She could only say that it would be a waste if she didn't become a psychological counselor. At this time, Lu Jinyan, who had finished cleaning up Han Hao, walked out of the room with satisfaction. However, he was grabbed by Jiang Kexin who was very excited.
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"My dear, I want to discuss something with you." Jiang Ke looked at his man eagerly, but he was brewing an almost impossible plan in his heart.
She wants to go back to work at the newspaper office again, she wants to work. She doesn't want to be imprisoned in a cage like a canary and have to be fed by others every day.
She wants to live for herself, not to be a pampered woman.
Her mother has been teaching her since she was a child that women do not need to rely on others. Women need to have self-respect and self-reliance. Don't just rely on others. In many cases, you can do some things.
Women, although you do not need to be really strong to the point of being a strong woman, a woman needs a real reason to win respect and experience the happiness in life, not to rely on others to live and squander the money earned by others.
A successful woman needs a job of her own, even a job with low wages and poor treatment. But at least you can confidently tell your husband after the salary is paid that I can support myself!
To put it simply, when I spend my own money to buy cosmetics, I feel extra impressive. I am proud, proud, and happy.
I no longer need to spend money looking at other people’s faces, nor do I need to go out of my way to please my husband just to buy a bag I particularly like.
You can just pay for it yourself! That's the beauty of work.
Although Jiang Kexin did not receive any grievances or restrictions on money during this period of rest, it can even be said to be more than enough. However, a married woman who is almost thirty years old is still being supported by her parents.
It really made Jiang Kexin extremely ashamed.
Although Lu Jinyan had always sent money to herself secretly, how could she accept Lu Jinyan's remittance at that time? She simply couldn't do it. But the remittance slip was already in her hands.
So in desperation, Jiang Kexin donated all the remittances she received from Lu Jinyan to the Women and Children's Foundation to protect the interests of women and children.
And this time she wanted to work away from home again not only because of Shi Mingxun or because she felt embarrassed that she was spending other people's money, but also because yesterday, the Women's and Children's Foundation, which she had funded, gave her
A phone call came.
Because they have funded the foundation many times, Jiang Kexin and Li Jiawei, the director of the foundation, are very good friends. It is better to say that they are friends because they feel the injustice of fate because of each other's experiences.
Li Jiawei is a very capable and extremely beautiful woman. Her family conditions have been poor since she was a child, and her father died young. As the eldest daughter in the family, she and her mother pull up the younger brothers and sisters.
Fortunately, the family is doing well, and life is not all too difficult. But it is also very sad. After all, there are too many children in the family, and there are two boys. As the eldest daughter, Li Jiawei can be said to be very happy.
Endure hardship.
I work from dawn to dusk every day so that my family can live a good life.
Because we are in a remote rural area, people's thoughts and opinions are extremely feudal and superstitious. And people have a habit of bullying the weak and fearing the strong.
Especially when the person he bullies is a widow with several children. There is nothing to say.
The actions of the people in the village made the life of Li Jiawei's family extremely sad. Especially when various rumors spread in the village, Li Jiawei's mother really wanted to die.
Because she is a widow with several children, there is no heavy labor force in the family at all, and she can only rely on her eldest daughter Li Jiawei and herself to do the work.
But after all, there is no way that one of them is a child and the other is a woman. It is extremely difficult for men to do the work, and there are always frequent problems when working.
For a while, everyone in the village was watching their joke. This made Li Jiawei's mother feel particularly aggrieved. When Li Jiawei's father was here, his family was one of the largest families in the village.
Her father is the only intellectual in the village. He is highly educated and teaches in a middle school in the county. It can be said that no one dares to bully them. Anyone who sees her family having any difficulties has to help.
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But later, Li Jiawei's father died in order to save two children in the county who fell into the water. For a time, everything fell on the delicate shoulders of Li Jiawei's mother.
The gossip in the village also made her miserable. She and Li Jiawei's father were classmates, and they were in a free love relationship. It is no exaggeration to say that Li Jiawei's mother's knowledge was not much worse than that of his father.
But in the mountainous villages of that era, there were very few people who could read, and even those who did were all men from relatively wealthy families. There was no such thing as a girl learning to read.
Li Jiawei's mother is a special case, and she is exceptionally happy and has a happy family, which makes many people in the village feel unbalanced.
It is for this reason that after her husband passed away, most people in the village began to target this miserable woman.
Of course, it's just a part of her, and there is still a part that is willing to help her. It's like her neighbor.
Tian Long. Tian Long was Li Jiawei's mother's playmate, and he could be said to be a childhood sweetheart. It was a pity that Li Jiawei's mother went to school later, but he did not.
Later, Li Jiawei's mother got married, and he also married a woman from the same village. Although he couldn't say that he liked her, his life after marriage was considered happy.
Tian Long was capable and honest. He soon opened a large field in the village and raised a lot of livestock. His wife was also able to work.
Although he said he was cruel, he was a good worker. He was not afraid of hardship, and he could do the job better than a man. It was for this reason that while the Li family was slowly declining, their neighbors, the Tian family, had begun to take their place.
People in the village were talking about this for a while. After all, the relationship between the Tian and Li families was too close. Especially this close relationship continued after the death of Li Jiawei's father.
It can be said that Tian Long did all the dirty work in the Li family, and Tian Long's daughter-in-law was very reluctant to do so. She often quarreled with Tian Long, but after every quarrel, Tian Long continued to go to the Li family to help.
Regarding this matter, everyone in the village took it seriously. It can be said that rumors were everywhere for a while, and the Li family almost did not dare to go out. There was originally a lot of trouble in the widow's house.
Coupled with the people in the village adding fuel to the flames, it was really difficult to hear anything and everything was insulting. Li Jiawei's mother has cried many times and said that she has no face to live.
In order to shut up the concerned people in the village, young Li Jiawei brought both families to the village committee and explained the matter clearly in front of the whole village. In addition, the village director intervened to stop it.
There have been a lot less rumors.
Life went on like this, but in the blink of an eye, Li Jiawei reached the age of talking about marriage, but she firmly told her mother that she would not get married.
In fact, she knew in her heart that even if she wanted to get married, it would be impossible. As she grew older, her mother's body was no longer able to engage in high-intensity physical labor. And she was the backbone of the family.
If she gets married at this time, then the family that they have managed to maintain will really collapse. And none of this is what Li Jiawei and her mother want to see.
At that time, Li Jiawei already had someone she liked in the village. It was Dongsheng from the east end of the village. He was a well-educated and sensible young man.
Both families knew about this, and Dongsheng's family also expressed that their family liked Li Jiawei, a hard-working girl, and did not dislike her family affairs, and hoped that she and Dongsheng would get married as soon as possible.
But every time when Dongsheng mentioned this matter, Li Jiawei refused.
Dongsheng expressed his understanding and said that he was willing to wait for a few years. But it took several years. At first, Dongsheng's family didn't say anything, but as children of Dongsheng's age were running around, Dongsheng
Still not married.
Dongsheng's family members were all anxious and urged Dongsheng to get married as soon as possible. Dongsheng's parents also went to Li Jiawei's house to discuss the marriage between Li Jiawei and Dongsheng with Li Jiawei's mother.
But at that time, when several younger brothers and sisters were going to school and were about to spend money, how could Li Jiawei say that she would give up her own family and marry Dongsheng's family!
Although Li Jiawei's mother also knew that her daughter and Dongsheng were a good match, how could she let her daughter go due to the current situation at home?
After repeated attempts, she finally decided to sacrifice her eldest daughter's happiness in exchange for the future of her other children. Li Jiawei accepted her mother's decision with tears in her eyes.
A month later, Dongsheng married a girl from a neighboring village. The trumpet and suona were played for a whole day, and Li Jiawei also sat at home for a whole day without saying a word. Seeing this scene, Li Jiawei's mother felt guilty but had nothing to do.
!She had to do this for the future of her other children.
It was a busy day outside, and the Li family was deserted for a whole day. Li Jiawei sat motionless at the table like a statue.
All I can think about is everything that happened when the two of them were together, and everything that happened in the wheat bran behind the village last year. This chapter has been completed!