Ding's mother is a bit old-fashioned, and Ding's father is not as good as her in this regard.
She always believed that the water thrown out by her married daughter was someone else's family.
For example, in the courtyard where she lives now, if it weren't for the fact that the house assigned by Ding Jianguo's previous unit was too small, only 30 square meters, and it was really inconvenient for a family of five to live there, she would have moved out long ago.
However, this time when the city bureau raised funds to build a house, she asked her son to buy a larger one, more than 70 square meters, and planned to move in together after the house was available.
Ding Qiunan tried to persuade her for a long time, saying that it was okay to buy a house, but not to move.
It's useless, the old lady decided it.
This caused the two of them to quarrel several times, but in the end Ding Qiunan couldn't get over her mother and had no choice but to acquiesce.
Ding's mother was worried that her son-in-law was thinking nonsense, so she came over to explain.
Li Chuneng could understand what his mother-in-law was thinking. It was just that living here always felt like being dependent on others.
But the old man has decided to move out when the house is ready, and he really can't persuade him much.
But he also talked to his father-in-law in private.
Now a family of five lives in a large courtyard, each with its own house, and the influence on each other is actually minimal.
But it will be different after you move into a unit building. It may seem a lot at more than seventy square meters, but once you get used to living in a single-family house, you won't realize the inconvenience until you move in.
When the time comes, it doesn’t matter whether you get along well or not, if it’s inconvenient, it’s just inconvenient.
How could it be convenient for the father-in-law and the daughter-in-law to live under the same roof?
Why did Li Chu talk to his father-in-law?
Because he asked his brother-in-law to help find someone to buy the house opposite the house Ding Jianguo bought.
That's right, he took over the quota of a person who didn't plan to buy a house in the first place, and he went to his father-in-law just to register the house in his name.
In the future, Ding Jianguo's family of three will live in one apartment, and the elder couple will live across from each other. Even if they eat in the same room during the day, they will live in separate rooms at night. This will be much more convenient and many unnecessary conflicts will not arise again.
He didn't dare to tell his mother-in-law because he was afraid that she would disagree.
By the time the raw rice is cooked, the first two days of her pregnancy will be over.
After Ding Qiunan learned about this, she didn't say anything. She just looked at her husband's eyes and it seemed like water was dripping from his eyes.
After Ding Ma and the others move out, Li Chu plans to clean the yard inside and out, repaint the walls, and arrange the furniture.
If nothing else happens, my daughter will definitely want to move back by then.
He would bet that within a few days after getting married, his precious daughter would no longer want to live there.
It's really strange that a person who grew up running around in his own yard can tolerate such a small space.
Just like Li Chu, if you give him a large flat floor of 400 square meters right now, he will definitely not even look at it.
"Aunt Ding, I'll go ahead and call Aunt Wang over. Let's sit in the back garden and play cards for a while?"
Li Qin changed the topic. Her younger brother had already raised a grandson, and naturally he had to handle family matters by himself. When they were older, they shouldn't have to worry about it.
After watching Ding's mother and Li Qin go out together, Wang Ziwen looked at Ding's father and said, "Uncle Ding, how about we come to my place to play chess?"
"Okay, let's go."
"Come on, Xiao Chu, call us when you're eating."
"I know, you two go ahead."
When Ding Qiunan came out of the bedroom again, he was the only man left in the living room, sitting there drinking tea.
"Dear, my mother is like that, you should know."
"Oh, it's normal for older people to have those traditional ideas." Li Chu waved his hand indifferently.
Speaking of this, Ding Qiunan is actually a little confused. She admits that she has a little bit of that kind of thinking, but her man doesn't seem to have that kind of thinking at all.
Many times I treat my daughter better than my son.
"Have you never considered what the older generation said, that a married daughter is just water thrown away?"
"Could it be that if she gets married, she won't be my daughter?"
"It's true that she is your daughter, but she has her own family."
"What do you mean when your son gets married? Isn't that his own home? Everyone's housing is tight now, so usually a son will live with his parents even if he gets married, but if conditions permit, you see
I see a few who don’t want to move out and live alone.
At that time, if the son is stronger and more filial at home, his daughter-in-law may follow suit. If the daughter-in-law is the stronger one and the son is very obedient to others, if you have not given birth to someone else or raised someone else, this son will
It's good for your wife to think about coming back to see you, but how do you expect others to be filial to you?
That’s why I thought that even if it’s a little troublesome, I would buy a new apartment for your parents so that they could live alone.”
"Nana is very good to my parents." Ding Qiunan defended herself as soon as she heard the mention of her natal family.
"I know Nana is good to my parents, but after we move here, the accommodation conditions will not be comparable to here. Let's not talk about anything else. What will our dad do if he wants to go shirtless in the summer? Is he embarrassed to have Nana at home? Still.
Regarding the issue of going to the toilet, what is the difference between using a toilet for five people and living in a large courtyard and going to a public toilet outside?
If you live together for a long time in a small space, some conflicts will break out sooner or later. Rather than embarrass your brother and make your parents uncomfortable, it is better for us to resolve it in advance. Our relationship has always been harmonious and beautiful.
That would be great."
"Yes, yes, my man is the best and the most thoughtful, MUA~ I'm going to the front."
"Let's go, I'm going to see my stinky baby too."
"Hehe, this is the benefit of having a son, otherwise you would have to travel a lot more if you want to see your child."
"Tch, after our parents move out, I will tidy up the house over there. Do you think Wen Hui wants to move here? Who will be close to her when she gives birth to her child?"
"Ah? Do you still have this idea?" Ding Qiunan really didn't expect that her husband would still have such a plan.
"That's why I don't know much about my daughter. She must not be used to living in a unit building. If she moves here, she will definitely still have a baby and have confinement here. Shen Jun's house is small, and Uncle Shen's place is too troublesome.
"
Hearing what he said, Ding Qiunan's eyes suddenly lit up, and she reached out and took her husband's arm.
"Can Xiaoyi agree to move here?"
"I can't say for sure. It will depend on your daughter's methods at that time. But judging from the current situation, I don't think the problem is big. Okay, now is not the time to consider this. Our parents haven't moved yet.
Let's go, don't talk about this in front of them, otherwise the old man and old lady will think that we want to drive them away."
"Oh, no way, I'm not stupid!" Ding Qiunan patted her man dissatisfied.
(Preview: Dear book friends, this chapter is the second update today. The next chapter will be at 17:00. Thank you for your support and encouragement.)