When I wrote it, I knew that when the last chapter came out, there would be a lot of heated discussions.
I also know that many people will feel that way when they read the last chapter, a knife stuck in their hearts.
Or maybe, a knife stuck in the heart was suddenly pulled out...
This is also the reading experience I pursue when I write. I want you to get it.
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Let’s talk about Lin Sheng.
I took a general look at the comments section and the chapter, and there were many, many compliments, so I would like to thank you in advance.
Let’s talk about the controversy.
There are two questions.
One is: Did Mr. ** do this to retaliate against Qu Xiaoling?
My answer: No.
There is no revenge. Let me guess that the brother who raised this question is not very old. I have no other intention. I really envy the young ones.
But my personal understanding of the psychological transformation of a boy into a man is that revenge is no longer important.
Just like... when you were a teenager, because of a moment of unfair treatment, you shouted to counterattack...
But many years later, when you become famous one day, do you really still have the mentality of counterattack in your heart?
No more anymore.
You won’t feel that everything you have done and worked hard for is for such a ridiculous and childish reason as [counterattack].
At that time, there may be ten thousand things in your mind, each of which is more important than the so-called "counterattack".
You are doing it for yourself, not to prove to someone who has been unfair to you.
Because... after you succeed, the person or thing that is unfair to you no longer has a sense of existence in your heart.
Therefore, what Lin Sheng did was not revenge.
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The second question is: Is it a double standard for ** students to do this? You can’t show it, but I can sleep with others? Is it a double standard?
Well, I want to say that the brother who asked this question probably didn't understand it. Maybe he read too fast.
When you wonder whether ** students have double standards,
This logic has a premise, and this premise is: in your heart, there is a preconceived standard of "right" and "wrong" for this matter.
Do you think it was wrong for Qu Xiaoling to be a young lady, so ** students cannot accept other people's mistakes, but they can do wrong things themselves.
If you look carefully, **Sheng confronts Qu Xiaoling twice, once at the entrance of Zhang Shengji's restaurant and once at the entrance of the KTV.
Both times, he did not accuse or scold Qu Xiaoling.
I didn’t criticize Qu Xiaoling from a moral perspective.
He did not insult Qu Xiaoling like: What you did was despicable and shameless...
He never made any accusations like this.
Not a word.
Not even a single sentence.
Why?
Because there is no such thing as "right" or "wrong" in the heart of a student.
He doesn't think there is anything right or wrong in this.
The only thing he was thinking about was: Do I want to be with this woman?
The only thing he struggled with was: should I accept it or not.
There is no standard of right or wrong.
It's just a matter of whether I accept it or not.
Therefore, readers who feel that there are double standards can consider this point first.
**The student never accused Qu Xiaoling of being a young lady, nor did she accuse her of being a morally wrong person.
Because there is no right or wrong, so for him, this is actually a choice.
Therefore, there is no so-called double standard.
Because there is no standard of right or wrong at all.
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Okay, enough questions.
Let's take a look at **Sheng's mental journey.
Consider it from Brother Haonan’s psychological journey: Because it is a serial, many people will ignore the previous content after reading it.
Brother Haonan first met Qu eating with another man, hugging each other and talking and laughing.
Brother Lei tore the veil apart for him and made him face the truth: this is what the lady is like.
Haonan decided that he still wanted to be with Qu.
Then two days later, I met this woman who wanted to go out with another man.
For Haonan, there is no right or wrong...
If it was wrong to be a young lady, he would not have wanted to talk to Qu after the night when he threw out 8,000 yuan. Talking to Qu meant whether they could still be together.
He doesn't think it's wrong to be a lady.
What was wrong was not being a lady, nor was being a lady wrong.
Wrong is the choice!
Precisely because it was not his fault, when he encountered a song that was about to be released, he did not criticize the other person with a single word.
I didn't accuse the other party from a moral level.
The only point of his accusation was actually that the subtext was "your attitude towards feelings is too hasty", or to put it more clearly: your attitude towards me was too hasty.
What does it mean?
It's just that if you have a fight, you will go to bed with someone else when you are angry.
What about in the future? We will never quarrel in our lives?
Otherwise, if we have a quarrel, I will worry about whether you will run out and sleep with someone else?
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This is called: What do you think I am?
You like me, you flirt with me.
You want to be a good person, so you flirt with me.
If you want to make money, let me go.
Before you took off your pants, you suddenly regretted it and asked me to come back.
What do you think I am?
Is it something that comes and goes when you call it? Is it still a Band-Aid?
Therefore, for Lin Sheng, being a young lady is not a problem.
This casual attitude is the problem.
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For Brother Haonan, he is a Jianghu person - or in other words, he is a young man who thinks he is a Jianghu person in his dream.
For Jianghu people, he could accept Miss Qu Dang and accepted her.
But you can't say you love me today, say you want to make money tomorrow, say you want to be a good person the day after tomorrow, then sleep with someone the day after tomorrow, then suddenly say you regret it after taking off your pants before sleeping with someone, and then call me back at the last second.
I am a Jianghu person with a Jianghu spirit.
This is unbearable.
You can be a young lady before, but as long as you say, from today on, you will be with me, wholeheartedly, and from now on, it will be the same, no problem, I will go out to lick the blood with my knife, even if I go out to rob the road and do beheading business to make money, I will support you.
, as long as you don’t dislike it.
But you can't say you love me today. When you meet true love, you have to behave.
Tomorrow I say you want to make a lot of money and have a good life, you go away and I will make my money and pursue my good food and clothing.
The day after tomorrow, I changed my words and said that I still missed my true love and wanted to be a good person, so please come back...
Why are you trying to change your face with me?
This is what Jianghu people don’t accept.
In fact, the question has never been whether to sleep or not.
Rather, you are determined or not.
What the Jianghu people want is a straightforward deal, a one-hammer deal. Once it's settled, it's settled.
You have to be a good person and follow me. Well, I will risk my life and make money to support you in the future, and I will never dislike what you did in the past.
You said you want to make money while lying down, that's fine, you can go your own way, and I wish you a big fortune.
But Qu Xiaoling is not sure!
Qu Xiaoling is actually sticky and swaying back and forth.
She wants both, but can't afford both.
She is passionate about sex, but at the same time she can't let go of making quick money.
I also want true love, and I also want to make quick money.
But where does such a good thing come from?
Either you go completely into the water and become a red-card goblin - which is actually not wrong. Like Xia Xia, whether it is a student or others, including the description of Xia Xia in the article, they are all restrained and there is no moral accusation.
But you can't do it at the same time.
If you are a bitch, please be a bitch to the end... If you become a bitch like Xia Xia, I don’t think readers will be disgusted with the character of Xia Xia.
If you want to stand, please stand still and don't waver.
I also want to make money from men while lying down, and I also want a man who truly loves me and treats me as a treasure.
This won't work.
So, Mr. ** left.
It means: I have chosen for you, and you have chosen. Since you have chosen, then I have also chosen.
What? Are you regretting it again?
Sorry, no!
It's not easy to give my feelings away, and it's not easy to take them back either.
Take it back and let me give it again?
Do you think I have a tap? I can turn it on and off at will.
It's that simple.
That’s why there’s that sentence: You, when, I am, what?
I can accept you as a young lady.
If you want to go out with others, I won’t scold you. I respect your choice and wish you a lot of money.
Before you took off your pants with someone else, you suddenly regretted it and wanted me to come back?
It keeps changing like this?
Do you think I'm child's play?
Do you think my feelings and decisions are child's play?
I'm sorry, my game is to either stop doing it or do it to the end.
If you're slimy, forget it, it's not what I want.
As for the last student, he said he wanted to sleep with Xia Xia.
It's nothing more than the anger in a man's heart that needs to be vented, and his emotions get the better of him.
At the same time, it is also to force myself to do something absolutely and not give myself any room to look back.
And in Lin Sheng's mind, since he didn't think it was wrong to be a lady before Qu, he also didn't think it was wrong to sleep with Xia Xia after he broke up with Qu.
These are Lin Sheng’s three views.
For him, these have nothing to do with right or wrong.
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This chapter is actually about the transformation from boyishness to masculinity.
But masculinity is actually not a good word.
real.
It's not some hot-blooded anime manliness.
The so-called man actually means:
There are many things that I have become indifferent to and don’t care about. Because I don’t care, there is no such thing as right or wrong, gain or loss.
This meaning is not quite the same as breaking the jar, but it is somewhat similar, but different.
Because men don’t think they are broken.
Men will say: Well, it doesn’t matter anymore.
Many things are no longer important.
but!
In fact, in the end, whether it is really important or not, I am afraid only he knows deep in his heart.
This is a man, not a boy.
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Some readers are controversial and think that what Lin Sheng did is wrong...probably because they have brought their own three views. The perspective from which you evaluate this place as right and wrong is actually your own three views in your mind as a reader.
However, it was not Lin Sheng's.
The actions of the people in the play and the characters in the play just follow the situation of the people in the play.
above.
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Finally: Thank you to the many readers who praised me about this chapter.
But in fact... I say it very clearly: In fact, many of the contents of my books are just lighthearted articles, and they do not have that much depth.
It's just that I strive to achieve some different angles in the process of having fun.
There are a lot of compliments, but I don’t deserve them.
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Okay, I quite like to talk about articles and characters.
Thank you for your support,
Thank you for your controversy. Being controversial means that you at least read my books and the characters I wrote about.