Chapter 919 There’s a hole in your brain that Halley’s Comet wouldn’t be able to fill.
"When we first get to know people, we hide our true nature and show our best side. We can be lively, ladylike, gentle, and humorous. These are all attractive characteristics. But over time, our true nature will change.
Exposure, such as bad temper, special treatment, willfulness, laziness, princess disease, etc., etc., so love, in fact, is inherently deceptive, unless..." Bai Xi paused for a moment
, looking at Xu Yan in a daze.
"Xu Yan." Bai Xi shouted.
Xu Yan calmed down and nodded, "I think you are right. Look at Han Ningxi. At the beginning, he was gentle, generous, generous, and very good at taking care of others. But now, he has exposed his true nature. He is a central air conditioner, okay?
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"Let's go back to the previous topic. A girl wants to find a boyfriend. She also knows that her life is short, so she only shows her good side. Then suddenly she becomes seriously ill or something unexpected happens, which makes the boy reluctant to let go. This kind of unwillingness to let go
The emotions will amplify without limit, because when people face separation between life and death, it is not a simple breakup, but there is love, but they have to be separated forever." Bai sighed.
"So, Xiao Xi, why are you thinking about this all the time?" Xu Yan asked in confusion, "Also, what did you say unless, unless?"
"Unless it's the real you from the beginning, then what he falls in love with is the most real you." Bai Xi said.
Xu Yan shrugged, "Forget it about the real me. The real me is slovenly and aggressive. I don't want to be nice. I'm even uglier without makeup."
"So, you can change yourself and become a better version of yourself, keep your original intention and remain the same."
"Why should I change myself for a man? I don't want it. I want to be the sloppy and aggressive me. I don't care whether he loves me or not. I only care whether I am happy or not." Xu Yan said straightforwardly.
Bai Xi is also a little worried about Xu Yan. If she is gone, Xu Yan's personality is easy to be impulsive. Moreover, she is too straightforward and does not leave any room for speech, so it is easy to offend people.
"Before, I read a book about the lives of several people. One of them was called A. He was born in an ordinary family, but his parents loved him very much. When he was a child, he was very naughty, willful, public, sunny, and lively.
Children with this personality are very happy since childhood and have many friends in school, because most people like comfortable things that are close to the sun."
"That's right, the family environment is also very important to the development of a child's character." Xu Yan said.
"When he arrived at the workplace, he was too sharp, too assertive, and too positive, so he was not liked by his colleagues. Do you know why?" Bai Xi asked.
"Wilful and flamboyant, that should be the reason." Xu Yan guessed.
Bai Xi smiled slightly and said, "It's because the social group is different from the school group. The school is full of people of the same age. It is acceptable for people of this age to be flamboyant, willful, domineering, lively, and active. Some children will even envy them.
People with this kind of personality are the protagonists everywhere, and they are noticed and shine. However, when they go to work, their experiences and ages are different, and they are no longer the same."
"What does it mean to be no longer equal?" Xu Yan didn't understand, she didn't understand.
"For example, ten middle-aged women in their 40s and 50s gathered in the park in winter. Nine of them were well dressed, wearing black feather dragon clothes, with short hair like instant noodles, gray-headed and even a little
Fatty, there is a woman among them, wearing a red skirt, dressed very exquisitely, with makeup, clothing, and hair accessories. Many middle-aged women in the group will not like her, but like her, and even form a small group, behind the scenes.
He compiled a lot of rumors about that woman, for example, she was being kept, for example, she was working in an abnormal service industry outside, and she was a third-level employee of a certain high-level person. If she was not equal, she would be ostracized," Bai Xi explained.
"I understand, there are many people in the unit who are not of his character and will exclude him," Xu Yan said.
"It's not about a certain character of his, such as being assertive or sharp-edged. There is a saying that goes like this. Life experience is to polish the corners of a person's body, making them rounder and able to roll farther." Bai Xi
said.
Xu Yan heard what Bai Xi meant, "The person you are talking about is me, right? I'm sharp and sharp, right?"
Bai Xi just hopes that Xu Yan can adapt to the environment and life better, because she may not be able to stay with her in the future.
"Let's take it appropriately. Don't offend others. We have our own way to go." Bai Xi gestured with his hands and said in a good voice.
Xu Yan is not an unreasonable person, she knows that Bai Xi is doing it for her own good.
"I understand what you are saying, but sometimes, when my temper gets angry, I can't control my mouth," Xu Yan said.
"When you are angry, just let yourself calm down for five minutes and listen to music. After you calm down, your brain will not be so hot anymore and you will be able to think more clearly. You will not even want to argue with her, because you will lose your level by arguing with her.
." Bai Xi said softly.
Xu Yan found that she could hear Bai Xi's words because Bai Xi's voice was very pleasant and easy for others to listen to.
"What you said is right. I'll take my time. I'll be careful next time so as not to offend the villain. It's really annoying all day long." Xu Yan said with deep understanding.
Bai Xi smiled, "Come on, do you want to eat another cucumber roll?"
"Yes, yes, yes." Xu Yan said immediately, opened her mouth, and Bai Xi fed her one.
"Well..." Xu Yan made a satisfied sound, "I didn't eat breakfast or lunch. I was so hungry. Now that I have eaten, I feel so satisfied and feel so happy."
"You have to be happy to lose weight, so you can stick to it. It's too painful, it's easy to give up, and it's easy to rebound." Bai Xi said and fed Xu Yan another cucumber roll.
Xu Yan smiled while eating. "It's great to have you. I really hope to be with you every day. I don't need a man. I miss the days we were together so much."
"Yeah." Bai Xi responded.
She couldn't make a promise because she had no confidence in the future...
knock on the door
Bai Xi looked towards the door.
Xing Xingchen stood at the door, his expression very serious and dignified, and said to Bai Xi, "Can I have a few words with you alone?"
Bai Xi was surprised.
She and Xing Xingchen were not familiar with each other, they had not interacted before, and they had not said anything bad about him just now. Why did he have something to tell her? Could it be about Xu Yan?
Xu Yan was also confused and stopped in front of Bai Xi, "Hey, Xing Xingchen, you are attracted to Bai Xi, right? I tell you, she is Ji Chenling's girlfriend. Don't harm my friend. I won't
I will let you go."
Xing Xingchen glanced at Xu Yan displeased. "You have a disease in your mind and holes that Halley's Comet could not fill. What I want to say should be very important to Ji Chenling..."