birth to the child, she had to work with the same family.
The mother broke up.
Naturally, the relatives on my mother's side will not have much contact with her.
Later, Ms. Zhao saw that Su Qian was too determined to have a child, which made her take a step back. The relationship between mother and daughter has eased a bit, otherwise they would have been separated from each other until death.
Although Ms. Zhao spoke harshly at that time, she was indeed Su Qian's backbone to a certain extent.
Ms. Zhao's family did not dare to mention Su Qian's matter. Ms. Zhao had a bad temper when she was young. If she did something wrong, others could say it. If she had not done something wrong, no one would say anything about her.
Regardless of whether you are an elder or not, Ms. Zhao's every rebuttal is well-founded, so people in the family generally don't provoke her.
For example, in the case of Su Qian, Ms. Zhao's niece-in-law once stepped on the thunder. Her sister came to her house to play during the summer vacation. Ms. Zhao's niece-in-law was chatting with her sister, and somehow the issue of puppy love came up.
The niece-in-law didn't think too much and told Su Qian's story. Naturally, her words were a bit derogatory.
It's okay to say this behind closed doors. Ms. Zhao also knows that her daughter is used as a negative example in the family. If she puts herself in her shoes, if this happens at home, she will also educate her daughter.
But no matter what, the daughter is born by herself, she is qualified to educate, and others have no right to belittle her.
"That's not what you said. Today's society is no longer what it used to be. My nephew-in-law, you were also two months pregnant when you married my eldest nephew, right?"
"Don't blame the aunt for speaking harshly. I followed what you just said about my daughter. If you break up with my eldest nephew, the child in your belly must be aborted, right? My daughter just chooses to have a baby.
How come it has become an unforgivable sin in your mouth?"
"How she leads her life is her own choice. Others can disagree, but if she acts as a moral model in a condescending tone and uses a derogatory tone, I will be the first to not tolerate it. Who is more noble than whom?"
"Niece-in-law, why don't you tell me in detail how my daughter's choice to give birth to a child will affect you? Let me have a good chat with you."
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Ms. Zhao started to express her anger. She was already showing mercy. If the niece said something harsh again, she would definitely tell her about the fact that she and her nephew were in two different situations when they were in love.
Everyone in the Zhao family is aware of Ms. Zhao's fighting ability. This niece-in-law would dare to argue with her mother-in-law on weekdays, but she was intimidated by her aunt, Ms. Zhao.
As the aunt in the family, Ms. Zhao has quite a say in the family.
The niece-in-law also knew that she had said the wrong thing in a moment of confusion. After listening to her mother-in-law trying to smooth things over, she quickly admitted her mistake and said that she meant what she said and didn't mean it.
Ms. Zhao finally stopped her anger, otherwise she would have to break up this niece-in-law. Apart from her, no one else would talk about her daughter!
My daughter did something wrong, but it is not her turn to be criticized by others.
Ms. Zhao is actually holding back anger in her heart about this matter. From childhood to adulthood, Su Qian has always been my child and I can educate her, but no one is allowed to beat or scold her. The only thing she does is protect her.
When relatives persuaded Su Qian to have an abortion, they sometimes used harsh words, saying that the little girl didn't love herself. Ms. Zhao was already a little angry at that time. In today's society, how many couples only sleep together on their wedding day?
She endured the rebuttal again and again, with the ultimate goal of persuading her daughter to abort the child. In the end, Ms. Zhao said nothing.
She also understood that her relatives had good intentions, but later they kept talking, and Ms. Zhao naturally became unhappy.
At that time, the explanation was just that, the daughter had given birth to the child, it had become an established fact, so what was the use of talking about it?
Just like if I eat this piece of cake, I will become fat. The premise is that I eat it all, so you should stop talking about getting fat!
She has to suffer if she becomes fat! Her daughter is indeed not having a good life, and she is angry when she sees it, but she does not want to hear others say that her daughter is not good.
Why raise a daughter for nothing? How could it be that she raised a daughter for nothing? All the money her daughter earns every month will be given to her as a filial piety! Although the amount is not much, if her daughter earns 4,000, she will give 2,000, which is half of the total salary.
Will other people's children be paid monthly? Her daughter is silly, but she is also filial.
In the past, Ms. Zhao acted very meanly in front of Su Qian, but there was never a time when she failed to defend her daughter in front of outsiders.
It was also because of this outburst that no one would dare to make a fuss about Su Qian at any family gatherings in the future. It was really scary for Ms. Zhao to smile so hard. Zhao had seen what Ms. Zhao looked like when she was young.
My family, until this aunt gets angry, she dares to do anything.
So later, when Su Qian gradually came into contact with relatives, she found that everyone's attitude was the same as before. It was as if her pregnancy before marriage had never happened. Some relatives would ask how the child was doing, as if Su Qian got married and had children normally.
It's like I haven't done anything outrageous.
Su Qian knew that it must be her mother's fault.
No matter what, in front of Su Qian and Ms. Zhao, no one from the Zhao family dared to mention such things as getting pregnant out of wedlock, being too drunk to love oneself.
Of course, the Zhao family still felt sorry for Su Qian. She was obviously a girl with a bright future, but she ended up like this.
However, the turning point of things is here. Who would have thought that Su Qian would suddenly become Mrs. Jian!
The Zhao family is all thankful for one thing. Fortunately, they were afraid of Ms. Zhao at the beginning! They didn't dare to do anything extraordinary, otherwise Su Qianji would be resentful, so that's fine!
At least now they and Su Qian are in a group of loving families. Looking at the Su family, the entire tree fell and the hozens scattered.
This is true for big companies like the Su family. If it falls on small citizens like them, why don’t they just go to the West!
so far so good!
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Ms. Zhao's immediate family members would not say anything after Ms. Zhao got angry, but those relatives who had three aunts and six aunts who were distant from each other would find it hard to listen to what they said.
But Ms. Zhao didn't hear it with her own ears, so it didn't matter.
Before Su Qian became Mrs. Jian, when she participated in the show, the tone of her distant relatives changed. They all heard how passionate Su Qian was from their own children.
Not to mention celebrities, Internet celebrities on short video platforms are extremely profitable. People like Su Qian who are on TV and have so many fans will definitely make more money!
There is no need for Su Qian to become Mrs. Jian. Her early participation in the show was enough to change the impression of her relatives.
Life is such a reality. As long as you have money and can make money, passers-by or relatives will look up to you because of it.
Su Qian didn't have a deep understanding of these kinship relationships, but Ms. Zhao had more contact with them. For example, when her daughter was on a variety show, some relatives she hadn't contacted for eight hundred years would call and ask questions, and then make insidious inquiries about whether the TV station was recruiting young actors or whether her granddaughter was dancing.
It was so good that even the school teachers praised it.
It was obvious that he felt that Su Qian had connections in the TV station, so he wanted her help so that his granddaughter could participate in the show.
Some people also said that their youngest daughter has graduated, has excellent academic performance, and has received scholarships every year. Can you recommend her to become an intern at a TV station...
There were many calls like this. Ms. Zhao could explain it well at first, but later she got bored and sent a message directly to WeChat Moments. The main message was that her daughter had a hard time in the past, but now that she is getting through it, she can live well on her own, and no one else can.
Don't think about moral kidnapping to ask for help, even her own mother can't do it.
When Ms. Zhao posted this post on Moments, she blocked Su Qian, so Su Qian still doesn't know that her mother had posted such a post on Moments.
With this circle of friends, there are fewer relatives coming to ask for help, and many people simply stop contacting me.
Ms. Zhao didn't care. These relatives had no contact before! It wasn't until later it was revealed that Su Qian was Mr. Jian's wife, and there were more and more text messages greeting her during the holidays.
You don’t need to come into contact with anyone in society. From these distant relatives, you can experience what is the warmth and warmth of human relationships.
Therefore, Ms. Zhao hopes that her daughter can have a good wedding so that her relatives can see that her daughter is living a good life.
In fact, this is unnecessary. Ms. Zhao just wants to make a living. As the saying goes, old children are old children. When she was young, Ms. Zhao probably would not have had this idea. Now that she is old, she has become childish again.
I just want you who looked down on my daughter before to see how happy she is now!
Ms. Zhao didn't say these words, but Su Qian could tell the problem from the tone of the other party's surprised tone when she asked about traveling to get married.
"Mom, don't you want us to travel and get married? As for the wedding date, Jian Zhanyan and I want Su Yang to host it, and Xiaowei will be there to help."
Little Baozi, who wanted to contribute to the "proposal", was a little unsatisfied with the fact that he only handed over a ring, so he approached Su Qian and said that he would arrange more work for him when he got married. He was sure
It will be done very well.
In the end, Su Qian and Jian Zhanyan came together and decided that they would go on a trip to get married. They then placed photos of the two of them in the hotel, with Su Yang controlling the whole process, giving Little Baozi plenty of room to show off.
To put it this way, in fact, the two parents wanted to be the business owner, but their son was eager to give it a try, so they gave the job to him.
Then they went to prepare to welcome Da Su Yang back.
Of course, these shameless words were said by Jian Zhanyan, and his plan was to have a honeymoon baby.
After the couple thought about it, they told Su Yang the plan. Su Yang readily agreed. He said seriously to Jian Zhanyan: "Dad, you must bring your brother back safely!"
In Su Yang's mind, he thought that when his father said to welcome Su Yang, he meant to pick someone up somewhere.
The teacher at school said that children come from the sky, run into their mother’s belly and are conceived for ten months before being born again, so my brother must have run away for fun, so my parents had to fly to pick him up.
Maybe my younger brother is being naughty and playing hide-and-seek, so my parents have to look for him for a while. As my father said, it takes time to have a second child! I hope my younger brother won’t hide too far away, which will make it easier to find him.
Su Yang, who just went to kindergarten, had this understanding of having a second child.
And mom and dad must love each other. The more two people love each other, the faster the baby in the sky will run into the mother's belly...
Regarding the second child, Xiaobaozi has his own systematic understanding.
Hearing Su Yang's words, Su Qian blushed and Jian Zhanyan was also a little embarrassed. How should he answer this!
So in the end, it was decided that Su Qian and Jian Zhanyan would travel and get married, and then leave their son behind to hold the wedding.
When I had this idea and discussed it with my son, I didn't think it was a big deal. Now when I relay this point to Ms. Zhao, why do I feel so embarrassed?
Their parents...seem...a bit up to no good?
Su Qian and Jian Zhanyan are ready to receive at least one hour of education from Ms. Zhao.
The two of them lowered their heads. Su Qian had already thought about some excuse to sneak away later, leaving Jian Zhanyan alone to be punished.
Su Qian just had such an idea and shook her fingers twice. Jian Zhanyan noticed it keenly. He secretly held Su Qian's hand under the table to prevent her from running away!
The two of them were fighting secretly below, but they didn't notice that Ms. Zhao, who they thought was angry, showed a smile.
"also."
After hearing Ms. Zhao's words of agreement, the two of them looked up suddenly and saw Ms. Zhao's smiling expression, while Su Qian was a little dull.
"No, don't scold us?"
Ms. Zhao glared at her daughter angrily and said, "Why do you blame me? Of course your wedding is as you wish."
In fact, Ms. Zhao wanted to get angry, but she suddenly thought that it would be better for Su Yang to host the wedding!
At first, the relatives just said that Su Qian gave birth to a spoiled child, that the child would blame her mother, that the rest of her life would be over, and so on.
Ms. Zhao could see how outstanding her grandson was. When the time came to host the wedding, Su Yang behaved gracefully, politely, and looked like a little gentleman that others would envy to death!
At such a young age, he was able to control such a grand wedding banquet, and others still gave him face, so let’s just say he’s awesome!
As for her daughter, she and her son-in-law went on a trip to get married and have their honeymoon! One sentence can prove that her daughter is living a happy life, and then let the guests see how outstanding and majestic the little bun is, which he can do at such a young age. Such a success!