"His family won't agree, grandpa, aunt, father, friends..." Bai Xi's eyes turned red.
She didn't say anything about his grandfather because she was afraid that Ji Chenling would be sad, but she also understood that it was actually the love of his relatives for him, and there was indeed a big gap between her and Ji Chenling.
"Then kill it first and show it later. I think Ji Chenling is smart. He must have expected that his family would not agree, so he planned to marry you first and then notify you. There are not many men like him these days."
"You don't understand that there is a sense of hierarchy that can turn trivial matters in life into nightmares, consume the accumulated feelings, make two people in a marriage exhausted, and forget how beautiful the love was. Ji Chenling and I just started dating
It didn't take long, even from the time he came to Chenghai International, it was less than five months." Bai Xi was a little excited.
"But he really likes you, otherwise he wouldn't propose to you." Xu Yan advised.
"No matter how much I like him, it still remains in his illusion. What he likes is the Bai Xi he thinks he is. I just dated him, and we didn't really get along for a long time..."
"So we need to get married as soon as possible, lest he regret it. The most important thing is to catch him." Xu Yan interrupted Bai Xi's words.
Bai Xi didn't think so, "You can't catch a man's heart, and it's best not to have such thoughts. The more you have such thoughts, the more ferocious you will become."
"Why don't I understand?" Xu Yan scratched her head, "I haven't read much, so don't lie to me."
"Emotions have four stages. The first stage is the passionate love stage. Couples always want to be together no matter when and where. During this stage, a lot of feelings will be accumulated in the bank for future emotional consumption.
Ji Chenling and I were supposed to be in a passionate period at this time. If we entered into marriage early at this time, it would not only be the relationship between the two of us that needs to be reconciled, but also the family.
It is not easy to get along in an ordinary family, not to mention that his Liyang, Liyinxun, Ji Houliang, his grandfather, and his friends did not welcome me to begin with.
I'm really worried that in the end, he and I will just hate each other." Bai Xi said, picking up the coffee and drinking it all in one gulp.
"It doesn't matter if they don't welcome you. You don't want to live with them. As long as Ji Chenling likes you, it's fine. Just leave the problem to him and he will solve it."
"Xu Yan, love cannot rely on dreams alone, and life is not a fairy tale. If you try to force a child to succeed, the final result is death. Just because I want to be with him, I want to be practical step by step, at least to save enough money in our bank.
If you have a strong relationship, you will not be easily shaken, and you will think about the good times when you are sad, which will become the motivation to work together."
"You can be down-to-earth after getting married. I can't figure out what's wrong with you?" Xu Yan frowned, "I think he's good enough for you."
"People change." Bai Xi said, "When you are in a good mood, you will smile and be kind to others. When you are in a bad mood, you will get angry at others. Different moods will lead to different decisions. How you feel and what you present to others will change."
Everyone has different personalities and different levels of comfort. If all the opposition is from relatives, no matter how open-minded, wise, or clear about what you want, you will not be happy."
"Since his family will definitely object, have you decided not to be with him?" Xu Yan asked confused.
"It's not that I don't want to be with him, I really want to be with him. Because I want to be with him so much, I cherish the time we can spend together even more." Bai Xi said.
Although she knew that Xu Yan might not understand, at least, she felt a little better after saying it.
"Then what are you going to do now? Ji Chenling won't give up until he achieves his goal. If he wants to get married now, if you don't want to, he will definitely be angry. His temper is not good." Xu Yan said, sighing,
He waved his hand and signaled the waiter to come over.
Bai Xi wanted to drink coffee, but found that he had drank it all. He put the coffee cup aside and said: "Later, if he doesn't come to me, I call him. I can't waste my feelings before it starts, right?
"
"I think what you are talking about is like replenishing blood and mana in the game. Once it is full, go out and fight. Otherwise, you will be beaten to the point where your health and mana will be gone."
"That's more or less what I mean. Moreover, I think he should first understand me in real life and see if it is what he wants. Appearance and incompatibility in marriage will destroy people." Bai Xi said seriously.
"I think your mother's incident, your ex-boyfriend's incident, and your ex-husband's incident have all had a big impact on you, especially your marriage. Ji Chenling, I think it's pretty good. Let me tell you something. I used to read gossip.
, they are a celebrity couple. The man always wanted to marry the woman, but the woman never agreed. For this reason, the man got angry on the show. Two years later, the man got married, not to the woman.
Therefore, I think you should cherish it if you want to be with Ji Chenling." Xu Yan suggested.
"Um."
Waiter comes over
"You order, what do you want to eat? By the way, order for me too." Bai Xi said.
"Okay." Xu Yan smiled, ordered a lot, handed the menu to the waiter, and said to Bai Xi: "Do you still remember that many people wanted to leave their jobs?"
"Now that Xingchen has changed his boss and something happened to Zhang Ruijie again, they must be very confused."
"They have all been fired. There is zero left in the technical department, and the front desk is all gone. There is no front desk left. I guess it will be time to take action against the finance department and me in the afternoon." Xu Yan guessed.
"I have already told Ji Chenling, and he said that he gave Crow a company, and Crow will come to take you there tomorrow. You can still do your previous job, and your salary has not been reduced. That Xingchen will probably be turned into an empty box and go bankrupt."
Bai Xi said.
"It's true." Xu Yan held Bai Xi's hand, "My dear friend, you must stay together with Ji Chenling. This man is a good man. For your sake, we will not get married, and yet he treats you so well and gives you so much.
Qian, who is so responsible to you and even to your friends, is a good man who is hard to find even with a lantern. You must grow old with him and be united forever."
What Xu Yan said gave her the urge to please.
She also thinks Ji Chenling is pretty good.
The problem between them is not that they don't want to be together, but that they both want to be together.
"Shall I call him now?" Bai Xi said.
"Fight, you must fight, fight quickly." Xu Yan encouraged, letting go of her hand.
Bai Xi took a deep breath and took out his cell phone.
She put it on the phone screen in the morning.
Ji Chenling pressed the back of her head and kissed her forehead. She was not ready, so her expression was a little confused and shy...