"So...Is Wang Shang the one I've been waiting for?"
When everything became clear, Bin Wei began to consider this issue rationally and seriously.
If she agrees, her relationship with Wang Shang will be more than just boyfriend and girlfriend.
For Bin Wei, who insists on falling in love and getting married only once in her life, agreeing to be boyfriend and girlfriend means that she has agreed to the proposal, and it means that she has bet her whole life on Wang Shang.
So she had to think carefully.
Bin Wei asked herself over and over in her heart.
In terms of personality, she thinks that Wang Shang is the person who will spend the rest of her life with her once he is with her. She knows that Wang Shang is very committed, which is why she has a good impression of Wang Shang.
In terms of financial ability, Wang Shang will undoubtedly get better and better in the future.
"Then Wang Shang really confesses his love to me again, should I agree?"
Bin Wei asked herself again in her heart, but she knew that when she had this question, it already meant that she was hesitant.
"Think about it carefully, why is there such hesitation?"
Bin Wei frowned and thought, and was also analyzing himself, trying to find out the reason for his hesitation.
First of all, when it comes to choosing her partner, she is more rational than emotional.
In other words, even if the person who meets her requirements today is not Wang Shang but someone else, she will still agree to this person's confession rationally and will not be affected by appearance or other factors.
Bin Wei knows herself. Even though she insists on only falling in love and marrying once in her life, she feels that she is someone who values feelings and only marries love.
Actually no, on the contrary, she is a person who does not value love very much.
In the process of choosing a partner, Bin Wei pays more attention to a person's ability to execute promises and financial ability, rather than love.
In fact, to put it bluntly, Bin Wei is very afraid of breakup and divorce.
Even though she is very confident in her figure and appearance.
She actually has a bit of inferiority complex about her academic background and family background, but this inferiority complex can be seen from her rational choice of her partner.
On the one hand, she feels that her figure and appearance deserve better.
On the one hand, she felt that her figure and appearance did not deserve anything better.
That's why she set the other half's financial ability at the monthly income of 30,000 to 40,000 yuan.
Because once this line is exceeded and the monthly income reaches 50,000, 60,000 or even 70,000 to 80,000, she feels that she cannot handle such a man.
She would feel that a man with a monthly income of 70,000 to 80,000 yuan already has a class gap with her in terms of experience and family.
This kind of man can be boyfriend and girlfriend with her because of her figure and appearance, but when it comes to getting married, he only thinks about getting along with her for a long time in the next few decades.
At this point, a person's knowledge and personality become very important.
Bin Wei feels that men who earn 70,000 to 80,000 yuan a month are not fools. They are all smart. When choosing a marriage partner, they will definitely choose someone who they talk to, has a harmonious outlook on life, has roughly the same knowledge, and can always communicate in a friendly manner.
people.
At this point, Bin Wei feels that there is a gap between her, who has an education from an ordinary second-level college and comes from an ordinary rural family, and those elite men who earn 70,000 to 80,000 yuan a month.
She is destined not to be anyone's first choice for marriage.
Even if someone is obsessed with her figure and appearance and marries her.
But how long can a woman maintain her figure and appearance?
When you are thirty or forty years old, you will no longer be compared with those younger girls.
At that time, the man who married you because of your body and appearance will naturally choose to divorce you because your body and appearance have faded.
Even if you don't get divorced, if he doesn't care about you, there will be no difference between you and getting divorced.
Bin Wei just didn't want to go through this, so she didn't ask too much for her partner, but just made a reasonable income of 30,000 to 40,000 yuan a month.
Bin Wei feels that there is not much difference between himself and such a man who earns 30,000 to 40,000 yuan a month.
If she works hard on her own, in three to five years, her monthly income will be around 20,000 yuan. She is still confident about this.
There is not much difference between a person with a monthly income of 20,000 yuan and a person with a monthly income of 30,000 to 40,000 yuan. If two people are together and have the same views, they can also talk and understand each other's knowledge points.
In this way, you can be sure to live a lifetime after getting married.
"So...the reason why I hesitate is...I am not sure that I will spend the rest of my life with Wang Shang!"
After analyzing for a long time, Bin Wei came to this conclusion, which made her a little unwilling.
She knew why she hesitated, but she didn't know why Wang Shang made her hesitate.
It stands to reason that Wang Shang's heavy commitment has already made her have no hesitation about not being able to spend the rest of her life together.
But it happened, and Bin Wei could not think of Wang Shang for a moment to give her such hesitation.
"Alas!" Bin Wei sighed deeply.
"Why did you sigh suddenly?" Wu Ting, who was playing with her mobile phone next to her, asked curiously.
"You must be tired!" Bin Wei smiled and said nothing more. She put down her phone, picked up her change of clothes and went to take a shower.
In the bathroom, while taking a bath, Bin Wei was still struggling with the question of whether she should agree to Wang Shang's confession to him again.
To be honest, if someone else made her hesitate, she wouldn't think about why she hesitated like she did just now.
She will decisively give up dating this person, and will not start anything, let alone agree to be this person's girlfriend.
Because what she promised was not a boyfriend and girlfriend, but a lifelong relationship.
Once she hesitates, she will give up without hesitation.
This is her, rational to the point of timid when it comes to choosing her partner.
If something doesn't feel right, just give up.
But... Wang Shang is different. When Bin Wei just checked the information, she suddenly discovered that Wang Shang's career is very suitable for someone like her who wants to live a stable life.
People who write online novels generally have a very geeky social circle.
Because it takes time to code every day, and the coding environment is usually at home.
Wang Shang will pursue the path of novels in the future and will basically stay at home most of the time every day.
As a result, the social circle is closed. Even if Wang Shang earns a monthly income of 70,000 to 80,000 yuan or more, he is still the same person, there will not be many changes, and he will not have the opportunity to be too tempted by the outside world.
The most important thing is that Wang Shang's career as a novel writer will not change much as he becomes richer and richer, and his vision and outlook will not change much.
In this way, her and Wang Shang's views on three things are always on the same channel. After they get together, even thirty or forty years later, they still have topics to talk about.
After all, they went to the same university, had the same major, were in the same class, and all their friends were at about the same level.
As long as Wang Shang remains unchanged, she feels that the future life of the two of them will be stable after they get together.
What's more, if she finds someone with a monthly income of 70,000 to 80,000 yuan or more, she doesn't have to worry about this person changing. This is pie in the sky.
"What a pity...why did you make me hesitate?"
Bin Wei was a little angry, and Wang Shang was also angry with himself. Why did he still hesitate when everything was okay?
Is it her problem or Wang Shang's problem?
She didn't know either, but... she had to figure out what was causing her hesitation before Wang Shang confessed to her.
It's best to figure it out and solve it.
If not...Bin Wei felt hard, "Then refuse."
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"This is where the hesitation came from."
When she went to work the next day and saw Wang Shang's Ai Feng mobile phone on her desk, Bin Wei suddenly realized why she hesitated last night.
If you think about it carefully, Wang Shang's inexplicable self-confidence did not come after writing novels.
But it happened after I came to Zhonglin.
Because Wang Shang bought the Ai Feng mobile phone in installments before writing the novel.
At that time, it was impossible for Wang Shang to know that his novels were so profitable?
Then why was he so confident that he did something that Bin Wei thought Wang Shang would not do?
There is only one reason, Wang Shang changed.
In other words, Wang Shang has not changed, but she has never understood it.
And this is what scares Bin Wei the most.
If she had been a classmate for four years in college and a companion who often did group assignments with her, she still couldn't clearly see Wang Shang's way of doing things.
So how can she be sure that there will be good results in the future after the two of them get together?
"So... it's better to refuse!"
After thinking for a long time, Bin Wei decided to follow her inner "rational choice" and reject Wang Shang's possible confession again. This chapter has been completed!