The reason why Zhou Bin was so sure about the three people's attitudes toward relationships was because he had tested them specifically.
After the time for socializing was set, when everyone was chatting in the evening, he intentionally or unintentionally brought the topic to this aspect.
The purpose is to understand their attitude towards feelings.
And the result was just as he had guessed before.
Jiang Yu is still very ignorant about feelings, and when he expresses them, he cannot express them clearly or even confuses them.
But one thing is revealed both inside and outside the words, that is, if you find the right person, you will give it without reservation and wholeheartedly.
Meng Haoyuan was different from him. He had obviously considered this question before and gave the answer directly.
And what he said is clear and logical.
It's just a different attitude from Jiang Yu's ambiguity.
Meng Haoyuan is very clear about his feelings.
Number 1, 2, and 3, state your emotional requirements clearly and clearly as if you were making a report.
This is not over yet, there is another one coming right after.
But this time I’m talking about my own responsibilities and obligations.
In short, in one sentence, I have a very clear plan for my relationship.
Then he expressed his own opinion. He believed that relationships need to be managed.
A momentary impulse is inferior to a long-term plan.
Therefore, he believes that reasonable management is the best way to maintain relationships.
This point was opposed by Jiang Yu.
He believes that emotional matters are idealism after all.
If too many rules and regulations are involved, the purity of emotion will be affected.
In this case, it is no longer love.
Because of this incident, a rare argument broke out between the two.
Jiang Yu also changed from his usual shyness and started to argue with Meng Haoyuan until his face turned red.
Zhou Bin and Chen Kang were watching the excitement from the sidelines.
Zhou Bin thinks both of their views are correct.
But each has its own one-sidedness.
Relationships need to be kept fresh and managed.
It requires both impulse and reasonable planning.
Just keep it in perspective.
Of course, this was his personal opinion and he did not say it out loud.
Otherwise, you will have to get involved in the dispute between the two.
But Chen Kang didn't care about it.
He always talked a lot, so when he saw the heated discussion between the two, he couldn't help but join in.
But before he said a few words, Meng Haoyuan and Jiang Yu started to attack him.
The two people who had been arguing very fiercely, after hearing his point of view, immediately put aside their prejudices and attacked him together.
At that time, Chen Kang said this when the two were arguing most fiercely:
"Let me tell you, you have nothing to fight about. Falling in love is just falling in love. Why do you have to think about it so much?
We are only in college now, so there is no need to think about these things. We might as well take this opportunity to have more love affairs.
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By that time, we will have experience and we will be able to easily give an answer if we consider this question."
His words seemed reasonable at first glance, but they could not withstand scrutiny.
What does it mean to accumulate experience before considering this issue?
So in the process of accumulating experience, will you hurt some people?
Is such an attitude fair to these people?
As soon as he finished speaking, Zhou Bin frowned slightly.
I say this nicely to gain experience in the future.
In fact, it is just to find excuses and reasons for my own irresponsibility.
Chen Kang was immediately sentenced to death.
He has decided that if the other party has always had this attitude towards relationships, then don't expect him to be the matchmaker.
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Then I don’t want to push the girl into the fire pit myself.
Yes, in his opinion, Chen Kang's attitude is a trap.
Although his thoughts represent the common thoughts of most college students.
But Zhou Bin just didn’t agree.
Not only did he disagree, Meng Haoyuan and Jiang Yu also disagreed with Chen Kang's statement.
Both of them are smart people. Although they are not as quick as Zhou Bin, they understood what Chen Kang meant after just a little thought.
The two of them suddenly felt uncomfortable.
Why does this sound so shitty!
That's nice to say.
But in order to accumulate so-called experience, do we have to harm other girls?
Then why don't you think more about it yourself before doing this, and first come up with your own attitude.
Isn't it possible to draw one's own conclusion without so-called experience?
Wanting to understand this, the two looked at each other and instantly reached a tacit understanding.
"Chen Kang, I don't agree with what you said."
"That's right, I don't agree either."
The two of them retorted almost at the same time.
However, Chen Kang didn't take this seriously, and instead became a little interested.
As a chatty person, what he likes most is arguing with others.
"Oh, am I right?"
"Of course not," Jiang Yu spoke first, "Whether it is purely carefree or business-oriented, your attitude must not be perfunctory."
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"Yes, what Jiang Yu said is very correct."
Meng Haoyuan followed closely, "Although Jiang Yu and I had some differences just now, I strongly agree with what he said.
You must have a serious and responsible attitude towards your feelings, otherwise what is the difference between you and being a hooligan?"
"What you said is serious." Chen Kangyi became anxious after hearing this, "Who is acting like a gangster? I just think that things should be done at a certain stage.
We have just entered college now, and falling in love is also a growing process that we must go through.
After experiencing several relationships, we can see ourselves more clearly, and it will be easier for us to find the person who will be with us for the rest of our lives."
Jiang Yu sneered at his words, "After all, it's not a matter of attitude. No matter how nice you say it, it can't hide the fact that you just want to have fun when you're in love."
Having said this, he glanced at Chen Kang with contempt on his face.
Meng Haoyuan also looked serious, "Chen Kang, your mentality is really unacceptable.
If you have the idea of accumulating experience for the future when you are making a girlfriend, it means that you have never thought that this relationship will last until the end, so why did you start it at the time?
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Jiang Yu said you were acting like a hooligan, but I think he was taking it lightly, you are simply causing harm to others."
Being attacked by the two men in turn, Chen Kang was a little embarrassed.
His face was full of displeasure, "Isn't it just a love affair during college? Is it as serious as you say?
Why am I acting like a hooligan and how am I causing harm to others? You are too alarmist!
Now, whoever hasn’t had a few relationships in college, isn’t there a saying that college without falling in love is incomplete.”
Regardless of what he said, he still didn’t feel there was anything wrong with his thoughts.
Not only that, but he also wanted to win Zhou Bin over.
Seeing that he had not expressed any opinions, he couldn't help but said: "You are the only one in our dormitory who has a girlfriend. You should have the most say in this matter. Tell me, what I just said is always true?"
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Zhou Bin did not expect that the flames of war would actually burn him.
Seeing the three people looking at me expectantly, I couldn't help but feel happy.
But he could also see that the three people were getting a little angry when they said this.
If I continue to support a certain party unequivocally, I am afraid it will add fuel to the fire, make the situation difficult to deal with, and affect the relationship between them.
Thinking of this level, Zhou Bin smiled, "Each of us has our own different opinions and can express our opinions.
And in my opinion, there is no right or wrong opinion, it's just different personal perceptions.
What we have to do is seek common ground while reserving differences.
Of course we will be happy when we meet people who have the same views as us.
If you meet someone who has a different opinion than your own, don't easily deny other people's opinions.
It was his life experience that created his way of looking at things."
Having said this, Zhou Bin looked at the expressions of the three people and smiled secretly in his heart.
He seemed to have said a lot, but in fact it was all nonsense.
Typical and thin mud.
But this is indeed what he really thinks deep down.
Seeking common ground while reserving differences has been the principle he has always adhered to in his past and present lives.
He never requires others to have the same views as his.
When encountering opinions that are different from your own, even if you are very disgusted with it, you will not blame others.
The experiences are different and the views on things are different.
He never tries to change anyone's thoughts and ideas because he knows it is too difficult.
Especially in his previous life, after working hard in society for so many years, he knew very well how ridiculous it was to try to change a person's mind.
Therefore, he will not express any opinions on the opinions of several people, even if he is also very disgusted with Chen Kang's statement.
Just like his concept all along, seek common ground while reserving differences.
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Chen Kang's views are formed by his cognition and cannot be easily changed by others.
You know that rebuttal is useless, why waste your time?
But in my heart, I have already made up my mind. Don’t expect to get any help from Chen Kang when it comes to finding a girlfriend!