At the beginning, I was angry with the experts: help me raise the third child Chapter 48: Do you think it is good to study with you? What about the children?
Chapter 48: Do you think it is good to study with you? What about the children?
Chapter 48: Do you think it’s good to study with you? That’s stressful for children
boom!
As soon as these words came out, everyone was in an uproar.
Especially Yang Tao's father, who was facing Ye Bai directly. He was so shocked by these words that he almost lost his balance.
He quickly held the back of the chair behind him to prevent him from sitting down on the stool.
The audience in the live broadcast room also exploded because of this new point of view proposed by Ye Bai.
"This young man is so terrifying, so awesome!"
"Yeah, the idea of falling tired at the starting line shocked me."
"Looking at my four-year-old child silently, my mother will cancel all interest classes tomorrow so that you can have fun."
"His logical thinking is very clear. He doesn't look like someone from our county at all."
"Upstairs, I disagree with what you said. Don't all the people in our county think clearly?"
"It's so strong. It's too strong. These are views that I have never thought of. Please mark them."
Ye Bai didn't know that the audience in the county TV station's live broadcast room all praised him greatly.
He only knew that he had to wake up his father who was addicted to distorted reality.
So, Ye Bai once again stated the views in his mind categorically.
"You just said, 'You have participated in the whole process of your child's education. If you hadn't been with him since kindergarten and paid close attention to his various skills and studies, he wouldn't have become so outstanding,' right?"
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"Then have you ever thought about what you call 'accompanying learning', which is stressful for children!"
"If you don't believe it, you can ask him yourself, what does your company mean to him?"
boom!
Ye Bai's second point was like a heavy punch, hitting Yang Tao's father hard on the chest.
He was breathing hard, as if he couldn't even breathe.
Ye Bai's powerful words just now echoed repeatedly in his mind.
"What does your presence mean to the child?"
"Our children are now not defeated at the starting line, but exhausted at the starting line! Do you know?"
"Exhausted?"
He suddenly lowered his head and looked at his son, Yang Tao.
At this moment, Yang Tao also looked up at his father. His pale face and thin body shocked his father.
"Son, does dad's company all this time put pressure on you?"
Fighting back the dizziness, he gritted his teeth and asked the question.
He thought the child would happily tell him that his company was not a pressure.
However!
He guessed wrong, Yang Tao just glanced at him, lowered his head, and stopped talking.
What is the silence at this time if not acquiescence?
Looking at the top of his son's head, he burst into tears.
He forgot how long it had been since his eyes only saw his son's achievements and the certificates plastered all over the wall, but he forgot that the thickness of his lenses was increasing year by year.
I have forgotten how long it has been since he took his son to the park or playground. Instead, he kept squeezing his child's vacation time every week and sent him to a cram school.
OMG!
He felt his face get hot when he remembered that just now he was talking eloquently in front of everyone, saying that his children's excellence was due to him.
Isn’t it true that my child’s thinness and lack of energy are all caused by my own “accompanying” and “grasping” her?
After thinking about it, he broke out in cold sweat.
Fortunately, Ye Bai's words woke up the man in his dream.
Otherwise, wouldn't he be the initiator who exhausted his children at the starting line?
well!
Yang Tao's father sighed deeply and said to Ye Bai sincerely.
"Little brother, I just couldn't help myself. Fortunately, you woke up the dreamer with your words, otherwise I wouldn't know how far I would have forced the child."
After saying that, he bowed to Ye Bai and then slowly sat down.
His son Yang Tao shed tears immediately when he saw his father's actions.
The pressure really followed him everywhere, and it was too much for him.
Every time there is a test or exam, teachers, classmates and parents all think that he should get the first place.
If he missed it, he couldn't imagine what the consequences would be.
But now!
He did not expect that his father, who had always been strict with him, would admit in public that he had done something wrong...
His tears flowed out uncontrollably in an instant.
Sometimes, because children are young and mentally immature, they don’t know how to reason with adults about these things, so they can only accept it silently.
However, this does not mean that he thinks his parents' behavior is correct, it just means that he is unable to refute it.
The audience in the live broadcast room was once again shocked by Ye Bai's sharp words.
"What kind of person has come out of our county? He speaks in a reasonable manner. I'm convinced!"
"No wonder every time I kindly help my child do homework, he lets me go and says he can do it himself."
"Parents can accompany you appropriately, but there is really no need to stick close to them the whole time. They should give their children some free space!"
"I really think this guy looks very familiar. Is he a celebrity or an Internet celebrity?"
"That's awesome, brother. I have completely realized that I will never accompany my child all the time in the future. It doesn't matter to him or me, otherwise I will collapse from exhaustion."
“I’m going to brush up on 666 because it’s so slippery!”
Compared with the direct expression of his feelings in the live broadcast room, after Yang Tao's father sat down, the scene fell into silence again.
Professor Zhang on the stage couldn't help frowning and thinking hard after seeing his supporters defeated.
At the same time, he also noticed.
The city leaders, school leaders and others sitting in the first row of the auditorium all looked at Ye Bai with curiosity and approval. This was a bit ominous.
In response to Ye Bai's view of "falling at the starting line from exhaustion," he had to think carefully about how to respond.
Today I came to such a small county town to give a lecture. If I was criticized by the people here, how would I expect him to behave in the future?
I saw a serious expression on his face, and thoughts in his mind were like lightning. In a few blinks, he thought of a new point of view.
Pretending to be calm and taking a sip of water to moisten his throat, Professor Zhang adjusted the position of the microphone before speaking.
"Young man, you don't understand the painstaking efforts of parents!"
"Chinese parents can be said to be the most selfless parents. In order to provide their children with good learning conditions and environment, they use all their strength and brains to achieve their goals."
"You think, your child doesn't study before school, but other people's children will! Even if your child goes to play, others will still have fun."
"The child studied hard for ten years, just to win laurels in the Toad Palace. Which parent dares to completely let go during these ten years and let the child play as he wants? Tell me if so!"
The more he talked, the more Professor Zhang felt that he was justified, and his confidence slowly returned.
He thought to himself, how could he, a great education expert, be beaten down by a young man like you?
Don’t forget, who are the experts in the education industry?
What he says is authoritative... This chapter has been completed!