Chapter 1708 Heartless may not necessarily be heartless
Chapter 790: Crossing thousands of mountains and rivers to find him
"Then you still like him?" Long Youfei said in shock. "Obviously, the original suicide was just his plan, but he accidentally lost part of his memory. I don't think it was accidental. How could it be possible?
I will just forget you. Now there is a technology abroad that is used to develop and document depression, which can cut off the patient's memory for a period of time." Long Youfei said.
"Long Youfei, I'm very tired now. I don't want to hear anything or think about anything. Can you let me rest for a while?" Bai Xi said.
She didn't wait for Long Youfei to agree, hung up the phone and fell on the bed.
My heart still hurts.
He had the guts, went through countless hardships, crossed thousands of mountains and rivers, climbed the mountain of swords, and descended into the sea of fire, and finally found him at Naihe Bridge.
He told her to look for him and wait for him.
But he drank Meng Po soup and reincarnated with others.
Goodbye, he just said, he didn't like it anymore.
It's very sad, aggrieved, and sad. However, you can't force emotional matters, and it doesn't mean that the harder you work, the more successful you will be.
Often, the harder you work, the sadder, sadder, and knotty you feel.
She turned over. According to her understanding of herself, she would definitely not be able to sleep tonight.
She took out her mobile phone, thought for a moment, and called Anton.
"Bai Xi." Anton greeted warmly.
"Is it convenient for me to call you at this time?" Bai Xi asked.
"It's convenient, I'm writing next week's manuscript, and the code writer didn't go to bed so early." Anton said, "What's wrong? From your tone, I'm not in a good mood."
"How can a man marry a woman if he doesn't like her?" Bai Xi asked.
"In fact, many men will marry someone they don't like, or don't like that much. Some are due to family pressure, some are due to social pressure, some are due to work pressure, some are because of interests, and some are because they feel that they should
I have a wife to satisfy my physical needs, face needs, and all kinds of needs." Anton said with a smile.
"If there is no love, will marriage last?" Bai Xi asked pessimistically.
"The longevity of a marriage depends on many factors. First, it comes from oneself. I have a client. When the two fell in love, they fell in love with each other vigorously. They fell in love with each other. They got married regardless of family opposition. After the marriage, they found that the personalities of the two parties were not suitable.
, they got divorced a year later. In fact, the reason is very simple. It starts with appearance. Being in love will make people’s IQs drop to zero. Coupled with their parents’ obstruction, they felt that they must be together. After calming down, they found that each other had different characteristics.
After all these problems, I finally couldn’t bear the divorce.” Anton said.
"So love is beautiful in the beginning, but good looks cannot keep love fresh for a long time."
"I also have a couple of clients, and they are even more typical. They met on a blind date. Initially, the woman did not agree. Later, she saw that the other party had a car, a house, and a decent job, so they talked for a year and got married. After the marriage, they gave birth to a child.
I have a daughter. Both parents have very different views on education. When raising the child, there was a big conflict. Then both parties disliked her, and the young couple also divorced."
"Yeah." Bai Xi responded.
"There is another case, which is also very typical. A man and a woman fell in love for six years and got married. They gave birth to a boy and a girl. Ten years after the marriage, the man cheated on his female colleague, which led to the breakdown of the marriage. Now both parties are married separately.
"Anton said.
"This kind is the most heartbreaking, right?" Bai Xi asked.
"This is actually normal. After being married for a long time, both parties have a better understanding of their weaknesses, dark sides, and personalities. There is no mystery, and there is no room for beauty and fantasy. In addition, after having children, as the age increases, the body shape
After deformation, there are less sexual needs. At this time, marriage is very weak. If there is temptation, people will make mistakes, so I told you before that marriage needs to be managed, and even managed with care." Anton said.
"How can we manage it carefully?" Bai Xi asked. Although she had been married once, it was a marriage by agreement, and she and Xiao Ye didn't get along much.
"As a woman, you should treat your husband as your boyfriend, the kind of man you can lose at any time. Don't expose your shortcomings in front of him. Don't pick your feet or cut your toenails in front of him. It's also best to keep your makeup on and give him
Give him freedom and give yourself freedom. It is best to have your own career, because if you are at home, even though you contribute a lot, giving birth to children, doing housework, cooking, and taking care of the elderly, most men are
Very intuitively, what they see is that the income you bring to the family is zero, not the value of what you do." Anton said.
Bai Xi was silent for a few seconds and said, "I feel so tired. Home is comfortable, but it sounds very reserved."
Anton smiled, "Most people just can't be strict with themselves, so in the end, they watch their husbands cheating on them again and again, but they can't do anything about it. They become pitiful and pathetic, shameless and undignified. Of course, there are
another kind……"
"What?"
"Marry...a man who has nothing but you, hahahahahaha." Anton laughed.
"Is there no way you can love someone forever?" Bai Xi asked.
"Yes, it depends on management. Also, listen to my advice and never relax. Even if you become a better version of yourself, you must continue to manage. I know many people, and they all feel that their husbands only love themselves.
Then when I found out that my husband had cheated on me, I felt like I was struck by lightning. In fact, many men do not love you all the time, but they are not tempted by others, or they do not have the opportunity. Of course, there are some types of men who are special cases."
Anton said.
"What man?" Bai Xi asked.
"Men who have a strong sense of responsibility and a strong sense of morality and don't want to worry about messy things have strong self-discipline and know what they should do and what they shouldn't do. Moreover, they also know that doing things they shouldn't do will make them unhappy.
They are so irritable, so they stick to themselves and take it seriously as long as they get married." Anton said, "But you shouldn't expect them to be gentle or considerate, it all depends on their emotional intelligence.
"
Bai Xi felt that Ji Chenling was like the special man Anton said, "If they marry someone they don't love, wouldn't they be irresponsible to themselves?"
"So, generally speaking, they will marry the one they love, unless there are special circumstances, such as their parents are dying and they want him to marry, or they were pregnant before they were married, or they are under the pressure of other responsibilities.
The results after analyzing all aspects." Anton said.
After Bai Xi listened, he felt that he...had to...think about it...