Sun Hong looked at Sheng Chuncheng and said to him: "After breakfast, you should change your clothes and dress more formally."
Sheng Chuncheng said: "What for? I don't have a meeting."
"If you don't have a meeting, dress more formally. Today is not Saturday or Sunday. It is an official working day. Even if you are locked up here, you cannot relax your requirements on yourself. There must be a sense of ritual." Sun Hong said.
Sheng Chuncheng looked at Sun Hong laughing and thought she was telling a joke.
Sun Hong did not laugh, but said seriously: "I'm telling you the truth. Besides, if you walk around in front of me dressed like this, I will feel very uncomfortable and I won't be able to concentrate."
Please be careful, you will get scolded by me."
Sheng Chuncheng asked: "I must listen to you?"
Sun Hong nodded and said in an unquestionable tone: "I'm at home, and I'm in charge of this home now. I can let you make the decision in the evenings and on days off."
Sheng Chuncheng said: "Okay, listen to you, listen to you, I will change it later, okay?"
"Okay." Sun Hong nodded, "Also, you are the boss now, and the boss must behave like a boss. Do you know why those emperors in the past worked so hard in the morning? Even in winter, they would work at three or four in the morning.
It’s about time to get up, freshen up and dress up for hours, and go to work dressed uncomfortably?
"He can chop off the heads of the people below, so why do he have to dress like that to see them instead of lying on a bed with a quilt on top and being carried to the morning court, which is so much easier? How comfortable? You
You know why, this is dignity, you have to maintain your image in front of the people below, and the people below will respect you in their hearts.
"Only when people respect you from the bottom of their hearts, and you have authority in front of them, will people listen to what you say, and will they be convinced to do whatever you ask them to do. Otherwise, if they deal with you on the surface, they will also deal with you behind the scenes.
When doing things, I am also dealing with you. Your unit will definitely not do well.
"If this hadn't been the case, I would have gone back to the office with a blushing face yesterday afternoon, walked into the office, closed the door, and lay down on the sofa in the office to sleep. Who would have cared about me? No one would have cared about me, not even the head office.
The leaders came to check on my work temporarily. When they saw me like this, I just had to explain to them that I was having dinner with Wan Jiangang at noon, and they wouldn't care and would let me have a good rest.
"But you can't stop it. The people below will talk about you and look down on you. You can't explain to them that you were eating with clients at noon. They don't know what you did and will only believe what they see.
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"Sheng Chuncheng, do you know that you are the boss, and you will always be the boss in front of your employees. This boundary cannot be compromised. The boss must behave like a boss, and this cannot be compromised."
Sheng Chuncheng nodded and said yes, I understand.
Sun Hong continued: "Also, at this time, if you can, you can set a time, hold a meeting at this time every day, and let the people below report the situation to you instead of chatting with them. There is a difference between reporting and chatting.
, if you ask them to hold a formal meeting and report, they will seriously prepare what they want to report.
"Looking at each other and talking about work is different from talking on the phone or chatting. You have to let them and yourself get into the role. This way they will have a chord in their hearts and know that they have to do things well and get things done.
It’s good to report it.”
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"Is this also a sense of ritual?" Sheng Chuncheng asked.
"Yes." Sun Hong said, "The meeting itself is a ritual. Otherwise, there would be no need to hold the meeting, let alone arrange the venue so neatly. Why is it that the more important the meeting, the more solemn and elaborate the venue will be?
This principle.
"You hold regular meetings with them every day to make them feel that you, the boss, are always there. In this way, even if you leave for 140 days, let alone 14 days, you will still have control of the company's situation.
"Otherwise, within a week, the people below you will feel free. Anyway, the boss is not here, so you can come wherever you want. When you return to the company, you may not even recognize the company. Of course, the people below you, Xinxin and Xiaoan
They are all good people, and they won’t do anything inappropriate, but you are the boss, so you can’t rely on their self-awareness, but your own
I can control it.”
Sheng Chuncheng thought about it and felt that what Sun Hong said made sense. He said yes, thank you!
"How do you know this? Someone taught you?" Sheng Chuncheng asked.
"No. I learned and summed it up myself." Sun Hong said, "I also started from the bottom. When I was a loan officer, I often thought about what I should do if I were a section chief or a president. How could I do it?
I thought more about managing and motivating people like me. When I became section chief, vice president and president, I suddenly realized that I was actually ready.
"So, it is wrong to say that you are dedicated and love your job. It is right to be dedicated, but you cannot love your job. If you love your job, you will not make progress. Doesn't love require you to be devoted? You have to love your higher position.
Only in this way can you push yourself and make progress.”
Sheng Chuncheng smiled and said, "Isn't this just the old saying, a soldier who doesn't want to be a general is not a good soldier."
"Yes, that's the truth." Sun Hong said, patting Sheng Chuncheng's cheek affectionately with her hand.
After breakfast and washing the dishes, Sheng Chuncheng obediently went back to the room to change clothes. When he walked into the room, he saw that his bed had been neatly made and the quilts were folded. Sheng Chuncheng shook his head.
He felt a little admired in his heart. He thought, no wonder such a self-disciplined person can do such a good job.
At the same time, I was thinking, if I really live with Sun Hong and there is nothing wrong with the family, she must be the one who makes the decision. She makes the decision and manages herself like the employees below her. Let me go. What will happen at home?
No freedom at all?
In comparison, Sheng Chuncheng felt that at home, she would rather the other person was like Ding Huamei, throwing things around randomly. There is no need for a sense of ritual in life. If the sense of ritual is too fake, it will leave him no space.
Sheng Chuncheng walked to the door of the study and saw that Sun Hong was already sitting at the desk, working. Sheng Chuncheng looked at her back for a while and felt that the lines of the back were a bit stiff. He was at the door of the community, looking at
As she drove away, her empty back was different.
Sheng Chuncheng sighed in his heart and walked away. He walked to the living room and sat down on the sofa. He thought about what Sun Hong had said to him before and felt that her description of the job was still correct.
Sheng Chuncheng simply took out a pen and paper. He thought about what should be done today in Nanjing, Ma Shi Street and LinkedIn School, and what things were going on today. He had to think about these first, write them down, and then call them for a meeting.
, explain the matter.
At noon, Sheng Chuncheng made the noodles that Dabai sent in the morning and asked Sun Hong to eat them. Sun Hong kept shouting "delicious, delicious" while eating.
Sheng Chuncheng asked: "Do you think whatever I do is delicious?"
Sun Hong looked at him and smiled: "Who makes me a polite girl."
Sheng Chuncheng said: "Actually, there is no need to be so polite."
Sun Hong still smiled: "But it's really delicious. Can't I praise it?"
When Sheng Chuncheng started cooking dinner, Sun Hong also got off work and changed into pajamas and pajamas. Sheng Chuncheng asked her to go to the living room to rest, but she refused and stayed in the kitchen, saying she wanted to help, but she felt that she couldn't help.
But he still stood and refused to leave.
When Sheng Chuncheng started cooking, she stood behind Sheng Chuncheng, couldn't help but stretched out her hands, hugged him from behind, pressed her face against his back, and said to him:
"Thank you for being so kind to me."
Sheng Chuncheng smiled. He didn't know, and he didn't have any confidence in his heart. He felt that Sun Hong seemed to be talking to himself or someone else.