Zhao Nan felt that given Yu Fei's personal conditions and his strong request for external involvement, there might be some special circumstances that he was unaware of.
Hey~
After being silent for a full minute, Yu Fei let out a long sigh and said with a wry smile: "They say that Xijiang Province's betrothal gifts are overwhelming. In fact, our Hui'an Province is not bad either."
"Although I am considered successful in my studies and have a good start in starting my own business, in the eyes of my stubborn parents, as long as I don't get married or carry on the family line, no matter how successful I am in my studies and career, I will be considered a rebellious son."
"So they made arrangements for me to go on a blind date. Later, I heard from my peers in the village that the bride price had to be agreed upon before going on a blind date."
"In our hometown, people often talk about meeting a girl worth 280,000 yuan, or meeting a girl worth 380,000 yuan, etc. The number is the bride price that needs to be paid. Only if you agree to the amount of the bride price, will the woman's family agree.
Arrange a meeting, otherwise you won’t even be qualified to meet.”
"As for a wedding house in the county town and a car for transportation, these are hard conditions, the foundation of the foundation. No matter how much the betrothal gift is, you must have a car and a house."
"I didn't pay much attention to it at first. I couldn't resist the pressure from my parents, so I just went on a blind date. Anyway, I still need a piece of meat."
"However, after going on more than a dozen blind dates, I gradually discovered that things were very different from what I imagined. The first was the price of the bride price. On more than a dozen blind dates, only one asked for a bride price of 280,000 yuan, and the others were at least 380,000 yuan.
Ten thousand yuan, the highest number is that once you get engaged, you need to pay a bride price of 880,000 yuan."
"The reason for this phenomenon is actually very simple. There are fewer and fewer girls in the countryside today. Most girls want to stay in the city anyway and marry handsome guys in the city. Only when they get older or other
For special reasons, they would go back to the countryside for a blind date if they really couldn't survive in the city."
"In this way, the tide will naturally lift all boats, but having said that, only girls who can't make it in the city go back to the countryside for blind dates. It can be imagined that their qualities are also more down-to-earth. Not only do they ask for betrothal gifts without any guilt, but they also have a kind of charity.
Such a condescending aura.”
"In short, although I chose to start a business in my hometown after graduation, I was always incompatible with the environment there. My life was very painful, so I had to devote all my spare time to crazy work."
After listening to Yu Fei's introduction, Zhao Nan also sighed.
Yu Fei's major determines that he is suitable for starting a business in the countryside, and the education and information he receives determines that although he lives in the countryside, he is incompatible with rural life.
"In that case, why not consider meeting girls outside the countryside?" Zhao Nan asked.
This is also the doubt of most people in the live broadcast room. Although many of them live in big cities, their income is far less than that of Yu Fei. In other words, Yu Fei's conditions are as long as he is willing to go out of the countryside and there will be competition wherever he goes.
force.
Unexpectedly, after hearing Zhao Nan's question, Yu Fei shook his head even more firmly. He said in a self-deprecating tone: "It won't work, it won't work at all."
"In our aquaculture industry, we have three months of leisure every summer. During this time, I would go to Jiangli, Polytechnic University, Xinjiang, and western Tibet. I traveled to many places and met many interesting girls."
"But what's the result? Once they follow me back to the countryside, without exception, they will soon regret their decision and force me to give up starting a business and live together in a big city, otherwise we will break up."
"I actually understand them very well. Life in the countryside is too empty. It's so empty that it's terrifying."
"After dark it is desolate, without any nightlife, and there is no sound except for the barking of dogs and the crowing of roosters."
"Day after day, people in the village live exactly the same life, and the topic of discussion is always about the eight villages nearby, about firewood, rice, oil, salt and food."
"Assuming that I was a girl, I would not like life in the countryside. However, our village is far away from the county seat, 70 to 80 kilometers away. Even if I buy a house and let the girl live in the county seat, I will still stay in the village.
I take care of the fish pond and prepare the feed. As time goes by, the girl still wants to break up."
"After trying several times, I finally understood that the girls I met on the road were actually not as reliable as the country girls who received the bride price, because the girls who received the bride price had at least accepted their fate and knew what kind of life they would live in the future.
"
"As for the girls I meet on the road, when they talk about the countryside, all they think of is pastoral scenery, but they don't know that behind the pastoral scenery is not romance, but worldliness, conservatism, isolation, and backwardness."
"So I want to go to Vietnam to find my partner, a girl who is well-educated and who is satisfied and happy to live with me."
Yu Fei spoke of his current situation very sincerely, Zhao Nan nodded slightly and said: "I can understand your difficulties, but to be honest, do you really not consider the girls in your hometown? Although Yue Country is good, you still need to face it
There are differences in language and customs.”
"Don't think about it." Yu Fei shook his head firmly and said, "I once asked my father, if these girls ask for so many colorful gifts, they will always get something in return, right? What is the reward?"
"My father looked at me, then lowered his head, picked up a pig ear with his chopsticks and said, thank you."
"I was stunned at the time. It took me more than ten seconds to realize that after paying hundreds of thousands in gift, the woman's return gift was just two words, thank you!"
The two words "thank you" made the live broadcast room explode, and many netizens were instantly off guard.
“Fuck thank you!”
"Support your brother! You don't want this kind of marriage!"
"Brother Nan, brother Nan, don't say anything and take this brother to Yue country as soon as possible!"
"It's so tragic. I burst into tears after listening to this brother's story!"
"He didn't lie. In today's vast rural areas, this is the current situation, and the more economically underdeveloped the area, the more the bride price is."
Everyone spoke one after another to express their understanding and support for Fei.
"Thank you, thank you for your understanding." Yu Fei watched the barrage for a while, and said with a relieved expression: "After experiencing so much, I have completely figured it out. It is not a question of the amount of the bride price, but the bride price itself is a kind of influence on men.
An obedience test.”
"Those men who refuse to pay the bride price must be independent in character, have strong logical thinking, and are unwilling to bow to injustice. Even if they get married in the future, they will still be objects that girls cannot manipulate at will."
"As for those who are obedient and obedient, even if they don't have that much at home, they have to sell everything to get the number that the woman wants, and they are happy and willing to devote themselves to the woman, they must be weak, and they can be manipulated by the woman at will after marriage, even if it is something obvious.
The man will not resist any unreasonable demands."
"From this point of view, what boys pay is not a bride price, but a cynical proof. They are paying for the rest of their lives."
"Anyway, my attitude is very clear. I will not give any gift, not even a penny!"
"If I can't find a partner without paying the bride price, then I will leave my hometown and look for someone abroad. If that doesn't work, I will just do what Brother Nan suggested, and it won't be a big deal to be single all my life."
"Wonderful!"
"Awesome!"
"Our Fei brothers are not only handsome, but their thinking skills are also absolutely top-notch!"
"Brother Nan said that all the kennels are full of high-quality singles. Now I really believe it. To randomly pick out people like Brother Yu shows that the quality of our live broadcast room is not low."
"That's right. Those who can't think can only follow the crowd and submit to fate, and will never join our ranks."
Everyone was talking a lot, and the ones who were most anxious at the moment were probably the girls in the live broadcast room. Whether it was Lao Zheng yesterday or Yu Fei today, they obviously belonged to the middle or even upper-middle class of society, but they unanimously chose to be outsiders.
, this is not a good sign for them.
"Brother Nan, let's go to war!"
"Yes, with our little brother Fei!"
"I can't wait to see Brother Yu killing everyone in the Yue Kingdom and killing the boys from the Yue Kingdom!"
The barrage was agitated again, Zhao Nan nodded and said: "I already understand the situation. With the talents of Brother Yu Fei, it is definitely a dimensionality reduction blow for the boys of Yue Kingdom. Once he goes to Yue Kingdom, the scene will probably be very...
Brutal."
"But this is not a trivial matter after all. Before departure, I still have to analyze and introduce the range of options available as usual. If Brother Yu Fei still wants to go to Yue Country, then we will go to Yue Country together and kill them!