As a woman, Zhou Ya can naturally understand Bai Mei's inner sense of loss at this moment, as well as the uncontrollable confusion that even she feels when she is reviewing it afterwards.
Why can't it be accepted? Is it really stupid?
People are like this sometimes, living in their own standards and trapped in a cocoon.
A young man worth hundreds of millions, so what if he pretends to be close to her? What if he is the King of the Sea? Is it really unacceptable to be his pawn?
People who have never experienced it should not deny it easily, otherwise they will be suspected of not having back pain while standing and talking.
Just like a person who has never seen how much a half-million dollar bill is, you can brag and say that you will never be moved by money, but if you really see these bundles of banknotes in front of you and have the opportunity to own them, what will happen?
How many people can let go?
Everyone can reason, but not everyone can do it.
Just like Zhou Ya at this moment, although she is not a person involved, she is a witness, and she can understand why Bai Mei's tears are shed.
Not because she lost an opportunity that was hard to find even with a lantern, but because she was trapped by her own principles at the critical moment.
Principled people in this world are always praised, because there are not many such people.
And those who can be trapped by their own principles are those who are trapped in themselves.
Generally speaking, this kind of people have the shadow of childhood.
As the saying goes, lucky people have a lifetime of childhood to heal, while unfortunate people have a lifetime of childhood to heal.
"You are not stupid, Mei. You are trapped by your own principles." Zhou Ya reached out to comfort Bai Mei. Her hand gently folded on the back of Bai Mei's hand. Between the palm and the back of her hand, there was a delicate feeling.
temperature.
It touches people's hearts.
This is probably the best value that best friends can bring.
Because of companionship.
Accompanying you at critical moments.
Hearing what Zhou Ya said, Bai Mei threw herself into her arms and cried loudly.
Now it's better, Zhou Ya can only stand upright and lend Bai Mei a shoulder. She can feel the temperature of Bai Mei's tears, which is a bit scalding.
Who said they were good friends? Bear with it.
Tears are actually a physical and chemical reaction of negative energy in the body. If there is any, it is best not to stay in the body and release it as much as possible. Just drain it dry.
Otherwise, if it stays in the body, it will come back sooner or later.
Cry as much as you want.
Bai Mei cried for a long time, and finally couldn't make a sound. She still cried on Zhou Ya's shoulder. If it weren't for the occasional sobs, she would have thought she was tired and fell asleep.
Zhou Ya was so patient that she didn't bother Bai Mei, and just let her lean on her like this, as if she had never seen him before.
Finally, Bai Mei let out a long sigh, sat up straight, and looked at the pool of tears she had left on Zhou Ya's shoulder, feeling ashamed.
"Thank you, Ya. If you weren't here, I wouldn't be able to cry." Bai Mei's nose was red, not to mention her eyes, which were a little swollen.
"My shoulders feel like they are being burned by your tears." Zhou Ya was full of doting reproaches, but she was extremely gentle.
"Then let me blow it for you..." Bai Mei said, trying to get serious, and started to pull Zhou Ya's shoulder strap.
"Stop it!" Zhou Ya was ticklish and was almost frightened when she saw this battle. She quickly begged for mercy: "You can't repay kindness with enmity. I beg for mercy. Isn't it okay to beg for mercy?"
"Emmm..." Bai Mei had to stop her hand. This person was real. She wanted to repay her from the bottom of her heart, but she was mistaken for taking the opportunity to eat tofu. From this point of view, the relationship between people is completely different.
The resonance of the same frequency is really a rare thing.
"I think what you said about self-imposed confinement is so right." Bai Mei sat down and began to talk heart-to-heart. "I have been helpless since I was a child. I never expected anyone to rely on me. I am alone."
People work hard and rely entirely on their own abilities to get where they are today. I am used to this way of survival."
Zhou Ya listened, nodded, and responded: "Your way of living is cool, you don't need a man."
"So, I deserve to have wasted thirty-two blind dates and made thirty-two useless efforts." Bai Mei laughed at herself, "So, I think about it now. It's not too late to remedy the situation. I now completely refuse to date."
, I also refuse to fall in love, I want to start a business."
"Maybe this is your destiny. If you decide that this is your path, then just give it a try," Zhou Ya encouraged Bai Mei, "There is a survey data abroad that says that when people spend their entire lives
, the thing I regret most is not what I did, but what I didn’t do.”
"Well, start a business." Bai Mei said, "I have started a business for a while in college, but I only tried it briefly. I opened an Internet cafe with my classmates, and it closed down in less than one school year.
But I didn't lose money, so I felt I had to try again."
"Okay, others rely on men, and you, Bai Mei, might be the woman who is relied on by men." Zhou Ya continued to encourage and did not hesitate to praise.
To a certain extent, there is no difference between a self-deprived person and a chosen one.
The chosen ones are all self-sufficient people. Because they have to break through their own barriers, they keep working hard and finally improve their abilities in the process and realize their so-called destiny.
There is only one way to test whether a self-trapped person is the chosen one, which is to let him do it.
In this sense, Zhu Jingxuan is indeed not suitable for white roses. White roses are dandelions destined to fly, not flowers lying in a vase.
"But have you decided what to do? Starting a business is not an easy thing." Zhou Ya began to call on Bai Mei to think more rationally.
Bai Mei has obviously considered this issue, and she has made a self-evaluation and analysis of herself.
"I am born to be a good material for sales. My talent lies here, so the beginning of my business must be related to sales. But, I must change to another field. The real estate industry has been very important to me.
There are no more challenges, and I have already achieved the top sales of Huhuang. I want to leave this industry." Bai Mei said.
"I very much agree with your analysis, but I would like to suggest that you combine your own skills with your entrepreneurship, talent plus skills. In this way, you can maintain your love, reduce investment through your own hands, and experience
"It's fun." Zhou Ya said, "Every business in the initial stage starts like this."
"Well, I think so too. I agree with your point of view. I think starting a business cannot be achieved overnight. It definitely requires multiple experiences. You cannot put your eggs in one basket. Moreover, you cannot expect to achieve success in one step, so I think..."
Bai Mei paused, as if she had made a great determination, "I will practice my skills first from an experience perspective, but this field is what I like and am good at. In this way, I can lay the foundation for future entrepreneurship."
, and be able to evaluate yourself more comprehensively."
"I understand what you mean. Let's warm up before the big battle." Zhou Ya nodded in approval.