Old Mrs. Lu sighed, "It is a good thing for children to be motivated, but it depends on the timing. If you want to say Qilang is wrong, Qilang is not wrong. He is no worse than his brothers, but what is a good thing for him to become an official now?"
The old lady finally talked about this with Lu Fenghe in the car back.
"I heard that Qilang had been making trouble for this matter several times. Your uncle didn't let go, Qilang just wanted to split up the family. Xifu just broke up and said that your uncle and second uncle were both doing well, but there was no separation.
The truth of home.”
"What I know is that Qilang wants to split up the family in order to become an official, but those who don't know think it's because his wife comes out to talk about our room, and we force them to split up."
"Miss Qilang was locked in a Buddhist temple by your uncle. She didn't want her to disturb Qilang's mind, but Qilang was simply obsessed with it."
Lu Fenghe had a bold guess, "Grandma is herself..."
Old Mrs. Lu nodded, "If you can't persuade Qilang, let Qilang keep mourning at home."
Lu Fenghe was in a bad mood. He held his grandmother's hand and said nothing. She thought her uncle had some emergency, but she didn't expect that she would finish it herself.
"Your grandmother left her last words. She wanted to watch her descendants and not leave Piling during her mourning period."
"You can't leave either my second uncle and my third brother?"
Old Mrs. Lu nodded, "You can't leave."
Lu Fenghe has a mixed taste, and an old lady who is as thin as her uncle, is not afraid of death for her descendants.
Old Mrs. Lu knows more than Lu Fenghe and thinks more.
The elders actually knew in their hearts that it was not a good time to become an official at this time, not to mention Shen Nanxun's case, the possibility of failing to become an official at this time is far higher than success and fame.
The big house has a college, Mr. Lu's family, and the little third and small fourth rooms are all kept for children who can enter the school. In any case, they can always be safe.
However, the second house is not necessarily the second house business. The second house business was usually started because of the Lu family's industry before. The Lu family's industry was gradually taken back to the hands of the legitimate branch, and the second house gradually lost its support.
If Lu Qilang, the only person in the second house who has fame and knowledge, goes in, and if there is a chance of turning over in the future, the second house will have no chance of turning over.
Not to mention that the two families in the big houses and the two families are the same clan and the same branch, it’s okay for the older generation to say that when the older generation is old, this will become a polite word.
In fact, because the Western Palace has taken care of the Lu family's business for many years, many shopkeepers only knew Sanlangjun but not the Lu family, which has already made Mr. Lu and Lu Erlang dissatisfied. If it weren't for Mr. Lu's suppression, I'm afraid this matter would have started long ago.
It's right.
Sun used his own death not only blocked Lu Qilang's way to become an official, but also blocked Lu Sanlang's way to control his business.
But Lu Sanlang and Lu Qilang are grandchildren after all, so the grandchildren of this dynasty can only be mourned for one year.
A year later, the eldest house could not recover the business, which was that the eldest house was incompetent. Lu Qilang had not figured it out yet, that was that he was asking for trouble.
Lu Zhan is doing well. Only when Lu Er is doing well can Old Master Lu remember his brother's love.
After thinking about it, Sun had to settle it himself. She could block the way for her grandchildren. She died in vain and could not stop her, so she would do her best.
Old Mrs. Lu arrived in Xifu early and saw the note left by Sun. What else did she not understand?
Lu Fenghe didn't expect that his grandmother would make such a bad decision in order to make the third brother and the seventh brother fight for their long-term relationship.
She suddenly thought of the scene where the second uncle hit the edge of the bed at night. She was afraid that the second uncle's heartache was really heartbroken, and the regret that she could not stop her son from letting her mother die to this end was also true.
Lu Fenghe sent the old lady back, and ate with the old lady, and persuaded the old lady to lie down and then returned to the third room.
When Zhao knew that she was back, she called her first, and both children were in Zhao's yard.
"I have written a letter to your father. The old lady in the West Mansion is gone. Your father and brother may not come back to attend the funeral, but we are in Piling, but it is not possible to leave. Our mansion also has to mourn the old lady for three months and go to Kuizhou.
Just waited to burn Qiqi."
First, it is a relative who keeps filial piety and keeps the funeral to be fully committed.
Secondly, the female family went there, and the husband's family members were not so strict in observing mourning for him.
"But forget the date of the funeral?" Zhao asked Lu Fenghe. The Western Palace was still in chaos when Zhao left.
Lu Fenghe nodded, "Forget it, I'll stop the spirit for twenty-four days, and I have to wait for my uncle and the back home to come."
Zhao nodded. The time was quite short. At this time, the funeral was suspended for a long time, more than a year, and some were buried in a hurry the next day.
Twenty days are even short.
“Available?”
"I've used it, and I've only come back after using it with my grandmother."
"Then go and have a rest. Tomorrow, you must be kneeling down. Your father and brother are not here. Although you are a married aunt, you can't stay lazy."
Lu Fenghe nodded and replied, "I know."
Although most people in the Lu family do not think that Lu Fenghe is wrong with returning home, they will not think that Lu Fenghe is an outsider when dealing with the Lu family's wife.
But this is the era, it is always an era where men are superior to women.
The time for staying in mourning is divided into five grades according to the length of mourning, including the thickness of the mourning clothes worn by the mourning, the scattered, the scattered, the great merit, the small merit, and the scattered merit.
The most severe case of death, he spent three years of mourning, and wore the thickest clothes made of raw linen, mostly the ministers were the kings, the sons were the fathers, and the wife was the husbands.
The second is that the two are weak, and the clothes are worn with thick and thin, and whether to use a stick is divided into four levels.
First class: After three years of decline in Qi, he was mourned for three years and used a stick. He used his father's father's death, his son became his mother, and his unmarried daughter became his mother.
Second class: During the period when Qi was defeated, he was mourned for one year and used a stick. It was used for the father who was still alive, the son was the mother, the unmarried daughter was the mother, and the husband was the wife.
Third class: Qi declines and does not have a stick period, and then he will be mourned for one year without a stick. It is suitable for grandparents, uncles, brothers, unmarried sisters, and married daughters as parents.
Fourth Class: Three months of decline, one month of mourning, and no stick is used. It is suitable for great-grandparents and great-grandparents.
The great achievements are second to the first-class mourning clothes of Qishang. They are made of cooked linen cloth, which is more compact than raw linen cloth. They are mourned for nine months without a stick. They are suitable for married aunts, cousins, and unmarried cousins.
Small work is second to the first-class mourning clothes of great work. They are made of cooked linen cloth, and are used for greater work more meticulously. For mourning for May, there is no stick. It is suitable for grandparents, cousins, uncles, brothers, and married cousins.
and for grandparents.
The lightest first-class mourning clothes are made of the finest cooked linen. It is mourned for three months without a stick. It is suitable for great-grandparents, grandparents, parents of the clan, as well as uncles, aunts, and cousins of other surnames.
Parents and in-laws, etc.
Sun has gone, but Lu Zhan is still alive. Even if he is a parent-child, Lu Erye, he only needs to use a stick to mourn for a year.
Lu Sanlang, Lu Liulang, Lu Qilang and other relatives need not use sticks and mourn for a year.
As for uncle Lu, Lu San, Lu Si and other nephews, they wore mature numbness and were mourned for nine months without a stick.
When I arrived at Lu Dalang and his nephews, I wore a mature erectile dying and mourned for May.
As for married daughters like Lu Fenghe, they are the most gentle, mature, without a stick, and mourn for three months.