At noon, Bai Xi went to Ji Chenling's place for dinner.
As soon as she walked into the office, she found that something was not right about the atmosphere. The way those people looked at her was more like waiting to see what action she would make, a bit like a crowd.
"Is Ji Chenling here?" Bai Xi asked one of them.
"Yes, Mr. Ji is in the office." the girl replied.
Bai Xi came to the door of Ji Chenling's office and knocked on the door.
"Come in." Ji Chenling said.
Bai Xi opened the door and saw that Tiantian was there. Moreover, Tiantian's face turned into the look of a tabby cat, and his big eyes looked at Bai Xi innocently.
Maybe Bai Xi's appearance made her think of something, her lips pursed downwards, and her eyes turned red.
Bai Xi immediately squatted in front of Tiantian, "What's wrong, Tiantian? What happened?"
"Mom, I don't want to be classmates with Gu Lingyue anymore. I don't like him, I don't like him very much." Tiantian said aggrievedly.
"Huh? Why do you think so?" Bai Xi asked patiently.
"He is so insidious. He found someone to deliberately trick me. The teacher also asked me to apologize. He said he would always target me in the future and would find various people to destroy my reputation. I am unhappy and I don't want to
I went to that school, I want to change to another school, I don’t want to see him again." Tiantian said crying.
Bai Xi probably understood.
She had seen that kid Gu Lingyue before. He was very stubborn, very thoughtful, and very extreme.
He seems to hate Tiantian.
Bai Xi looked at Ji Chenling, "What do you think?"
Ji Chenling looked at Tiantian calmly, "Do you really want to leave, do you want to escape? You will always meet all kinds of people in your life, maybe in other schools, and it will not be smooth sailing.
When you encounter adversity, what you should be thinking about is how to overcome it. If you just escape, it will be escape every time, and you will not be able to grow. Gu Lingyue is just a person who is better than you, and there are many people who are better than you.
Are you sure you want to run away from a person who is many times more powerful than Gu Lingyue? You are very angry, sad, and sad now. I think what you want now is a bit impulsive and irrational. You need to think clearly.
If after you think it through, you still want to escape and transfer to another school, I will help you."
Tiantian pursed his lips and looked at Bai Xi's face.
Bai Xi felt that what Ji Chenling said was quite reasonable.
Escape is not a solution to the problem, but as parents, when they see their child being bullied, they always feel distressed and always want to help her solve the problem.
But sometimes, when something happens, adults have all kinds of considerations, restrictions, and ideas, but there is no better plan for the moment.
"Didn't you say that he found someone to deliberately trick you? Why did he trick you?" Bai Xi asked softly.
"He deliberately wrestled in front of me, and then told the teacher that I pushed him, and deliberately poured water on himself, saying that because he told the teacher, I deliberately targeted him to retaliate against him. I even grabbed my hand and hit him.
Face, tell the teacher that it was me who hit him, I didn’t have any at all." Tiantian said this, feeling aggrieved again.
Ji Chenling twitched his lips, "Then what do you think should be done to destroy his conspiracy?"
Tiantian wiped her tears and said, "I think I didn't do well before. I pretended to be wrestling to frame him, and then he learned from it."
Tiantian sighed, "I'm just protecting myself. What I originally wanted was to let him know how powerful I am so he won't dare to target me. I didn't expect that he would get worse."
"It is a good idiom to make things worse, and most children will not use it." Ji Chenling praised.
When Tiantian heard Ji Chenling's praise, he smiled, swept away the gloomy mood just now, and said: "Every time I watch TV, I will remember some idioms when I encounter them. That way, my mother will think that my watching TV is useful, and she will give it to me often."
watched TV."
"Have you thought of a solution?" Ji Chenling asked.
Bai Xi felt much more relaxed when he heard Ji Chenling ask so patiently.
If she were to handle it, she would really let Tiantian transfer to another school. She believed that one more thing would be better than one less thing. If they could avoid causing trouble, they would be at peace with each other.
In fact, escaping is what she is used to.
However, Ji Chenling is the kind of solutionist, and many times, his method is actually more correct.
She is changing herself and getting rid of her bad laziness.
But it is undeniable that the original family has a great influence on children.
Ji Chenling should be more suitable than her to teach Tiantian.
If one day, she is gone, Ji Chenling can take good care of Tiantian.
The key is, it seems that what Ji Chenling teaches Tiantian is the ability to face setbacks and difficulties.
"Dad, I think it must be that I am not strong enough so that others can bully me. I should become stronger so that others cannot bully me." Tiantian said seriously.
"Becoming stronger is a long-term process and takes a long time. What you have to solve is the difficulties and dilemmas in front of you." Ji Chenling suggested.
"I hate Gu Lingyue." Tiantian pouted, "I have never seen such a disgusting person."
"That's because you're still young. In fact, there are many people who are more annoying than him, but you haven't met him yet. Also, if you think he is annoying, you can't solve the problem. If your heart doesn't move, nothing will happen to you.
It’s not hurt, and the years will be fine.” Ji Chenling said calmly.
Bai Xi's heart felt an inexplicable pain. The pain was also mixed with uneasiness, panic, and palpitations that she couldn't explain, guess, or understand.
"She's so young, she can't understand." Bai Xi said.
"Humph, I understand." Tiantian said, "I'm not afraid of them. I have to find a way to deal with them myself. It's just a little Gu Lingyue. I can't even deal with him. How can I deal with more powerful people.
Mom and Dad, I'm going to wash my face first."
Tiantian said, jumped off the sofa, and went to wash his face alone.
"What's going on on her face?" Bai Xi asked Ji Chenling.
"She was like this when she came back. She probably felt embarrassed, so she didn't say anything. She just knows what to do. If we interfere too much, she will develop a character that depends on others. On the contrary, it will be difficult for her to be independent and complete.
Sex." Ji Chenling said.
Bai Xi raised a smile and said, "I think what you said makes sense. Listening to what you said, I feel like everything I taught you before was wrong."
"You have taught Tiantian very well, but she has not fully absorbed what you taught her. She will absorb some of what she wants. If you are hungry, we will eat when she comes." Ji Chenling said,
He walked up to Bai Xi and held Bai Xi's hand.
"Are you tired today?" Ji Chenling asked.
Bai Xi shook his head.
"Since I received Xiong Canglan in the afternoon, there has been a tough battle to be fought. Aunt Jin wants to see him. I think Aunt Jin's mental quality is indeed very strong. I don't know what they will say, and I don't know if there will be any huge consequences.