"Now, I have settled in Kalimantan, I have a girlfriend who has eyes for me, and I will have my first child soon."
"But I still often think of that night in LS. It was very cold that night, with white snowflakes floating in the sky. Brother Nan and I were burning charcoal on the rooftop, drinking Niulanshan while watching the snow."
"Choice is more important than hard work. Girls don't rely on chasing but attracting. I'm so lucky that I met Brother Nan when I was most confused, and Brother Nan's advice really changed my life."
While Zheng Xudong was reminiscing, he took out his mobile phone, pulled out old photos from the past, enlarged them, and looked closer to the camera to show the viewers in the live broadcast room.
It has to be said that in the past, Lao Zheng's aesthetic ability was really worrying. He was obviously a young man in his twenties, but he dressed himself up like a retired veteran cadre.
The bloated black coat, big-leather shoes, and the short-cut haircut that was popular in the 1960s made him look at least thirty years older.
"Don't put your hat on me." Zhao Nan waved his hand and said with a smile: "Actually, I am just an ordinary person. Like everyone else, I took many detours and had many confusing and painful experiences."
"Fortunately, I chose to go out and see the outside world. I saw a different scenery and gradually understood many truths that my parents and teachers never told me. That's all."
"Lao Zheng just talked about investing in yourself. In fact, there is a special term in psychology called Peacock Theory."
"The principle is very simple, that is, you must fully display yourself, because when a girl sees a group of people, the first person who attracts attention must be the most outstanding person in the crowd, and those who are good at showing themselves will inevitably gain more than others.
More attention and opportunities.”
"The so-called clothes do not have to buy expensive famous brands. Dressing up fresh and decent is enough. The clothes are fine but not too much. The little money you spend is not enough for you to treat a girl to two Japanese meals. From an investment perspective
, investing in yourself is always a smart choice with extremely high cost performance."
"I know that there are a lot of unscrupulous self-media that are constantly brainwashing everyone and encouraging everyone to spend money. They say that all the problems in the world that can be solved with money are not problems. It doesn't matter whether they are visible or not. As long as you are rich enough, you can solve them.
You will definitely be able to get the girl you want."
"This statement may be true to a certain extent. If you are as rich as Qiangdong, you can indeed marry Zetian home."
"But the problem is that the vast majority of people will never reach one thousandth or one ten thousandth of Dong Ge's level in their lifetime."
"And what if you are richest in the world?"
"Let me ask you, where is Brother Dong now? He was doing well, but why did he suddenly retire overnight?"
"In this magical world, nothing belongs to us except ourselves."
Zhao Nan's eyes suddenly became sharp, and he frowned and said: "Suppose you really like to spend money, wouldn't it be better to spend it on your parents and relatives? At least they raised you. When you are really in danger, you
They are the only ones we can trust and rely on."
"People who appreciate you and like you don't need you to treat them to expensive dinners. Even if you spend more money on her, she will feel sorry for you and save you in everything."
"And those people who need you to treat them to a big meal, so they shyly arrive three hours late and barely come out to see you, they never have you in their hearts, you are just a tool in their hearts."
"As we all know, there is never a shortage of girls around a scumbag, and they keep changing like a revolving door every day."
"But the question is, are all scumbags rich?"
"As far as I know, quite a few scumbags not only have little money, but also rely on money from girls to support them. Why is this, have you ever thought about it?"
"All those who say that boys are informal and don't need to care about appearance, those who tell you that inner qualities are more important, whether they are your former teachers or close relatives and friends, all of them are either stupid or bad."
"In the real world, a clean and refreshing appearance is a prerequisite for everything, and the peacock theory is also the first rule for all boys to be single."
"Whether you plan to stay in the country to study, break through the constraints and rush to the outside world, you must first pay attention to your own image and health..."
Zhao Nan talked in front of the camera, speaking faster and faster, and her emotions gradually became a little excited.
I dare not say that I was enlightened, but the experience gained from these practices of Zhao Nan at least made all the audience present feel bright.
"What the teacher teaches is either stupid or bad? Brother Nan really dares to say that!"
"What's wrong, teacher? Is it too sacred to be mentioned?"
"Brother Nan is right. After experiencing the ruthless torture of reality, I really regret having listened to my parents and teachers since I was a child. Their education is completely stupid."
"Since Confucianism was abolished, all dynasties have been acting like fathers, sons, monarchs and ministers. Unfortunately, there are too many obedient and honest children in the world, and there are too few people like Brother Nan who dare to despise authority, so they can't afford to do anything.
storm."
"If you think about it carefully, I'm a fucking beast! I'm willing to buy a bag worth tens of thousands of yuan for my ex-girlfriend, but I can't even remember my own mother's birthday. Every time I want to give money to my parents, they say no, I have enough money.
Flowers, and I really believe it!”
"Hey, while your parents are still here, take them to eat more delicious food and go out for more walks."
"Brother Nan has a bad temper with me. After listening to so many grand narratives, I am tired now. I don't want to be responsible for anyone except my parents and myself."
"Perhaps this is the unstoppable trend of the times that Brother Nan said. Strangely enough, boys in the future would rather be single than chase girls. Not only am I not worried about this future, I am looking forward to it."
"Me too, hurry up and destroy everything in the past! I'm tired, and I really don't want to bother anymore!"
"If you can't leave, just stay in the country and be alone. If you can leave, follow Brother Nan and go crazy. I'm looking forward to such a future."
Perhaps because Zhao Nan's words touched the depths of their hearts, the audience discussed it very enthusiastically. Everything that happened in the past few years was deeply engraved in everyone's mind like a branding iron, and it also completely changed everything everyone once believed in.
The more sincere the faith was at the beginning, the more violent the backlash is now.
Self-movement, grand narrative, collective honor, all words that everyone is familiar with, now sound so distant and unfamiliar, and even a little stinging.
Before meeting Zhao Nan, most people in the live broadcast room were actually confused. They couldn't go back to the past, and they didn't know where they should go next.
Although Zhao Nan is deviant and may not be entirely correct in what he says, he at least gives these confused people a choice that doesn't seem so bad.
You don’t have to choose, but it’s best to retain a little bit of the right to choose.
The live broadcast effect seems to be good, and at some point, the number of people online has exceeded a thousand.
Zhao Nan made a gesture of pressing down with both hands, indicating that everyone should be quiet first.
When the barrage gradually became sparse, Zhao Nan said: "I know that everyone is very interested in the external volume plan, the peacock theory, and what I have said, and I can't wait to give it a try."
"But many experiences and truths are not enough just to talk about them. They also need to be fully practiced. As I said before, a lucky viewer will be selected at the end of the live broadcast, and I will be the wingman to accompany him throughout the whole process.
"
"Whether this lucky viewer wants to go to Asia, Europe, or even distant South America and barren Africa, I will accompany him to the end without hesitation."
"By the way, I hope this live broadcast room will not only become a starting point for everyone to expand outward, but also hope that everyone can become friends and become each other's wingmen."
"The so-called wingman is simply a partner who encourages and cooperates with each other. When you go to a foreign country alone, it is very necessary to have someone around you to help and support you."
"I will explain the issue of wingman in detail later, but now let's get back to the topic. We finally invited Lao Zheng, who has been living in seclusion on Kaliman Island, to the live broadcast room. We can't miss this opportunity. We need to understand some of Lao Zheng's current situation.
Life abroad.”
"Old Zheng."
"Brother Nan, tell me."
"What did you mean just now? Shuzhen is pregnant now?"
"Well, it's been three months." Lao Zheng touched his head sheepishly, but his face blossomed into a smile.
Zhao Nan said: "That's a good relationship. We are brothers. I am really happy for you. When your little nephew falls to the ground, I will give him a big red envelope."
Lao Zheng hurriedly waved his hand and said: "No, no, if it weren't for you, Brother Nan, I wouldn't be where I am today! I'm very satisfied if you can come and have the full moon wine. Don't mention money."
"It's just a thought, so don't refuse." Zhao Nan said, "Seeing as Shuzhen is not with you, she should go to school, right? I also want to congratulate her in person."
Lao Zheng said: "Shuzhen went to school and is heading home now. You will see her in a while. I advised her that since she is pregnant, she should take a break from school for a year and take care of herself at home. But she wants to wait until the end of the semester.
She took a break from school. I saw that she was eager to learn, so I didn’t stop her."
Zhao Nan had long known about the situation of Lao Zheng and his girlfriend, so he nodded indifferently and said nothing more.
However, this simple conversation caused a storm in the live broadcast room, and many people were furious on the spot. This chapter has been completed!