The first truly large-scale milestone in human history to achieve equality between men and women occurred after 1949. Along with the slogan "Women can also hold up half the sky", its significance has been ignored by Western circles that have the power to speak in the world.
, so that modern women in this country rarely feel grateful to the old man who promoted this event.
In a country where women cannot even guarantee their right to name, and where women are required to take their husband's surname after marriage, both men and women talk about democracy and freedom, which presents a subtle, ridiculous, and absurd feeling. They seem to have deceived themselves.
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The Marriage Law promulgated in 1950 was the last great and profound revolution in the marriage and family system in thousands of years. It has contained the main spirit of the provisions that have been revised many times since then.
The article was not long, so Shangguan Dandan did not read it quickly, but he finished it quickly and then gently put down his phone.
Neither Su Nanxiu nor Qin Yanan bothered her to check, but only looked at each other from time to time, with elusive emotions and meanings in each other's eyes.
"Okay." Shangguan Dandan nodded, and then looked at Su Nanxiu with some confusion, "But what does this have to do with you being a Taiwanese?"
Qin Yanan covered her mouth and chuckled. She didn't expect that Shangguan Dandan actually knew that even if the actual situation was not discussed, even if the two places were truly unified, the application of the law would still be a problem. This person was obviously the Empress Dowager two thousand years ago. How did Qin Yanan know that Liu Changan gave
Shangguan Dandan gave many evening lectures on politics and history.
"We are talking about a principle, not about the application of the law." Su Nanxiu was a little confused. Who is Shangguan Dandan? Qin Yanan naturally knew his origin and identity, but Qin Yanan had also just met Shangguan Dan again.
He looked so depressed that he had no chance to communicate with Shangguan Dandan. Could it be that Liu Changan informed him in advance? This is possible.
"You also know that what we are talking about is a principle, not a question of the application of the law." Shangguan Dandan raised his eyebrows slightly, and the girl's already crisp voice became sharper, but it was not hysterical, but full of majesty.
With a dignified air of reprimand, "I ask you how you understand the way of being a husband. What I want is some heartfelt words that are reasonable and reasonable. There is no need for you to explain the legal provisions."
After saying that, Shangguan Dandan ignored Su Nanxiu and stopped talking, his face turned ugly, and turned to look at Qin Yanan.
Qin Yanan knew that Shangguan Dandan wanted her to talk about "the way of being a husband".
In fact, Su Nanxiu has at least experienced the poison of feudal dross. Qin Yanan has truly grown up under the red flag. Her views on husband and wife are different from Su Nanxiu's, and it is impossible for her to have the same concept as Shangguan Dandan.
However, some things in tradition will always involuntarily affect some people who are willing to accept them.
"I used to like He Zhu's "Half-Dead Tong: Everything Is Bad After Changmen". Personally, in Pan Yue's "Mourning" and Yuan Zhen's "Condemnation of Sadness" and Su Shi's "Jiangchengzi·Yimao January 2",
"Ten Days of Night's Dream" and He Zhu's "Half-Dead Tong: Everything Is Wrong at Changmen", my favorite is He Zhu's."
Qin Yanan's tone was gentle as she spoke her condolences, but the corners of her mouth were slightly raised. With her own experience, her mood naturally interpreted the artistic conception in the words, making her temperament become like the lonely moon at night.
"Everything is wrong when you pass through Changmen again. What happened when you came together will be different. After the parasol trees are half dead and the frost clears, the white-headed mandarin ducks fly away without their companions. The original grass is exposed to the early morning sun, and the old habitat and the new ridge are close to each other. I lie on an empty bed and listen to the rain outside the south window.
Who will stay up late at night to mend clothes again... Lying on an empty bed listening to the rain outside the south window, who will stay up late at night to mend clothes again..." Qin Yanan recited this eulogy that everyone knew softly, as if caught in the scene, "Who will stay up late again?
Mending clothes at night? This is probably the sentence. In fact, the entire "Six Chapters of a Floating Life" is just the story of this sentence."
"Qin Yanan, you really know how to do what he likes." Su Nanxiu sneered and showed admiration. Back then, Ye Sijin liked Ye Chenyu so much and made him a treasure. Today, in front of Shangguan Dandan, she still has little ability to figure out what's going on.
Not bad.
"You misunderstood." Qin Yanan smiled faintly and shook her head, "I'm not saying that I agree that women should obey the three obediences and four virtues, be virtuous and virtuous, and serve men at home. It's just that the way of being a husband is the way of husband and wife after all, not that
Getting each other is the result, but two people will eventually live to become an indispensable part of each other. It is his living habit and his unforgettable scenery... It makes him dare not imagine his life without you, so that he will be free.
Lying in bed listening to the rain outside the south window, who would sigh again after burning the midnight oil to mend clothes... The sigh was due to the pain of love, rather than rejoicing that the evil woman was finally gone."
As he spoke, Qin Yanan glanced at Su Nanxiu, with a hint of contempt in her expression, "Being the most suitable woman to live with in his eyes is the way I understand it to be a husband."
Shangguan Dandan's eyes showed approval, and he nodded thoughtfully... Of course, this was a gesture that he had to show as the true master of the harem, as he was above the queen, able to compete with the emperor... She
I have never had a deep understanding of the way of being a husband, and I have so many thoughts. This song "Half-Dead Tong·Everything Is Wrong Over the Changmen" has a unique charm.
Qin Yanan pursed her lips and smiled silently, adding some hot water to Shangguan Dandan's cup.
"In order to please her, you cursed yourself to death before you had anything to do with Liu Changan. Qin Yanan, you are really ruthless." Su Nanxiu took two steps back in shame and looked at Shangguan Dandan with a sneer.
"I know you have an extraordinary background. Can you give me an answer? Who are you and why do you interfere in our affairs?"
"I told you, I am his mother." Shangguan Dandan showed a gentle smile as he thought of his son.
"You look like this, could you be his mother?" No matter how elegant and noble Shangguan Dantan is when he is quiet, and how obvious his commanding air is in his words, that kind of girlish immaturity will still show up from time to time. It is impossible for Su Nanxiu to see it.
Not coming out.
"It's hard to imagine that you are an old woman over a hundred years old when you look like this?" Qin Yanan said with a smile.
"If I were an old woman, Ye Sijin, so would you." Su Nanxiu sneered at Qin Yanan, who had no self-awareness at all.
"I am Qin Yanan, I am twenty-five this year." Qin Yanan suppressed her worries and could not lose the situation, even though she couldn't wait to ask Liu Changan face to face.
"I am Su Nanxiu, I am fourteen years old this year." Su Nanxiu said without changing her expression.
Shangguan Dandan looked at Su Nanxiu, then at Qin Yanan, opened his mouth, and his eyes fell on the crack of the living room door.
"Hello... tonight... have you had dinner tonight... I will make... a midnight snack for you..." Zhou Shuling was discovered, and she opened the door and walked in cautiously. She felt that the air conditioning in the living room was too strong, and she couldn't help but hug her
Crossed arms.
"What did you hear?" Su Nanxiu frowned and opened her palms.
"I don't even understand what you are talking about..." Zhou Shuling was startled. The little girl in front of her looked as ferocious as a ghost. She ran to Qin Yanan for fear of being killed and silenced, "Miss Qin, I really want to listen.
I understand what you said. My name is Qin Yanan. I am twenty-five years old this year..."
Except for this sentence, the other words before are simply like fantasy.
"It's okay." Qin Yanan patted Zhou Shuling's back and looked around, "Hey, where's Zhou Dongdong?"
"I'm doing my homework at home."
"When did she go back?" Qin Yanan looked back at Shangguan Dandan, who shook his head and didn't notice at all.
"How did I know?" Finding Qin Yanan looking at her again, Su Nanxiu said impatiently, why would she pay attention to a stupid child who was so stupid?
"We were just talking about how a wife should treat her husband, what do you think?" Shangguan Dandan said to Zhou Shuling.
"Isn't that just...what should I cook for him if he wants to eat, and how else should I treat him? I can't offer him up as a Bodhisattva, haha..." How could Zhou Shuling have so many thoughts? She didn't understand them at all when she just eavesdropped.
But Miss Qin is really good at reciting poems with great emotion. It would be great if Zhou Dongdong could memorize such long poems.
After Zhou Shuling finished speaking, she looked at Shangguan Dandan. She felt a cold feeling on her back now and just wanted to leave here quickly. The atmosphere in this room was like the two armies had not yet launched their battle, and hundreds or thousands of people would die at any time in the confrontation.
But he didn't know whether to live or die and had to sneak through the middle of the confrontation between the two armies.
"Go back. Next time you make an appointment with him, we can talk to him face to face. I'm going to take a rest." Shangguan Dandan said with some satisfaction. He helped him discipline these jealous women. I believe he will be considerate of her.
After all the hard work and gratitude, he returned to her arms and felt the selfless maternal love. He realized that all the women in this world only know how to be jealous. Only his mother can understand that he is most tired of this matter, and only his mother's arms do not have that much.
Intrigue and nonsense.
gentle.
kindly.
peaceful.
Peace of mind.
This is Shangguan Dandan's mind. Shangguan Dantan can't help but look forward to the scene of him standing on the bed, him standing beside the bed and leaning in his arms, while she caresses his head with tenderness, the scene of a loving mother and a filial son.
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