Ruolan felt distressed and guilty: "I accidentally used too much force just now! What should I do? Can I help you rub it? Why don't you go find the doctor..."
"Silly girl!"
Seeing that Ruolan was really anxious, Lin Xu immediately stopped joking with her and grabbed her wrist: "Although I am weak, I am not that weak. I will go if you punch me."
Looking for a doctor? That would be too useless!"
"Are you really okay?"
"It's okay! I was joking with you just now!"
"I was shocked! I thought I really broke you!"
Ruolan gave him a look that looked both charming and angry!
Lin Xu chuckled, and then said seriously: "Daughter-in-law, there is something that I want to talk to you about seriously!"
"What's going on?"
Seeing Lin Xu's serious look, Ruolan immediately felt nervous!
"Who says women have to have children!"
Lin Xu looked into Ruolan's eyes and said.
"Wha...what?"
Suddenly hearing Lin Xu's words, Ruolan couldn't help but feel a little confused!
"Ahem..."
Lin Xu also realized that what he said was a bit too abrupt. He coughed twice and patiently explained: "What I mean is that women do not necessarily have to have children... Of course, if you have
If you have a strong personal will, you can choose to have children!”
"But you understand what I'm saying. If you have a strong will, you can choose to have a child instead of pressure imposed on you by others, even if the 'other person' is me or other family members of yours."
"In fact, it is up to you to decide whether to have children or not, rather than having the outside world force you to do so!"
"Whether you have children or not, my love for you will never diminish one bit!"
"In short, don't regard having children as a pressure!"
"Ruolan, can you understand what I mean?"
Ruolan is also a very perceptive girl. She has probably understood what Lin Xu said, but this theory shocked her!
Although she had not read for a few days, the entire Daning Dynasty had the decadent idea of "men are superior to women, and women are inferior, and the three obediences and four virtues" have long been deeply rooted in people's hearts. She grew up in this big dye vat, so naturally she was not immune!
Now, Lin Xu said that she should decide whether to have children or not, and should not regard this matter as a pressure!
This thought really shocked her and was refreshing at the same time!
After being stunned for a while, Ruolan nodded.
"Do you understand?"
"I seem to understand, but I don't seem to understand..."
"Uh...okay!"
In fact, Lin Xu also knew that this idea was indeed too advanced for this era, and there was no soil for it to take root and sprout. It was normal for Ruolan not to understand it for a while, and she had to digest it.
Of course, he didn't expect Ruolan to wake up immediately after hearing what he said, nor did he expect to train her to be a "feminist". He just hoped that he would not have to give her a child.
It causes too much trouble, I just hope she doesn't have to be under so much pressure and can live a more comfortable life.