"Yinhua, are you just coming back from the fields now?" As soon as Xiang Jin and her grandparents were sent away, a woman as old as her mother carrying a backpack passed by the front door of Aunt Liao's house, Yang Juyun
Just say hello to her.
Unexpectedly, the woman glanced at Jin's mother angrily and walked past her mother without paying any attention.
Yang Juyun was startled, and the smile on his face suddenly froze.
Xiang Jin who was standing in the courtyard frowned when she saw it, and then she walked towards her mother.
Then I heard another woman who was a little older, probably around 40 or 50 years old, said to Yang Juyun, "Juyun, you said we also have those craftsmen in Baytou, why do you have to go far away to find them?"
outsider?"
When Xiang Jin heard this, she immediately understood. Isn't it true that the men in the family of the tall woman just now and the tall woman who spoke to her in a strange way that she met in the morning were both stonemasons?
They feel that it is up to them to repair their house, rather than looking for outsiders. They feel that the money for their family should be left to them to earn, rather than the fertilizer and water flowing into other people's fields. Therefore, their hearts are not hot and their family is not at ease.
Woolen cloth.
Then her face suddenly darkened, and she was about to retort to the other party, but she didn't expect that the other party left after saying this.
Yang Juyun sighed, "Oh, I didn't expect to offend them all."
Aunt Liao walked up to her with a small dustpan of dried cowpeas and sighed, "I wanted to remind you before, but you had already contacted Sun Shijiang and the others at that time, so I couldn't do it."
That mouth.
Otherwise, my brother, I'd better push it aside, so as to save you mothers from having to behave in this bay. Although we in the bay usually look kind and amiable, that's only on the surface.
In fact, everyone has their own little thoughts."
Yang Juyun suddenly raised his eyes, "How can that be done? It's already been agreed upon."
Xiang Jin also said, "Yes, Auntie, we are repairing a house, not to save face."
Aunt Liao frowned in confusion, "But..."
Xiang Jin said, "There's nothing wrong. It's our house that's being built, not someone else's. We're building our own house, so we can't be the masters of it ourselves? Do we still have to look at what kind of craftsmen we want to hire?"
Their expressions are bad?
Eating what is in the bowl and looking at what is in the pot is too satisfying. Is it possible that we have to wait until they finish the work outside to build a house? They are making a lot of money.
Then we have to wait until the Year of the Monkey and the Moon of the Horse?
Why do we have to take care of other people's emotions when building a house? No matter, they are petty and fussy, so let them go on their own!
Mom, if you greet them in the future, just talk to them if they like, and forget it if you don't talk to them. Anyway, there aren't many people like this who are worth getting to know deeply!"
Yang Juyun pinched the hem of her clothes and said, "I know, I know!"
After Xiang Jin left, Aunt Liao said, "I think what your Xiang Jin said makes sense. That child is transparent and much more decisive in his words and deeds than you. You seem a little indecisive."
An uncomfortable yet proud smile appeared at the corner of Yang Juyun's lips, "Yes, she is the one who makes most of the major decisions in our family now."
Aunt Liao nodded, "Sister, let me tell you the truth. I saw it clearly a few years ago for the people in Wantou. If your family did better than others, they would not be able to survive."
, Alas, others are happy and will not embarrass you.
If you do better than others, well, then others will be jealous of you, and then they will say all kinds of sarcastic things about you.
If there is something in your family that does not care about their interests, well, they will be uncomfortable with you again!
Alas, I finally realized that many people in this group could only have superficial friendships, but they could really have deep friendships like Xiang Jin said.
Anyway, behind closed doors, everyone can only care about their own one-third of an acre of land, who can count on who else?"
Yang Juyun nodded, and Aunt Liao said again, "So, don't care about those things and people. Why do you care so much? If they care, they may not necessarily treat you well or be grateful to you.
, then why bother?”
Yang Juyun said, "I can spare it!"
Then Aunt Liao took the dustpan of dried cowpeas in her arms to the head of the sunba to dry, and said at the same time, "Okay, you should go into the house quickly and go back and have a good rest."
Xiang Jin returned to the house and saw the little girl braiding her hair in front of the mirror, so she walked up and asked tentatively, "Hey, Xiang Nan, there is a special girl in our bay."
What is the name of the tall and strong aunt, I forgot her name in a moment of impatience?"
Xiang Nan looked at himself in the mirror and said, "How can we have an aunt like that in the bay? You are talking about Ai Can's mother, Hu Yulan, right? She is of the same generation as us, and she is the only female in the bay.
He is the tallest and strongest, standing there like a wall, not good-looking at all."
Of the same generation?
Ha, she just said, you can't call others casually, wouldn't this reveal the truth?
So she hurriedly said, "Hey, how could I not know that she is of the same generation as us? I meant to emphasize that she is older and can be our aunt. Nowadays, it is popular outside to call people older than us 'aunt'."
'Or eldest sister, that's a derogatory term, which means contempt."
The little girl believed it to be true, and then turned around and looked at her with a hurried expression, "Really? Did she offend you at some point? Let me tell you that her little fat pig Ai Can is also annoyingly tight.
In school, he always pulls the hair and braids of female classmates, and even I was pulled by him several times."
Seeing her pouting little mouth, Xiang Jin shook his head, "I can't say I offended her. I just met her outside this morning."
The little girl curled her lips and said, "She must be offended!"
Then Yang Juyun rushed in at this time and chased Xiang Jin and asked, "Yes, Xiang Jin, did Hu Yulan also say something unpleasant to you?"
Xiang Jin saw the nervous look on her face, so after thinking for a while, he decided to tell them that she was not complaining to her mother, nor was she inciting them to make enemies with their neighbors.
Instead, she felt that it was necessary to let them know, so that she would not have to stick to someone else's cold butt again in the future, making herself look bad!
So she told her mother and daughter truthfully what Hu Yulan had told her that morning, and then she saw Xiang Nan pinching her hands, wrinkled and angry, while Yang Juyun also said angrily.
"How could she say that? What's wrong with any of these households that haven't built their houses yet? Besides, why did we disturb their sleep over at Huangye Bay?"
Xiang Nan said angrily, "Huh, I think she just wasn't comfortable. Our family asked Sun Shijiang and others to repair our house instead of asking their Ai Chaocong."
Oh, okay, the little girl reacted so quickly, and now she understood all the twists and turns inside.
Xiang Jin glanced at her with a look of appreciation, and then comforted her, "Okay, okay, don't be angry, it's not a big deal, it's just some slanderous words, it can't hinder us.
what's up.
I'm telling you, I'm not telling you to be angry and vengeful, but I'm telling you that similar things like this may happen again in the future, so don't take it to heart. Anyway, we live our own lives, and it's up to us to live our lives well.
Hard truth.
As for whether others are comfortable with us, whether they feel comfortable with us, or whether they have any objections to us, that is all other people's business. Let them go as they please. In short, as long as we ourselves have a clear conscience!
You don’t have to care about other people’s opinions. If you do, you’ll only cause trouble and trouble for yourself, and you’ll be asking for trouble!
If you want to be simple, just make friends with people you can interact with, and forget those you don't need to interact with. How big of a place do we live in? How many people do we meet in this life?
In the future, there may be tens of thousands of them. If they take it to heart whenever they encounter a trivial matter, is that okay?
Therefore, as human beings, we must broaden our horizons and make it bigger!”