For someone like Luo Qicheng, his youngest son, who has nothing and is willing to be mediocre, as a father of a daughter, Li Chu really doesn't think he is a good match.
It’s not that I’m worried that my daughter will endure hardship. I’m really not afraid of hardship. What I’m afraid of is that there will be no end to this kind of hardship.
Ding Qiunan thought for a while while eating his meal and said, "What if he becomes a regular employee one day?"
"Oh, becoming a full-time employee? Luo Qicheng has retired, right?"
"I've been retired for several years..." Before she could finish her words, Ding Qiunan had already realized why her husband asked this question.
Everyone has retired, so if your company can still let your son work as a temporary worker, it will be a way of giving face to the old employees. Want to become a full-time employee? Think about it slowly.
"Xiaodang and Huaihua are now in charge of the first floor by the front door, and the other is in charge of the second and third floors. Their wages have been increased to eighty-five, which is the same as the wages of fourth-level workers in the factory. Although they don't have those votes,
They don’t have to spend money to eat, and you can pack some when you go home at night. How can you, a temporary worker, compare with others? And as far as I know, Xu Damao thinks that the two sisters are doing well, and they will raise their wages again next year."
"What you mean is that Lao Luo and his son are not good enough."
"It's really not possible. I think that an older young man must have a house, a job, and money. If he wants nothing, he can still work happily as a temporary worker for thirty yuan a month.
Wei, why are you getting married? Why do you support your family? Do you plan to rely on other girls to earn money in the future, and then you will be a full-time husband at home? "
"There is Lao Luo. He must help his son."
"Lao Luo doesn't just have this son. The two sons above are both married. If he dares to give all his family property to his younger son, or if he subsidizes his younger son too much, you can see if the two daughters-in-law will make trouble.
To put it bluntly, even if the two daughters-in-law don't quarrel and he can give him whatever he wants, where will his son live after he gets married? I remember the house that Lao Luo later allocated. The house was only about 40 square meters, not a little bigger.
, How to live? Rent a house? How much can he get if he buys a house? With him like this, I tell you, no normal girl would be willing to marry him."
Of course, it won't necessarily change in another twenty years. The household registration alone will be valuable.
What Li Chu talked about were all the most practical issues. When talking about a partner, you can drink water and drink affectionately. But when it comes to marriage, it means daily necessities. You have to live a down-to-earth life. Realistic issues must be considered clearly.
"According to what you say, those single young men without jobs should not get married."
"No, no, it's not terrible to have no job, and it's okay to work as a temporary worker, but I'm afraid you'll take it all for granted.
Look at the people on Xiushui Street, the people over at Deshengmen, the people at the zoo, and the guys selling things secretly in front of department stores. These people basically have no jobs, although what they are doing now may be a bit risky.
But at least they are working hard to make money, and they don’t say anything about me being poor, so I am justified.
Let me tell you, daughter-in-law, you may see these people walking around in a state of embarrassment sometimes, but at least they have the heart to live a good life, and they are constantly working hard in that direction.
As a man, it’s not scary to be poor, and it’s not scary to have poor family conditions. It’s just that you’re poor and don’t work hard.”
"Okay." Ding Qiunan thought for a while and nodded: "I understand what you mean. I will tell Qin Huairu like this later."
"Wait a minute." Li Chu became anxious when he heard this and said quickly: "Just tell Qin Huairu like this. It's just my own opinion. Now it's someone else's daughter who she wants to talk to. This needs to be judged by her and her daughter. But
Don’t blame me again if you have any problems in the end.”
"If Qin Huai can come over and ask me, it means that she is also murmuring in her heart. If I tell her like this, it can only make her more determined."
At this point, Ding Qiunan rolled his eyes and continued: "Hey, what do you think of Xiaozhang from the small car class?"
"Ah? Xiao Zhang? What are you doing? Children already know how to play soy sauce, right?"
"Oh, I'm talking about another little chapter, Zhang Tiancheng."
"Oh, you're talking about him. I remember that he seemed to be a volunteer soldier last year, right?" Li Chu thought for a moment before saying.
"Well, that's right, but he was transferred after seven years of overdue service. He seems to be the same age as Xiaodang, or one year older than her."
"Do you want to introduce him to Xiaodang?" Li Chu raised his eyelids and glanced at his wife opposite.
"Well, I sometimes go out to use a car, and Xiao Zhang has driven it for me a few times. I think this kid is quite nice, and he has no burden. There is no one in the family anymore, except for one sister who has already been married off."
How should I put it, the conditions are pretty good. The most important thing is that if Qin Huai is happy with this Xiaozhang's conditions, he will be able to take good care of his wife's family if there is no one at home.
"I don't care, you can introduce whoever you want." Li Chu declined to comment on this.
The more Ding Qiunan thought about it, the more he thought it was good. He smiled, lowered his head and started eating.
"You can be the introducer if you want, but you have to think carefully. Qin Huairu also has a son."
Her husband's long words were like a basin of ice water that poured down Ding Qiunan's heart.
Yes, Qin Huairu, like her mother-in-law, is more patriarchal than daughter-in-law. Now her son is afraid to come back, so she seems to be treating her daughter well.
But once everything goes away in a few years and Banggeng comes back, it will be a question of whether Xiaodang and Huaihua can still live at home.
When her son comes back, after all these years of living outside, it would be better if he has money on his hands, but if he doesn't have any money... tsk tsk.
She can imagine now that in order to marry their son, Qin Huairu and her mother-in-law will definitely squeeze the marrow out of Xiaodang and Huaihua, and they will not be able to escape even if they get married.
It's a good thing to introduce someone to someone, but you can't push someone into a pit of fire.
At present, Qin Huairu's home is definitely a big fire pit.
Thinking of this, Ding Qiunan nodded sharply twice: "You're right to remind me, I forgot about this matter.
If this is the case, I'd better rest. Given the patriarchal nature of their family, if Xiao Zhang really gets along with Xiao, he will definitely scold me to death when he finds out about her family's situation in the future."
"Eat quickly." Li Chu knocked on his wife's lunch box.
"After dinner, go to sleep for a while and stop thinking about these messy things."
"I know." Ding Qiunan responded obediently.
At the same time, she sighed silently in her heart. It seemed that she had no destiny to be a matchmaker.
(Preview: Dear book friends, this chapter is the second update today. The next chapter will be at 17:00. Thank you for your support and encouragement.)