"If I put myself in someone else's shoes, it would definitely be like this, and I would hate myself very much," Sister Chen said.
The two of them were talking, and Sister Chen gradually calmed down. Sometimes her words would have their own inertia, which would unknowingly pull the speaker away from other emotions and be carried away by this inertia.
Sister Chen and Sheng Chuncheng said: "However, no one will put myself in my shoes or look at the problem from my perspective. This is probably the crux of the problem."
Sheng Chuncheng has been the biggest "official" since he was a child, that is, the team leader in his class. He has only a partial understanding of what Sister Chen said, and he has no way to think from other people's perspective and look at the problem from Sister Chen's perspective.
What position is it and can I change it? I am not even qualified to take the civil service examination, let alone understand her.
Sheng Chuncheng can only think about Sister Chen from the perspective of an ordinary person, a diaosi. In the eyes of ordinary people, those who can work in a civic center and often appear on TV and newspapers are not all superior to themselves.
We are thousands of miles apart, and if it weren't for door-to-door service, I probably wouldn't have been able to come into contact with such a person in my life.
"Actually, the principles are the same, not that complicated." Sister Chen said, "Whether it is between ordinary people or between people in our position, the principle of getting along with others is that their relationship is
Likewise, no one is exempt from vulgarity.
"We are a society based on favors. When Xiaosheng goes to ask for help, the favors he owes need to be repaid. For me, it is the same. A phone call may not be as important as asking for help, but after the call is made and the matter is done, it is still the same.
Yes, you still owe a favor, even if the person you owe is my subordinate.
"He opened the back door for you today. If something happens to him tomorrow, how can I criticize him?
"If my brother takes over the project from me, the people below will definitely give him the green light. Although he got the project through public bidding, not all the units that won the bid can be like him. Everyone he meets along the way
Is it a green light? Impossible. To put it bluntly, it’s not because of me.
"Those who gave him the green light, if something happens in the future, even if they don't come to me, they will go to my brother. Will my brother come to me to intercede for them? Do I want to sell this face? As long as I sell, then
It's not as simple as giving the green light. Things are complicated and advanced. I can guarantee that as long as there is a leadership position vacancy in my department, there will be a lot of people looking for my brother with money.
"Should I continue to sell my brother's face? If I don't sell it, I will still get the reputation of being disowned by my relatives. Sell it. Once this kind of mouth is opened, it cannot be closed. How many people have fallen here when they wrestled?
Anyone who cannot pass the test of family ties will definitely not be a good official. There are no exceptions.
"This is the simplest one. As long as I can show off my face, I don't have to give up. What about the one where I can't even save my face?
"Those colleagues at the same level as me, as long as they can talk to you, they think you can handle this matter, and you can't handle it. People know that it is not a matter of ability, but a matter of willingness. Don't come here with these vain people.
Everyone knows the joints inside, and everyone understands the market conditions.
"Many times, when he comes to ask you for a peach, he actually brings plums and prepares them for you, so you won't suffer any loss. What should you do? Are you just so confused? What do you want to say?
, everyone knows, I don’t need you to educate me, why are you pretending?
"And your superiors, especially those old leaders who have promoted you but have now retired, what do you do when they ask you to do something? Just ignore it? Those people will come to your office and point at you.
My nose scolds you for being ungrateful and laments that your own people are gone.
"I'm sitting in the office, and it's not easy to hold on to that seat. There are undercurrents every day. For me, the most important thing I need to learn is how to refuse, to refuse skillfully, but no matter how skillful I am, I still refuse after all.
, it will still offend and hurt people.
"Actually, it's not that I don't recognize my relatives, but that I have no choice but to spank my sister and brother to show others. You are right to say that I stepped on them to climb up, and you are right to say that I am just trying to gain fame. I just want this reputation.
Even my own relatives are so heartless. Those who want to come to me will think twice about whether they will come to me. I tell them to keep silent.
"I sit in this seat, not to brag. I dare to say in front of anyone that I am worthy of this seat. I have a clear conscience. But, what's the use?"
Sister Chen sighed and lowered her voice. She said: "No matter how you say it, I am also a human being and a woman, not a piece of wood. I also have my desires and need to be loved. I have my physical needs. I
I can’t pass this test, so I can’t just run out and look for ducks, can I?”
"Does he love you?" Sheng Chuncheng asked.
Sister Chen was silent for a while, and then she said: "Whether you love it or not, what's the point now? I've included my daughter in it."
Sheng Chuncheng felt nervous. He wanted to tell Sister Chen that it wasn't worth it. It didn't mean that it wasn't worth it for Guo Shuang to have an accident because of this, but that it wasn't worth it for you to destroy yourself for him. Sheng Chuncheng wanted to say
Say, I have met that person, and I think he is not worthy of you. From the first moment I saw him, I felt that you are not a good match. He and you are not the same kind of people at all.
Sheng Chuncheng was silent and said nothing.
Sister Chen took the wine bottle next to her and was about to drink. Sheng Chuncheng took the bottle from her hand and said to her:
Sister Chen smiled bitterly: "This is already the case. Do I still need to cherish my feathers? I have already been stripped naked, so there are no feathers left."
In front of Sister Chen, Sheng Chuncheng felt that he was clumsy and tongue-tied. He could not say anything to comfort her. Needless to say, Sister Chen understood more than he thought.
Sheng Chuncheng stood up and stretched out his hand towards Sister Chen. Sister Chen didn't know what he was going to do, but she still held it. Sheng Chuncheng pulled Sister Chen up and said to her:
"What you need most now is to take a shower and have a good sleep. You need to be strong, not for others or Guo Shuang, but for yourself."
Sister Chen stood there, looking at him, with tears flashing in her eyes, Sheng Chuncheng said:
"I hope you will be fine. Let's go. I will stay with you."
Sheng Chuncheng held Sister Chen's hand and walked towards her room. This was the first time Sheng Chuncheng entered Sister Chen's room. Sheng Chuncheng asked Sister Chen: "Is there a place to sit?"
Sister Chen said: "Just sit on the bed."
Sheng Chuncheng sat down on the bed and said to Sister Chen, "You go take a shower. I'll sit here and wait for you."
Sister Chen hesitated for a moment, then finally took off her clothes and entered the bathroom.
When Sister Chen came out of the bathroom, she saw that Sheng Chuncheng had turned the pillow on the bed and placed it at the end of the bed. Sheng Chuncheng said to Sister Chen:
"You lie down."
Sister Chen lay down on the bed.
Sheng Chuncheng sat next to Sister Chen. He bent the thumbs of his hands and made fists with the other four fingers outside. He turned his fists sideways and used the backs of his thumbs to move from Sister Chen's
Starting from the tip of the nose, scraping across the eyebrows, all the way across the forehead, and continuing towards the top of the head.
Then, the thumbs of his fists were brought together between the eyebrows, and together they were pushed along the brow bones, one at a time, to the temples, and then the backs of his fingers were used to rub the temples gently.
After a while, Sister Chen snored and fell asleep.
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