Chapter 998: It is difficult for an upright official to resolve emotional affairs
She should be very angry, her brain was congested, and she was yelling violently, just like how she hated Han Ningxi's ex-girlfriend at that time. She was so angry that her body was shaking and her whole nerves exploded.
However, when she saw this woman from Xing Xingchen, not only was she not angry at all, but she was also a little excited. She even felt that this was very good. She had a gossip mentality and also built a bridge in her heart to make sure that she would not fall in love with Xing Xingchen.
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As long as she doesn't fall in love with Xing Xingchen, she won't be hurt.
Xing Xingchen pulled away from the woman irritably and said coldly: "Please respect yourself, we have broken up, and this is not the place for you to come."
"Do I know I was wrong?" the girl said coquettishly, holding Xing Xingchen's hand in a flattering manner, with a pitiful look, "I don't want to break up. I will be obedient in the future and will never be willful again. Please give me another chance."
, let you know my changes, okay."
Xing Xingchen pulled the woman's hand away expressionlessly, "I have made up my mind, and no one can change it. We are not suitable. No matter how much you change, it will not change my view of you. The damage has been done, and I don't think it will."
It is necessary to turn back, and besides, I am getting married soon, and the person standing behind me is my future wife. Please leave while you still have dignity."
"What?" The woman looked at Xu Yan in shock.
Xu Yan felt particularly embarrassed and looked around, not wanting to meet the woman's gaze.
How does she feel now? Xing Xingchen is Han Ningxi, that woman is her, and she is Han Ningxi's ex-girlfriend.
After all, those who face loss are the most painful.
She and Xing Xingchen have no relationship. It can be seen that the girl must like Xing Xingchen very much, otherwise, she would not put down her face and come to seek peace.
"When did you get together? Did you get together when you were with me?" the girl asked nonchalantly, looking at Xing Xingchen accusingly.
"No, we have broken up for a month, and she and I only contacted her within this month." Xing Xingchen said lightly.
"Don't you think these words are illogical? We have been dating for half a year, and you have not wanted to marry me. She has only been dating you for less than a month, and you are about to marry her. Is this a marriage?" The girl's chest heaved.
, asked.
"Having been dating for half a year has consumed all my feelings for you. I didn't go to you for a month after we broke up. You should know that I have made up my mind and we are no longer suitable." Xing Xingchen said ruthlessly.
Xu Yan raised her eyebrows, leaned against the door frame, and looked at them as if she were an outsider.
In fact, with Xing Xingchen's attitude, if she were that girl, she would definitely be very broken, aggrieved, and uncomfortable.
Love is like this. It's sweet at the beginning. Two people really like each other. They can do many things for each other and prepare many surprises for each other. But as time goes by, as the two people get along more deeply, they feel more and more that the other person is not.
The way I imagined it at first, I disliked it less and less.
Every conflict, every anger, every hurt is a scar on love, until this love can no longer survive.
Break up, entanglement, anger, sadness, having to give up patience, sadness, convince yourself, adapt to a life without him, and start a new love again.
Therefore, it is better to reveal what you are like from the beginning, lest the other person dislikes you the more you come into contact with him, pretending to like you, and pretending to be a love is not a love that can be together for a long time. In the end, because you can’t ask for it, you lose it and it becomes a love for you.
greater damage.
"We were so good before, and we can still be as happy as before. Wouldn't it be great to be happy every day? As long as I am no longer willful, no longer fool around, I will no longer be unreasonable. I swear, Xingchen,
I love you, I really love you. If I didn't love you, I wouldn't be so shameless as to come back here to beg you, right?" The girl looked longingly at Xing Xingchen.
Xu Yan sighed.
When a man loves you, even if you are willful, foolhardy, or unreasonable, he will find you cute and think that you love you more because you love him.
When a man doesn't love you, even if you come back, you will be on the ground, losing your dignity, face, and becoming a licking dog, he will not look at you more or give you more love.
When you come back, you think about how good the man was to you, how much he loved you, how patient you were, and how romantic he was toward you. That's because the man at that time loved you.
Now that the man doesn't love you anymore, even if you come back, do you think you will still be as good as before, as loving as before, as patient as before, as romantic as before?
What you fall in love with is just a man's kindness to you, his love for you, his patience with you, and his romance with you.
When these are no longer there, you will still feel aggrieved and leave, because the purpose of coming back is to get these again. Without these, after experiencing humiliation, pain, and feeling sorry for yourself, you still leave.
Therefore, if you understand this clearly, you should not come back or pray to a man for a chance.
Because love is gone, it is gone, you can only become a better version of yourself and wait for the transformation of time.
One day in the future, when you meet again and you are more perfect than he imagined, he will love you again and give you pampering, tolerance, love and romance.
However, you may have had better company at that time.
He is just your current existence when you are not excellent. When you become excellent, a more suitable and better person will naturally appear.
"Are these your matters and mine? Since I decided to break up, from the moment we broke up, I no longer love you." Xing Xingchen said even more coldly.
"Why did you suddenly stop loving the one you loved before? It's only been a month. I don't believe you have any reasons, right?" the girl asked without giving up.
Xing Xingchen frowned, really bored, and turned to look at Xu Yan, "Are you just going to be your melon-eater quietly? Shouldn't you speak up about this kind of thing? You are the one who wants to be my wife.
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Xu Yan shook her finger, "No, no, no, it is difficult for an upright official to break up a relationship. What's more, I am the person who wants to be your wife, not the person who is already your wife. To untie the bell, you must tie the bell. This matter
You sow it, and you have to bear the consequences yourself."
Xing Xingchen really wanted to get angry, "Then do you still need me to intervene in the matter between you and Han Ningxi?"
"Ah, hey, I never asked you to intervene, I can handle it myself." Xu Yan said with certainty.
Xing Xingchen became even more angry after hearing this, "You are so capable, please help me solve this matter."
"Then?" Xu Yan said with a playful smile, "What's the benefit of me helping you solve it?"
"I'll give you ten thousand." Xing Xingchen said angrily.
"I understand." Xu Yan came to the girl leisurely...