416. The Newborn Calf Breaks into the Porcelain Shop
How could Huazhen's behavior be in conflict with so many people? The matter started two months ago.
A great man once said that human nature is the sum of all social relationships; a master said that the real Feng Shui is how I get along with the world; a psychologist said that the first need of human beings is survival, and the second need is
It's safe.
Hua Zhenxing has read these books, he understands all these principles, and he has applied them in the reform practice of Jili Country, and it has been very successful.
In fact, survival needs themselves are also a kind of safety needs. People first need to ensure life safety. However, the concept of safety needs goes far beyond this scope. Psychologically, it is mainly reflected in anxiety about the future.
Anxiety about the environment and anxiety about oneself are essentially anxiety about the uncertainty of the future.
If you don't know what kind of people are around you, and you don't know what will happen next after doing everything, then there will be strong uncertainty in the future, and fear of the unknown will arise subconsciously and you will feel unsafe.
This kind of insecurity does not necessarily mean having a knife to the neck. Many seemingly successful people also have psychological safety anxiety. The main reason is that they cannot predict tomorrow's situation.
For example, the former Dr. Rothchild thought he was a very successful social elite and had done nothing wrong. However, because his wife had an affair with the basketball coach of a local school... he became a homeless man.
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People's psychological safety needs are reflected in many aspects, the most typical of which is the conditions for mate selection. Whether it is material or spiritual conditions, they are requirements to ensure the standard of living or emotional state, in an attempt to eliminate future uncertainty as much as possible.
Only on this basis can we talk about a higher level of respect and love, and the different conditions required reflect the responsibilities that different people are taking and are willing to take.
For this kind of thing, don't just rely on what people say. The conditions listed on the surface are often very different from the real needs in the heart. Some people can't even explain it clearly, and they are often full of contradictions.
There is a saying that goes, "Newborn calves are not afraid of tigers." It describes the vigor of young people. Usually, the younger you are, the more courageous you are and the less safety anxiety you have.
On the one hand, young people already lack experience, and the cost of trial and error is also very low. They will not be uneasy because things do not match their familiar experience. Instead, they feel yearning and curiosity because of the infinite possibilities in the future.
On the other hand, in children and adolescents, society, especially families, provide psychological security so that they do not have to worry about many things. Therefore, the younger people fall in love, the fewer practical issues they need to consider and consider.
How can we overcome safety anxiety? The answer is to transform ourselves and the environment.
Try to improve your abilities and strength as much as possible, and have a strong heart. Even if you cannot change the big environment, you can successfully transform the small environment around you, become more adaptable to the big environment, and be able to deal with it freely no matter what the situation.
Having said that, in most cases, most people can only be coerced by the general environment. Therefore, Buddhism has a saying called "ignorance", and attempts to seek "enlightenment" from the perspective of self-enlightenment.
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But what does all this have to do with Hua Zhenxing?
Hua Zhenxing was well educated and protected in a grocery store since he was a child. He realized that the place he lived in was a purgatory, and chose to improve himself and transform the world.
He shattered the entire Old Kilili Kingdom, ensured the survival of the greatest number of people, and reestablished a safe order. Such a person certainly deserves respect and love.
Although the vast majority of people in Jili have never heard of him, who is familiar with him and doesn’t respect and love him? Almost no one will find trouble with him, which is almost like seeking death. For example, those people who don’t have eyesight
The great magician.
Hua Zhenxing has enough strength and ability, and his heart is strong enough. He is not only a Dacheng monk, but also the founder of the New Alliance, Yangyuan Valley, and the New Kiri Kingdom.
He can guide the national policy of the country, not only pointing out what problems need to be solved, but also how to solve them, including formulating specific rules, how to implement them, and how to punish them?
Such an expert doesn't have much security anxiety. What environment can't he adapt to? He came to Dongguo, full of yearning and curiosity.
But when he changed his identity to an ordinary international student on Chunhua campus, he broke into a porcelain shop like a newborn calf.
All the methods he was familiar with in the past were no longer easy to use. He could not and could not use the original method to solve the problem here, and it was a problem that he had never encountered before or even thought of.
Hua Zhenxing is still Hua Zhenxing. Rather than saying that he doesn't adapt here, it's more that some people don't adapt to him.
He made as much preparation as possible before coming, but Hua Zhenxing never expected that he would be despised and discriminated against. Contempt is not discrimination. There is a subtle and obvious difference between the two, but he encountered it at the same time.
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The contempt mainly comes from some local teachers and students in Dongguo; the discrimination mainly comes from other international students.
Hua Zhenxing has heard of various forms of discrimination, but has never experienced it personally. Who in Jili Country would discriminate against him, and who would dare to discriminate against him? It’s too late to respect him!
Hua Zhenxing is a standard Chinese of Dongguo descent. He has received the most solid traditional cultural education of Dongguo. Now he has come to the capital of Dongguo. In this society where Chinese people are the absolute majority, he is in the best university in Dongguo.
Are you being discriminated against?
Dongguo has made great progress in recent years, especially the younger generation's mentality towards the world has changed a lot and has become more calm and confident. However, in major universities, foreign students are only given preferential treatment and there is absolutely no discrimination.
So how come Huazhenxing is despised by local teachers and students?
There has always been a large number of Chinese among the international student community. In fact, they are not looked down upon by local teachers and students, and are also very popular. But Hua Zhenxing is an exception, because no one regards him as a foreigner at all!
As long as Hua Zhenxing is willing, his Dongguo dialect can be as standard as the news network, but in daily life, he still speaks with the accent of the Dongguo area at the junction of Heyin Province and Tongxi Province. There is no way, he is learning from Old Man Yang
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He also obviously received a solid general education from Dongguo primary and secondary schools. He had no problem taking classes with Dongguo undergraduates. He was very relaxed. He almost didn't need any help from his classmates, whether in study or life.
This is very paradoxical. Isn’t it like foreigners will be despised? This actually involves another identity, college entrance examination immigration.
The so-called college entrance examination immigrants are authentic Dongguo people who also received education in Dongguo, but managed to obtain a foreign nationality in order to attend a better university and become an overseas student.
For example, at Chunhua University, it is very difficult for ordinary Dongguo students to pass the domestic college entrance examination and be admitted. Each of them can be said to be a lone seedling out of thousands of troops. However, if you take the overseas student channel, the difficulty will be greatly reduced.
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The educational resources of top universities are limited, and there is competition among immigrants taking the college entrance examination. Other international students can also choose ordinary prestigious schools or local prestigious schools. In short, the admission requirements are much lower than those taking the local college entrance examination.
This is much better than going to a pheasant university overseas to get a diploma. You can also apply for scholarships and enjoy various preferential policies. Those local students who really passed the Dongguo College Entrance Examination based on their ability can’t stand these college entrance examination immigrants.
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Hua Zhenxing is not an immigrant who took the college entrance examination. He is a native of Jili, but who can believe what he says? And he usually doesn’t have the chance to find anyone to explain.
The situation of Chunhua University is very special. Most of the college entrance examination immigrants who can study in this university are from the top class in the country and have rich families. They must have a good background and connections.
Teachers and students at the same school usually don't offend this kind of immigrants who take the college entrance examination. It's too late to make friends with interested people. In addition, Dongguo people have a reserved and reserved personality. Even if they don't like it, they won't deliberately show it to their face.
But Hua Zhenxing is an obvious outlier among them. He has no background in Dongguo, and the school's enrollment registration information is unreliable. He is an orphan with no background in Jiliguo.
He would not pretend to reveal his wealthy background inadvertently, and even if he did, no one would believe him. His nationality is one of the poorest and most backward countries in the world, and he is the only foreign student from China in the entire school.
His simplicity and thrift are visible to the naked eye and cannot be disguised. They are just natural living habits. Not to mention compared to other immigrants who took the college entrance examination, he is even far more simple and thrifty than ordinary Dongguo students.
A person like Hua Zhenxing is simply degrading the college entrance examination immigrants. He is regarded as a college entrance examination immigrant by local students, and other college entrance examination immigrants will not regard him as a similar person. Instead, they will wonder, "How could such a guy sneak in among us?"
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Hua Zhenxing's frugality is not only natural but also calm, without any sense of constraint. He has no awareness of his own "poorness" and turns a blind eye to the "superiority" of others. He is not pretending not to see it, but he seems to have no vision or insight.
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Some people despise him, while others sympathize with him, but it is difficult for these children to see the realm represented by this calmness.
Hua Zhenxing is not stupid. How could he not feel the contempt or sympathy of his classmates? After Shi Shuangcheng explained to him the concept of "college entrance examination immigration", he also understood that this was a misunderstanding.
Although it was a misunderstanding, it happened for a reason. It was not the fault of his classmates, so he just didn't care.
Hua Zhenxing considers himself to be a very generous and tolerant person. For example, there are so many gangsters in the entire country, haven't the vast majority of them accepted the transformation of the New Alliance and become a member of the new society? Why should he have nothing to do with these people?
Complaints about classmates who make mistakes!
If that were all, he wouldn't be at odds with many people, and maybe he could be accepted by more people. But the actual situation is that many people don't think he is generous and tolerant, and their impression of him is rather bad.
It is also hard, and the money will be compared with the money.
This is another important reason why he is despised.
Although Hua Zhenxing doesn't care about contempt or sympathy, it doesn't mean that he will tolerate and agree with many other things. Especially when he is offended by discrimination, he will never hesitate to take action, and he will never tolerate mistakes when he should be reasonable.
He should be reasonable but should not tolerate his mistakes, because the three old men in his family have not been accustomed to his problems since childhood. As for taking action, he should never hesitate. It depends on the environment in which he grew up. In many cases, if he hesitates, he will die.
From the age of twelve to now, he has probably killed three digits of people with his own hands. Under his leadership, the New Alliance eradicated the unique gangs in the country and smashed the entire country to pieces for reconstruction. What kind of person is this?
Behavior style?
As mentioned earlier, Huazhenxing was not only despised but also discriminated against, and the discrimination mainly came from other international students. In fact, there have always been two overlapping chains of discrimination among the international students in the group.
The first chain of discrimination is related to the country. International students from developed countries such as Western Romania and North America discriminate against international students from Eastern Romania, Southern Milan, Dongzhou... Black Desert Continent and other countries.
Weird things will also be mixed into this. For example, some international students from broken countries always have an inexplicable sense of superiority and look down on countries that are much stronger than them. But the basic chain is still strong countries, and students from big countries discriminate against small and weak countries.
people.
Due to the different development levels of countries, a sense of material and spiritual superiority is sometimes understandable, but a sense of unwarranted moral superiority is often nauseating.
The second chain of discrimination is related to ethnic groups. First, the Luoba ethnic group discriminates against the Black Huang ethnic group. This is known to everyone, but it is invisible and most people will not say it directly.
Secondly, the Heihuang ethnic group discriminates against the East Asian ethnic group, which is very strange. There are many complex factors that lead to the discrimination of the Heihuang ethnic group by the Luoba ethnic group, but what is the logic behind their discriminating against the Oriental ethnic group?
This is actually the result of deliberate instigation by some power groups. They use the name of anti-discrimination to stir up mutual hatred, ostensibly improve the status of black people, marginalize Asian people, and provoke infighting and involution at the bottom of society.
Sometimes the more some people emphasize a contradiction, the purpose is to create and intensify this contradiction, seize the power of moral interpretation and discourse, and thus divert other real contradictions.
These two chains of discrimination overlap. No matter how you count, Hua Zhenxing is at the lowest end of the chain. He is a typical Asian of Asian origin, and he comes from the poorest and most backward country, and he has no background.
But Hua Zhenxing will not buy this account. He will neither agree with discrimination nor provoke such conflicts, but he will not tolerate anyone's unreasonable troubles or spoil anyone's faults.
The above-mentioned chain of discrimination is looming, and most people will not say it publicly, but it can be seen in certain situations, such as when selecting and assigning companion students. Chunhua University has a companion system, and many universities in the world have it.
Yes, there is nothing wrong with it.
The so-called companionship means that on the basis of voluntary registration, one or several domestic students are selected and arranged to form companionships with overseas students. The original intention is to help each other better adapt to study abroad life.
When selecting companions, what kind of international students are the most popular? It usually involves following the chain of discrimination from top to bottom. Some volunteers will also use connections to find people and arrange for themselves "high-quality" companions from developed countries.
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Although Hua Zhenxing is at the lowest end of the despise chain, he was actually quite popular when he was initially arranged to be a student companion. Several girls wanted to become a student companion with him.
There are also personal factors here. Although the "rich" of Huazhenxing is invisible, the "tall" and "handsome" are still obvious. There is nothing you can do about it if you are good-looking. Moreover, as a person of East Asian descent, the probability of being a gangster is also low.
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However, Hua Zhenxing's student companion failed to help him resolve the conflicts that may arise in his life of studying abroad. On the contrary, she offended many people by helping him from the beginning. Not only did she beat up the foreign classmates because of this, but even the teachers at the school.
Got beaten.
This aunt is Shi Shuangcheng.
In fact, Shi Shuangcheng didn't want to cause trouble, let alone help Huazhenxing to cause trouble. When Huazhenxing first reported, she specially sent Dongguo's "Criminal Law", "Civil Code", "Public Security Management Punishment Regulations" and other "
material".
She also explained in detail the "Sanxing Precept" and "Common Execution Precept" that Kunlun monks observed in detail. The purpose was to remind Hua Zhenxing that the Eastern Kingdom is not a country of several miles, so you must pay attention to your behavior.
But why did she herself beat up the teacher?
Shi Shuangcheng is two years ahead of Huazhenxing. He is already a junior this year. He did not volunteer in the first two years, but he took the initiative to sign up this year. He specifically found the responsible instructor and designated him as Huazhenxing's student companion.
The teacher’s surname was Qiao. He was a very young man with a doctorate in international relations at the school. Teacher Qiao “kindly” advised Shi Shuangcheng that he could “take care of” an outstanding girl like her and arrange for her to have another “career” from the United States.
High-quality "learning companionship".
Shi Shuangchen wanted to tell Teacher Qiao that she and Hua Zhenxing were friends who had known each other for a long time. She had been to Jili Country and received a warm reception from Hua Zhenxing. But when she heard this, she was not in a hurry to explain, and asked
What does “high quality” mean?
Teacher Qiao didn't figure it out, and then advised Shi Shuangcheng that her own conditions were so good, whether she wanted to make friends or develop a partner in the future, she should find someone with more status and class, why bother looking for someone from a few miles away?
What about ethnic Chinese?
Teacher Qiao may have considered herself to be well-intentioned, or she may have been entrusted with arranging "high-quality tutoring" for certain foreign students, but to Shi Shuangcheng's ears, this was undoubtedly a double humiliation to Hua Zhenxing and herself.
Before Teacher Qiao finished speaking, Leng Buding was slapped in the face, spun around in a circle and started another somersault. Everyone in the Kunlun cultivation world knew what kind of temper this little aunt had, but it was a pity that he didn't know it. -