After Sheng Chuncheng finished speaking, it was Sun Hong's turn. Sun Hong said: "Actually, my experience is quite simple."
Sheng Chuncheng asked: "You won't leave school and never fall in love again after arriving in Hangzhou, right?"
"No, but that is not love." Sun Hong said.
"What is that?" Sheng Chuncheng asked.
Sun Hong didn't say anything, and both of them were silent. After a while, Sun Hong sighed and said:
"Actually, it's quite difficult for people like us to have a family and a normal life."
"You mean, because you became the female bank president?" Sheng Chuncheng asked.
"Not only being a female bank president, but also being a female loan officer, it is very difficult to have a happy marriage. I haven't gotten married yet, firstly because I am afraid of marriage, secondly because I am very disappointed in men, and also,
In fact, I am quite disappointed with myself and don't think highly of myself." Sun Hong smiled bitterly, "I feel that I am destined not to be worthy of a normal marriage."
"Why?"
"Nowadays, there are many female presidents in every bank, but as far as I know, whether married or not, there is no one who is not stumbling. When we get together, talking about it is full of tears. No one believes it. Look at our appearance.
Glossy, I thought we were being pretentious, but we were really not.
"Most of those who have not married are like me, each with his or her own difficulties and the same. Those who have married, none of them seems to have a happy marriage. It is either a cold war or a hot war. In our industry, as I said,
The husband of the original 'Miss West Lake' who interviewed me when I was working came to work, and the scene was horrible to watch."
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Sun Hong smiled bitterly, shook her head, and asked Sheng Chuncheng: "Do you know why everyone is so miserable?"
Sheng Chuncheng said: "I don't know, why?"
"I really thought about this, but the more I thought about it, the more scared I became." Sun Hong said, "Think about it, who are the people we deal with on a daily basis? When we go to the branch president and deal with him directly,
Whether it's a loan or a deposit, the business will definitely be big. We wouldn't talk about dealing with an individual business owner, right?
"The people we deal with are basically successful according to worldly standards. If you deal with successful people every day, your horizons will naturally be high. If you look at your husband or boyfriend, they are unsuccessful no matter how you look at them.
, she will despise her in her heart, whether she likes it or not, as time goes by, this kind of thought will come naturally.
"Female President, outside, I eat and play with those successful people every day. Whether they are playing tricks or pretending to be insincere, they will always say flattering words to you. You will be very happy with it.
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"You go out drunk every day and come home, almost exhausted and terribly uncomfortable. Then when you come home, you see that unsuccessful man. Not only does he not know how to pour you a glass of water, but he also puts on a stinky face.
I'll show you my face. I think you're out all day long and don't go home. I think you don't mop the floor, don't cook, and don't tutor your children in their studies. Will you get angry out of nowhere?
"Fuck you, if I can do all these things at home, that's fine. I can also go from nine to five, take the kids to and from school every day, come home on time every day, and cook all the meals. That's fine. Then you can spend the money to buy a house.
Earn, you earn the tuition fees for children’s tutoring classes, you earn the famous brands you wear, and you earn the food for home, can you earn it back?
"A grown man who has no abilities and only knows how to play tricks at home. You're so rude. I've seen a lot of successful men outside. When I come back, I'm going to be pissed off by you, a bastard. Get the hell out of me."
"It's just such a mental journey, very similar. Think about it, how can family life be happy? The less happy she is, the less she wants to go home. Anyway, she has somewhere to go, whether in the name of work or not.
No matter what, there is never a shortage of men around her, and there is no shortage of people who flatter her.
"If the one at home is a coward, swallows his anger, doesn't say anything, and keeps all his dissatisfaction in his heart, then he can have a cold war and maintain the superficial peace and respectability. If he encounters a petty-minded person who suspects that a woman is outside,
Every day, I would have a heated battle with this boss or that boss, this or that, and the fight would be fierce.
"Can you understand what I say? Do you think I want to create a cold war battlefield for myself, or a hot war battlefield?"
"You are too pessimistic." Sheng Chuncheng said.
"It's not pessimism, it's reality." Sun Hong said, "I have never had extravagant hopes for this. So I would like to remind you that this woman is untouchable, so be careful."
Sheng Chuncheng laughed loudly and asked, "What if I touch it?"
"That's asking for trouble." Sun Hong turned around in the darkness, looked at Sheng Chuncheng and said, "In the beginning, you might still be able to bear it. If you think you won't come back, you won't come back. If you fall drunk downstairs, you
You will go down and carry me up. But believe me, you won’t last long. These days will come to an end soon, if you don’t lie to yourself.”
Sheng Chuncheng thought for a while, if his wife really did this every day, he really didn't want to live such a life, and such a home would definitely not be like a home.
But, "Are you so sober that you are causing trouble for yourself?" Sheng Chuncheng asked.
Sun Hong said yes, that would be better than turning one person's trouble into two people's.
"Trouble cannot be avoided. We are friends and you are a good person. For the sake of friends, even if I trouble you again and again, you will not find it troublesome. But if I were your girlfriend or wife, this would not be trouble, but a disaster.
If you look at it, you will be bored, do you admit it?" Sun Hong asked.
"I remember that I seemed to have asked you this question on the first day, and you gave me an honest answer then." Sun Hong added.
Sheng Chuncheng said: "What you said makes sense, but you are not as terrible as you say."
"Not scary?" Sun Hong sneered, "You mean when I'm awake, now? I'm a little cute like this now, so you still have impulses, am I right?"
Sheng Chuncheng nodded and said yes.
"But it will be worn away. All the good sides, the sides you think are cute, will be worn away over time. A woman, no matter how beautiful she is, is she still cute when she is drunk? Do you think it's all Shi Xiangyun?
, you can lie drunk among peony bushes and still be naive and cute, that’s just it.”
Sun Hong said and laughed softly:
"Let me ask you, what would you do if you were on the subway and a beautiful girl who looked like me was sitting next to you, and she leaned over and rested her head on your shoulder like I am now? Your heart would definitely beat
Speed up, tell yourself, hold the grass, what kind of luck did you have today, will it happen, do you think you will?"
Sheng Chuncheng smiled and said, "Okay, yes."
"Then she suddenly opened her mouth, said 'wow', and vomited all over you?"
"I'm going!" Sheng Chuncheng shouted.
Sun Hong chuckled and said: "See, this is your truest reaction. Time will wear away everything. It will eliminate all the good impressions I have in your mind. What is left in the end is
He gnashed his teeth and cursed, 'This drunken woman'."
Sheng Chuncheng shook his head and asked, "Isn't it fun for you to do this to yourself?"
Sun Hong nodded and said, "Think about this more, at least you won't have anything to figure out."