After all, Chen Yurou and I have just gotten married. If we were to live in two separate places, I certainly wouldn't want to.
But this mainly depends on what Chen Yurou wants, and I definitely respect her choice.
Just like what Yang Jingwen said just now, Chen Yurou should have her own life. After all, she just married me and did not become my accessory. She is definitely not an object that belongs to me. She is an independent person just like me.
A living individual, a person with flesh and blood and independent thinking consciousness.
So, of course she has the right to choose her own life.
"Men generally don't think about these things, nor can they see them. For most men, women are more like their own accessories. They only need to take care of the housework and play their own roles in front of and behind others. But to do
A housewife needs to give up a lot, which men cannot see. I have been on this road before, so I know the result."
Yang Jingwen's seemingly wise words, although a little extreme, really made me feel ashamed.
Because I really didn't think about this before, I just thought that if I could earn money by working with Yang Bailiu, it would be enough for Chen Yurou and I to have enough food and clothing.
But I never thought about what Chen Yurou wants to do? Or what is she going to do? It seems that she just needs to stay at home every day, prepare meals and wait for me to come back.
This is a typical traditional thinking concept. Women should have children, take care of housework, and be a good wife, mother, and housewife.
But times have changed now. Men and women are equal, so the value of a woman is definitely not just reflected in giving birth to children.
"Of course you are not Chen Baili. I just hope Rou'er can have her own life."
Yang Jingwen saw that my face was full of shame, and her tone softened a little.
"Of course, everyone has the right to choose their own life, so no matter what, I respect Yurou's choice."
I nodded and said with some emotion.
"That's good. You kid is open-minded and doesn't have that kind of rigid machismo."
After talking to this point, the mother-in-law finally showed a happy expression on her face.
It seems that I have barely passed the first level.
When I came up from downstairs, I found Chen Yurou and Chen lying on the guardrail on the second floor eavesdropping. After seeing me, this girl quickly ran into the house.
"Look, my mother gave it to us."
As soon as I followed in, Chen Yurou held a red notebook and shouted to me with excitement on her face.
"What?"
I looked at her a little confused.
"What's the real estate certificate? This is the villa my mother received when she got divorced. Now it's given to us as a wedding gift."
Chen Yurou started dancing as she spoke, almost like a child.
"Is there such a good thing?"
When I heard this, I was a little excited.
It is a villa after all?
In a place like Jiangcheng, a house is worth a lot of money, let alone a villa, which is estimated to cost tens of millions, right?
"How about it? It's not a loss if you marry me, right?"
Chen Yurou looked at me with a smile, looking very proud.
"Of course. Being able to marry such a good wife like you is like stepping on dog shit. You are lucky."
I couldn't help laughing as I said that.
"You are the shit."
When Chen Yurou heard this, she immediately rushed up and hit me angrily.
But as a girl, how could she beat me? I pushed her down on the bed after three times, five times and two times.
This time Chen Yurou stopped making noises and just stared at me with her two big round eyes.
The atmosphere suddenly became ambiguous.
After looking at each other for a few seconds, Chen Yurou closed her eyes consciously, and I subconsciously lowered my head and kissed her.
If we were an ordinary newlywed couple, I'm afraid they would enter an indescribable scene next, but I couldn't do that because my father's last words were still echoing in my mind.
So I managed to maintain some sanity after all.
After a kiss, Chen Yurou's whole body collapsed, and her face was as red as a ripe apple.
But I stopped at this time.
"What's wrong?"
Chen Yurou opened her eyes and looked at me with some confusion.
"Your mother said... we are still young and cannot... have children."
I looked at Chen Yurou and said with an embarrassed face.
I had no choice but to lie to her about this kind of thing. Regarding my father's last words, I definitely couldn't tell her, and even if I told her, I'm afraid Chen Yurou would find it ridiculous.
"This...my mother also told me."
"Oh, my mom, really, why does she say everything?"
When Chen Yurou heard this, she suddenly became a little shy, covered her face and looked crazy.
"She is also doing it for your own good!"
I said guiltily.
"By the way, your mother said she wanted to take you to the south for development. Did she tell you?"
I quickly changed the topic.
"She said it, but I don't know if I should go there with her."
Chen Yurou looked at me with some confusion, "Do you want me to go? I listen to you."
"I... of course respect your opinion. As long as you are happy, I will never ask you to do anything you don't like."
I said very seriously.
"Actually, I also want to spend more time with my mother. After all, I haven't seen her for many years, but I don't want to be separated from you."
Chen Yurou pursed her lips, looking very embarrassed.
"Then you go with Auntie first. I'll go find you after I finish handling the matters here."
I thought about it and said.
"Really?"
When Chen Yurou heard this, she immediately became excited, "I was afraid that you didn't want to leave Jiangcheng!"
"Actually, for me, it doesn't matter where I go, as long as I can be with you."
I said it from the bottom of my heart.
"That's so kind of you."
When Chen Yurou heard this, she hugged me happily.
Another sleepless night.
I was newly married, the most beautiful situation in life, but I was guarding my beloved wife beside me and could not do anything.
The greatest pain in life is really nothing more than this.
I suffered from insomnia all night, and when I woke up the next morning, I was completely confused, severely lethargic, and in a bad state. I even felt like my brain was not functioning properly.
If this situation continues, how can I last three years? I'm afraid I may die suddenly in three months.
When Yang Bailiu came to look for me in the morning, he was shocked when he saw me in such a horrible state.
"What's going on with your kid? Even though you just got married, you don't need to work so hard, right? Are you careful that you're emptying your body?"
"I took out the yarn and I didn't sleep all night."
I said listlessly.
"One night? Are you desperate for your life? Who can withstand this?"
When Yang Bailiu heard this, his eyes widened in surprise.
I saw his exaggerated look and knew he had misunderstood.
"It's not what you think, I...didn't do anything."
I said and spread my hands helplessly.
"You didn't do anything? Then why are you acting like this?"
When Yang Bailiu heard this, he couldn't help but frown.
Then he suddenly came forward and looked at me carefully, and then his expression changed on the spot.