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014. Dialogue between two civilized people

Rozchild is a descendant of the Banya people. It has been a long time since his ancestors arrived on the Mizhou continent where the Mijian Kingdom is located. His father was born and raised in the United States. He has been engaged in manufacturing all his life and is a standard blue-collar worker. Fortunately, he has no

He was laid off due to the shrinkage of the domestic manufacturing industry in the United States and worked there until his retirement.

This was a very ordinary family in the United States at that time, far from the elite. But Rothchild was the pride of his parents. One year after graduating from college, he was admitted to the School of Medicine at Harvard University. In the United States, high school

You cannot directly study medicine after graduation. You must first go through undergraduate general education and obtain a bachelor's degree before you can apply.

The School of Medicine at Hopewell University has a four-year academic system. The admission rate is quite low and the tuition is very high. It is not easy to graduate smoothly. After graduation, Rothchild worked as a resident doctor for four years, and then became a formal specialist and worked for another six years.

Rothchild University majored in psychology as an undergraduate. At that time, he owed a student loan. His father helped him pay it off before applying for medical school. However, the tuition fee for Hefei Medical School was too high, so he had to slowly pay it off on his own after graduation.

Pay off the student loan again. Ten years after Rothchild graduated and started working, he has become a specialist attending physician and finally paid off the student loan again.

He was thirty-seven years old at that time, already married, and had two children, a boy and a girl. He also had a dog at home and a house in the suburbs. No matter from any angle, he belonged to the so-called middle class.

He belongs to the elite class in China and has an enviable happy life. However, he encountered a series of changes this year.

The work of the specialist attending physician is very busy, at least in the hospital where Rothchild works, and he is often on duty. Perhaps because of this, he neglected to care about his wife, who had an affair with the baseball coach of the local school.

After Luo Chai found out, his wife filed for divorce and hired the most outstanding local lawyer. In the end, the judge awarded custody of the two children to the mother, and the house and dog were also awarded to Luo Chai.

Deze has visitation rights to her two children and pays monthly support.

Rothchild moved into the motel with his personal belongings, and his wife's boyfriend, the baseball coach, moved into his original house. The two lived together there, but they were not married. According to the law, Rothchild

Child support needs to continue to be paid.

When Hua Zhenxing heard this, he couldn't help but mutter to himself: Someone slept with his wife, lived in his house, and took care of his children. He also had to give money to others every month. He spent twenty years receiving school education.

It took another ten years of hard work, and then all this... life can't be more miserable than this!

However, there is something worse. This incident made Rozchild physically and mentally exhausted, his mood became very low, and his mental state was also very poor. When encountering this kind of situation in Mi Jian Country, the advice that can usually be given is to go see a doctor

Psychologist.

But it didn't work. Rothchild's undergraduate degree was in psychology, which couldn't change the situation. He often felt mentally exhausted at work and couldn't concentrate, so he started using illegal drugs.

At first, Rozchild did not think that he was a drug abuser. He used sedative drugs to stabilize his mood. His status as a doctor made it easy for him to obtain these drugs. However, long-term use of such drugs will cause more and more serious problems.

As a result, once he failed to inject in time and almost had a medical accident, and then everything was exposed...

This was a scandal for the hospital, which was not disclosed to the public, but spread throughout the industry. Rozchild lost his job, and no medical institution would hire him again, and he had to pay monthly alimony.

The legal alimony in the state where Rozchild lives is not calculated based on the income level, but based on the living standards of the woman and the child before the divorce. With no income, he could not afford alimony and went bankrupt without any surprise. Of course, the motel

He couldn't afford a place to live, so he became a homeless man sleeping on the streets. His daily life consisted of picking up rags and receiving relief.

Hearing this, Hua Zhenxing couldn't help sighing. Rothchild was born in an ordinary blue-collar worker family. He was admitted to a medical school and became a specialist attending physician. This is enough proof of his hard work and excellence. From a personal point of view, he can be regarded as the elite among the elite. As a result

But he ended up living on the street, becoming a Luther among Luthers.

After living on the street, Rothchild had given up on himself and began to take other drugs. At one point, he was just waiting to die. At this time, his father, whom he had not seen for three years, found him and first sent him to drug rehabilitation.

An old friend of his father's had worked for Doctors Without Borders, and through this relationship, he was introduced to Fiso Port.

This is Rozchild's story. Speaking of this, the doctor said with emotion: "After coming to Fisoport, I completely gave up drugs. People here need me every day, and everyone respects me. It turns out that there are still more people in the world."

There is such a place. You may think that I am here to save people, but in fact it was Fiso Port that saved me - saved my life and life."

Is it Porto Fiso that saved Rothchild? It seems reasonable to say that. Rothchild is indeed very respected here. In the eyes of the locals, he is a big shot from the United States, even more important than a doctor born and raised in a country a few miles away.

Popular. But who would have thought that before coming to Fiso Port, he was a homeless man who drank poison and was waiting to die?

Hua Zhenxing asked in a low voice: "Have you ever thought about how all of this happened? What was the most important part of the changes you encountered that changed your life?"

Rothchild was obviously still immersed in the past, and seemed to be talking to himself: "My ex-wife, she hired a good lawyer, she is really a very powerful lawyer!"

Hua Zhenxing was speechless for a moment and could not continue to talk, so he asked: "How old are you this year?"

Rothchild: "Forty."

Hua Zhenxing: "How long did you wander on the streets before your father found you?"

Rothchild: "For almost a year, he searched for me for several months and even hired a private detective for this purpose."

Hua Zhenxing: "You said you hadn't seen your father for three years at that time. Even if you were homeless for one year, why didn't you see each other for the first two years?"

Rozchild: "We rarely see each other. During holidays, I will send him greeting cards... That Christmas three years ago, my ex-wife and I went to my parents' house with our children."

Hua Zhenxing: "Do you only visit me at Christmas? How many times have you seen me since you started working?"

Rothchild: "Three times, two of them were with his ex-wife and children, after the birth of his son and daughter respectively."

According to Rothchild's story, Huazhenxing already had the most basic understanding. An ordinary blue-collar worker family raised a top student who graduated from Hefei Medical College. The father also helped the child pay off the student loan during his undergraduate studies. In the case of his son

After living on the street, his father specially hired a private detective to find him, then sent him to detoxification, and then found connections to introduce him to work as a doctor overseas.

If this were not the case, it would not be the turn of Port Fiso to "save" Dr. Luo. Dr. Luo has an enviable and good father. You must know that many children in Port Fiso have no father at all. But it has been ten years since Dr. Luo started working.

During the year, I only met my parents three times during Christmas.

Looking at Dr. Luo's appearance, he thought he had been normal before and was normal now, but there was a period of time when he was not normal. Hua Zhenxing didn't know what to say. Dr. Luo was an American and had never had those three people in the grocery store since he was a child.

The old man taught him.

Rozchild was not stupid. Although Hua Zhenxing didn't say anything, he could still taste it. He squinted his eyes slightly and said, "I know what you want to say. My father has paid a lot for me, but I have indeed ignored him.

But you may not understand a real Mijian countryman, and the cultural traditions of Mijian country are different from those of your Eastern country."

Hua Zhenxing: "This is not something you understand or not. The situation is not that complicated. It's just a matter of whether you agree or not. Do you think you can feel at ease after saying this?"

Seeing that Rothchild did not answer, he thought for a moment and then said, "Now that the Internet and information are so developed, it's not that I don't understand the United States at all. At least not all American fathers can be like your father, and you are not as good as your father."

After all, he is a child, so he could not have said the following words. Although it is the truth, it is very embarrassing. Rothchild thought for a moment before speaking: "People often ignore those who have always cared about them, but tend to care about those who have not paid attention to them.

People, this is called the threshold effect, which is a psychological phenomenon in the subconscious.

In principle, people who have always cared about you are equivalent to constant stimulation. If you want to continue to feel satisfied, you need stronger stimulation. As for those who have never paid attention to you, their attention will immediately bring you new ones.

satisfy……"

Hua Zhenxing: "Well, this can also be called the shameless effect, so what?"

Rothchild: "Nothing, I just studied psychology and know that there is such an effect."

Hua Zhenxing: "Then do you want to tell me about the Franklin Effect next? People are more likely to have a good impression of those who have helped them, but they tend to ignore those who have helped them. Well, Old Man Yang calls it a licking dog

And the white-eyed wolf effect.”

Rozchild was surprised: "How do you know this? Did Yang teach you this?"

Hua Zhenxing: "These things are not secrets. If you can learn them, I can learn them too."

As Rothchild said, everyone needs to have a sense of achievement and satisfaction. Hua Zhenxing’s biggest hobby since childhood is to understand unknown things. This is his achievement and satisfaction. There are only a few textbooks for primary and secondary schools.

There really wasn't enough for him to read, and he had read them all three years ago.

Huazhenxing usually asks Old Man Yang for advice when he has questions. Old Man Yang will basically discuss it with him and then recommend him to see something. Nowadays, the Internet information is very developed, but if you want to understand the problem, you can't just contact him.

Instead of fragmented information, we must take the initiative to learn systematically.

Uncle Mo and Master Ke would do the same thing. They didn't deliberately train Hua Zhenxing in any professional direction. They just told him when Hua Zhenxing had questions: Many people have had the same questions throughout the ages. Let's take a look at everyone first.

How is it solved or solved?

Rozchild didn't know how Hua Zhenxing grew up, so he was surprised. He asked again: "Can you remember all of this?"

Hua Zhenxing thought for a while and didn't dare to brag too much: "It's not about remembering, but knowing. If I hadn't learned these at all and didn't agree with you, would you stop talking about the Newton effect or the Dak effect? ​​These psychological effects

It does exist, but that’s not how you use it, right?”

Rothchild: "Hua, what do you want to say?"

Hua Zhenxing asked: "Doctor Luo, what did you want to say just now?"

Rothchild lowered his head and said: "Maybe what I did was not good enough, and I know what you mean. I was just analyzing what caused certain situations, such as the threshold effect, which is a kind of psychological instinct of human beings.

It’s also part of human nature.”

Hua Zhenxing blinked and quoted what Ke Fuzi said a few years ago: "Everything exists for a reason, but for people, not everything is taken for granted, otherwise what is the use of wisdom?

The human heart is not nature or instinct, otherwise it would be different from vegetation, and how different from animals? It is instinct to feel lust when seeing a beautiful woman, but to pounce on a beautiful woman when you see her on the street with lust, that is an animal!

"

What Ke Fuzi said was to teach Hua Zhenxing how to interpret "restraining oneself and restoring propriety as benevolence". It may have different understandings in different times, but the core of its thought is the same. When Ke Fuzi said this,

I vaguely lamented that after many years and eras, I felt like I was back to the beginning after arriving at Feso Port.

At this point, Hua Zhenxing remembered another passage that Ke Fuzi said, so he changed his tone and said: "Finding reasons for one's behavior is called attribution in psychology, right? The book talks about external attribution and internal attribution

Attribution, but there is another kind of attribution that is not mentioned in the book, and it was also told to me by an old man, which is about your situation."

Rothchild wondered: "What's the attribution?"

Hua Zhenxing: “Asking God to attribute it, or calling the Creator to attribute it, attributes the problem to human nature, as if humans will make certain mistakes, and God made humans like this. But is this really the case? When you

That’s not the case when you can realize and analyze the so-called human nature! Otherwise, what’s the difference between a human and a paramecium?”

Rothchild: "Do you still know about Paramecium?"

Hua Zhenxing: "Why do you think I shouldn't know about things in middle school biology textbooks?"

Rozchild nodded and said: "You are still a child. What you just said were all things others told you or you saw in books, but you are not able to say them yourself."

Hua Zhenxing: "It is indeed what others told me. I understand what you mean. I can predict what is going on, then know why it is so, and then I can do it. Several old men in my family also said the same."

Rozchild suddenly laughed: "Are we discussing academic issues? I thought we were on the run!"

Hua Zhenxing also smiled: "Let's chat."

Rothchild: "Yeah, let's chat! Being able to chat like this shows that we are all civilized people. You are so young, but you give me the feeling that you think you have a treasure."

Hua Zhenxing: "Really? I think so too."

Rothchild looked at Hua Zhenxing, and the more he looked, the more curious he became. Although the person in front of him knew a lot, he was still a child. The conversation just now was that of a child who was eager to express his opinions, arguing with others and looking for recognition, while also bringing

With a mentality of showing off knowledge and eagerness to try.

Rozchild was really good at analysis. At least he could see Hua Zhenxing's mentality clearly at this moment. At this time, Hua Zhenxing asked again: "Doctor Luo, you haven't told me why someone wants to kill you?"

Rozchild lowered his eyes and said, "Let's talk tomorrow. It's time for you to rest. I'll keep watch and call you in two hours."

Hua Zhenxing stood up and walked to the tent: "Can I ask you one more thing? You have nothing in Mi Jian Country. What are you going to do when you go back?"

Rozchild raised his head slightly and said: "Who said I have nothing? I have found my life! Wherever I was once abandoned, I am going to conquer it and get back everything I should have!" These words are full of confidence.

, his eyes seemed to suddenly bloom in the night.

Hua Zhenxing was slightly startled. It seemed that Dr. Luo should have gained something in Fesuo Port. He would become very confident after returning to Mi Jian Kingdom, and this might also lead to him being hunted. But since Dr. Luo doesn’t want to say it yet, he

It’s not easy to press, let’s wait until tomorrow.

When he returned to the tent, he did not immediately lie down to sleep. Instead, he still sat upright and concentrated. He called up the "system" in his consciousness and took a look, only to find that about one-fifth of the progress bar of "Task 2" had been completed.

The content of task two is to "investigate the inside story of the Big Head Gang's attempt to kill Dr. Rozchild." It seems that this is a task completed in stages. Progress has been made through a long conversation tonight, although the final details have not yet been clarified.

the truth.

The reward for task two is 30,000 meters of gold. Even if this posture is not completely completed in the end, you will probably get at least 6,000 meters of gold. What Hua Zhenxing is now confused about is how exactly these rice gold will appear. Is it possible?

Did it fall from the sky?


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